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Yep...all valid points
Hobbynator 168 reads
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And TER has tried to accommodate those who wish to not get involved in more raucous discussions.

It's the +60 board...and I know you spend a great deal of time there.  You've stated how you don't like the GD board.

So ask TER to start a "grumpy pants" board.  And then all the grumpy pants can just stay there and bash the posters who enjoy the "friendly banter"...or maybe try it yourself.

Just a thought!  

No alias here!

Posted By: OldTraveler
You have all sorts in a community like this, and it isn't based upon the topic of the board.

The annonymity sadly brings out the anti-social and juvenile aspects of a few people.  Take that a step farther with aliases and people now lose even more inhibitions since they can protect the "reputation" of their "real" handle.

The bullies, the police, and the jerks all tend to be more vocal than the norm so their small numbers seem magnified.

The "police" are in many ways the most annoying to me.  They tend to believe their view of what the board should/should not be is inherently better than other folks.  What is one person's "inappropriate" post is often someone else's humoros or informative post.  I wish more would just skip over the topics that don't interest them.

At least bullies and jerks tend to only get thier posts removed.

ChipperJones550 reads

TER is great. It's help me to have some great times with providers. What I don't understand about this and other boards is why a few people feel like it's their job to police the boards. They must troll the boards, see something they don't like and try to start drama and train wrecks. They resort to name calling and just get real personal with their criticism. I don't get it. They must be miserable people with way too much time on their hands. I'm told at least a couple of them are former moderators, who must feel like less of a person since they've had their "power" removed.
I'm sure you know the 2 or 3 I'm talking about.

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lungman230 reads

of discussion boards.
I wouldn't put the blame on x-mods though.
A little drama is good IMO, as long as it doesn't resort to personal threats.

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Hobbynator240 reads

Maybe you don't really follow these boards all that closely.

Check out who the most prolific posters and train wreck artists are.

I don't remember too many female mods at the end either!

The boards have changed...a ton more estrogen than before.

Can I come to the inauguration?

Posted By: ChipperJones
TER is great. It's help me to have some great times with providers. What I don't understand about this and other boards is why a few people feel like it's their job to police the boards. They must troll the boards, see something they don't like and try to start drama and train wrecks. They resort to name calling and just get real personal with their criticism. I don't get it. They must be miserable people with way too much time on their hands. I'm told at least a couple of them are former moderators, who must feel like less of a person since they've had their "power" removed.
I'm sure you know the 2 or 3 I'm talking about.

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macdaddy1944181 reads

board cops and petty tyrants are a necessary evil..trolls will always troll..

Posted By: ChipperJones
TER is great. It's help me to have some great times with providers. What I don't understand about this and other boards is why a few people feel like it's their job to police the boards. They must troll the boards, see something they don't like and try to start drama and train wrecks. They resort to name calling and just get real personal with their criticism. I don't get it. They must be miserable people with way too much time on their hands. I'm told at least a couple of them are former moderators, who must feel like less of a person since they've had their "power" removed.
I'm sure you know the 2 or 3 I'm talking about.

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serpius197 reads

... and it's unfortunate that people tend to be that way.

I do not know who the former moderators were and it really doesn't matter to me.

The way some people conduct themselves in the forums are at best to be labeled as childish and most of them use the 'Alias' function because they don't want anyone to view their real handle differently. That's lame.

Why do these people do these things? Geez... the reasons that I can come up with would be enough to fill a US Navy destroyer.

The link below will take you to an article that was written 5 years ago, but still quite valid. Very interesting reading. Not a long article.

Serpius

Posted By: ChipperJones
TER is great. It's help me to have some great times with providers. What I don't understand about this and other boards is why a few people feel like it's their job to police the boards. They must troll the boards, see something they don't like and try to start drama and train wrecks. They resort to name calling and just get real personal with their criticism. I don't get it. They must be miserable people with way too much time on their hands. I'm told at least a couple of them are former moderators, who must feel like less of a person since they've had their "power" removed.
I'm sure you know the 2 or 3 I'm talking about.
-- Modified on 10/5/2012 3:30:16 PM
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ChipperJones162 reads

Certainly not everyone who steps foot into these forums are monsters or addicts, it's just that the monsters have a habit of taking over. Why can some people cope with these unnatural interactions as if they were engaging with people in real life and why do others take on sanctimonious or belligerent attitudes?

There's a difference between healthy debating and blatant antagonizing. In an online setting where you can't see facial expressions or always sniff out witty sarcasm, people can easily misconstrue others' intended words. Next time you find yourself in a hostile thread, try to take the high ground and shrug off offending comments. Users should also try to gracefully respect comments that differ in opinion even if they are unpopular statements about highly controversial topics. Always report any obvious attempts of flaming to the moderator before it gets out of hand. That's what they're there for.

