There's a provider I know of who is just 18 years old; I cannot bring myself to make an appointment with her -- but if she were, say 20+, it would be easier and if she were 25+ it would be no problem.  Anyone ever hit a "barrier" like this?  I am not looking for special dispensation (only I could give that to myself); I just don't think I can get past this regardless of the fact that 18 is legal.   Any comments?

-Hoot.

25+ No problem
20-25 Maybe
18-20 No way

The younger they are, the more chance they're in this profession for all the wrong reasons.

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I agree, not that all providers are like this.  but, I have seen one 18 and one 19 and both seem to just go through the motions.  I found that the 25+ providers really enjoy themselves more making a better time for all!!

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they are after a quick buck 'cause they know a little bit about sex but so often (as I've seen) very, very little about anything else a man might want. Quite a number 'test the waters' and find it too cold so they must slither back up to dry land.

For a variety of reasons, a couple of which others have stated & more might be said, I wouldn't even consider seeing a gal that young.  But one of the reasons is that I find myself a poor judge of age based on appearance with someone that young and....how the hell would a guy know that she might not be younger than 18yo?  Sure, I supposed we could turn the tables & do the asking for ID ourselves, but when the little head is the one doing the thinking would everyone remember & insist on doing that?  And anyone who likes 'em young & doesn't do that should know how to spell statutory!

that the biggest market for us gals is gentleman wanting 30yrs+ providers...I had NO idea(thank god..I luve you guys).. I didnt think anyone would call me when I started, thinking everyone wanted a younger girl. It couldnt have been further from the truth...in the year and a half Ive been doing this, I hear time after time from gentleman 35yrs+ that they have nothing in common with a someone so young, so there is nothing to really connect with during longer dinner dates and for shorter dates, gentleman tell me most are immature sexually, emotionally or act like its a honor to be in their presence so they dont even try. Image wise too, from what Ive been told, its more 'acceptable' to be seen out with someone that can handle certain social situations that a young person with no life's experiance cant.Im sure there are exceptions, perhaps if she is well traveled and/or well educated..Amy Taylor for example.
 I can say for myself that I would have been pretty messed up if I started 18-23,how could a person NOT be???..Im glad I waited until I was emotionally and sexually together. ified on 11/5/2002 9:59:29 AM

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Ok, want to have a good time with a hot 21 year old, invite the 35 year old too!  Ouch! lol

Fitguy

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interesting till they're 30. I think alot of people who really study reviews here, will find a provider scores much higher if they provide a hobbiest with more than a moist hole or 3. Many of us like stimulating conversation and actual, "lovemaking" than just humping. Older/"experienced" providers seem to cater to those desires, needs and wants.

Saint Bart thinks it is ok to patronize 16 year old girls as providers if that is the age of consent in the state you find yourself! (See one of his posts from a few years ago below, note paragraph 2) The kind of ethical values you would expect from a "man" who is often accused of shaking down providers and agencies by bartering his status as a "respected" poster.

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LOL Women freak out about age and turning 30, 40 etc..a women who takes care..

of herself can be beautiful at ANY age. I feel so much more admiration for an older women, because looking good takes some work, unlike the 20 year old where they roll out of bed and just start the day
Ive spent  some time in Paris and Rome and guys worship and respect the mature ladies..Im not saying always in a sexual way but there is a certain admiration that was facinating to witness, because you just dont see it to that extent here in the US.
 I do understand tho that all this is about fantasy...but again, I have always been so surprised to see guys rolling their eyes at the mention of being seen with someone so much younger.And how much the 30yr+ providers are in demand..

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Women who know what they are about rock my world. Women who have been around the block and know whe she wants... YEAH! Women who are not afraid to be women. I like a woman who knows what feels good and what feels GREAT. I love a woman who will take as good as she gives.... and expect no less.

and thanks, GirlCrazy

Hey Hoot,
Please send me a private E mail w/info re: this "young lass"  & where she can be found. I will get back to you all w/ a review. Thanks, CC

I'm glad your emotionally and sexually together..cause you are the BEST!!!

Re:LOL Women freak out about age and turning 30, 40 etc..a women who takes care..

Ali...I would take you over any younger provider any day!!!!..your just simply the BEST!!!

Women should never lie about their ages. I believe the 40's are a women's best years.  Expecially if she's experienced love, marriage, childbirth and divorce... what's left but to travel the world, meet handsome men, shop, and repeat the cycle until you reached 50!

xoxoxo
Tygrlily
40+ and loving it!

she's within 5 years of me, so i'd be willing to give her a try as well. i'll post a review, if you can give me some contact info...thanks

anyone on this board under 30??

You love us for our minds.  We hear that all the time!

Nicole - you're the best!

Fitguy

I would say that even plus 35 as my starting point. Women reach their sexual peak at 35. THis is a biological fact. Every girl I have talked to over 35 has said that the sex now is better and the orgasms more intense then they ever were in their 20's.

Besides that I agree that a more mature woman who accepts who she is and is comfortable in her own skin as are men, shows a sense of confidence that is attractive.

I only wish that I had lost my virginity to an older more experienced woman when I was 18. Could have made the transition to young adult less painful....

All you need to do for proof is look at the top dollar prices that the most expensive providers are getting. Almost all of them are over 30+++

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while I agree that they are not as exerienced and are often uncomfortable with the situation, sometimes there is nothing better than a nice, tight 18 year old at your command.
I don't see how the others justify that somehow having sex with older women is somehow less exploitative.  Sure, maybe there is less exploitation of the woman going on, but at $$$+ an hour for private incall escorts, there is surely more exploitation of the man going on!
If anybody has to be