If you are the offender, and are going off for the gratification of starting chaos or inflating your own self-esteem, perhaps seeking therapy might be in order or at least ask yourself why you harbor so much animosity towards the world. It is never okay to rationalize personal attacks with anonymity. Respect the person's rights, regardless of viewpoint. I'm just waiting for the day when someone turns around and sues a forum's host for damages caused by anxiety, high blood pressure or a heart attack. The way forums are going these days

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Hobbynator173 reads

That I use the boards as recreational sport.

He just texted me and is advising you to do the same.

So...how about it?  Can I meet you in Canton?

Posted By: ChipperJones
Certainly not everyone who steps foot into these forums are monsters or addicts, it's just that the monsters have a habit of taking over. Why can some people cope with these unnatural interactions as if they were engaging with people in real life and why do others take on sanctimonious or belligerent attitudes?

There's a difference between healthy debating and blatant antagonizing. In an online setting where you can't see facial expressions or always sniff out witty sarcasm, people can easily misconstrue others' intended words. Next time you find yourself in a hostile thread, try to take the high ground and shrug off offending comments. Users should also try to gracefully respect comments that differ in opinion even if they are unpopular statements about highly controversial topics. Always report any obvious attempts of flaming to the moderator before it gets out of hand. That's what they're there for.

If you are the offender, and are going off for the gratification of starting chaos or inflating your own self-esteem, perhaps seeking therapy might be in order or at least ask yourself why you harbor so much animosity towards the world. It is never okay to rationalize personal attacks with anonymity. Respect the person's rights, regardless of viewpoint. I'm just waiting for the day when someone turns around and sues a forum's host for damages caused by anxiety, high blood pressure or a heart attack. The way forums are going these days

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cashorcredit149 reads

And i think some of you take this shit way to seriously.

Have fun and enjoy life.

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Hobbynator160 reads

And couldn't get one of those orange belts to wear.

Sorry  :(

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RichardHeadIII176 reads

...people poked fun at you all your life, now didn't they?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=gBkOlgU3MYY

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OldTraveler168 reads

You have all sorts in a community like this, and it isn't based upon the topic of the board.

The annonymity sadly brings out the anti-social and juvenile aspects of a few people.  Take that a step farther with aliases and people now lose even more inhibitions since they can protect the "reputation" of their "real" handle.

The bullies, the police, and the jerks all tend to be more vocal than the norm so their small numbers seem magnified.

The "police" are in many ways the most annoying to me.  They tend to believe their view of what the board should/should not be is inherently better than other folks.  What is one person's "inappropriate" post is often someone else's humoros or informative post.  I wish more would just skip over the topics that don't interest them.

At least bullies and jerks tend to only get thier posts removed.

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Hobbynator169 reads

And TER has tried to accommodate those who wish to not get involved in more raucous discussions.

It's the +60 board...and I know you spend a great deal of time there.  You've stated how you don't like the GD board.

So ask TER to start a "grumpy pants" board.  And then all the grumpy pants can just stay there and bash the posters who enjoy the "friendly banter"...or maybe try it yourself.

Just a thought!  

No alias here!

Posted By: OldTraveler
You have all sorts in a community like this, and it isn't based upon the topic of the board.

The annonymity sadly brings out the anti-social and juvenile aspects of a few people.  Take that a step farther with aliases and people now lose even more inhibitions since they can protect the "reputation" of their "real" handle.

The bullies, the police, and the jerks all tend to be more vocal than the norm so their small numbers seem magnified.

The "police" are in many ways the most annoying to me.  They tend to believe their view of what the board should/should not be is inherently better than other folks.  What is one person's "inappropriate" post is often someone else's humoros or informative post.  I wish more would just skip over the topics that don't interest them.

At least bullies and jerks tend to only get thier posts removed.

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OldTraveler150 reads

I have never said I don't like the General board.  I have said I think it's not as good as it used to be (5-8 years back).

I do visit the 60+ board, but to say I sapend "a great deal of time" there is a serious overstatement.  I don't spend a huge amount of time on any of these boards.  Too much else going on in my life.

And my point was certainly NOT to curtail the banter on here--go back and reread my post.  I was arguing AGAINST folks who want to remove every post that doesn't pass their view of what should be allowed.  To restate:  I wish more would just skip over the topics that don't interest them.

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Left Fielder144 reads

I couldn't have said it better myself. You put eloquently into words what I've tried to say. Why do they believe their view of what the board should be is the "law" and they are, without a doubt, the most annoying people on TER.

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Bonnie_N_Clyde147 reads

80% are the most annoying people anywhere you go. That's being 3rd string does to a person. It changes them for life and we pay for it.

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crazyshit121 reads

I don't get that, either, but then again, internet boards have a tendency to create a clique-like sense of community, and attract a certain type of individual.  More often than not, those individuals find their identities on boards like these.

Whatever works for them.  I just ignore the other shit as best as I can.

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ChipperJones133 reads

I ain't got to pay for it.

-- Modified on 10/6/2012 4:49:06 PM

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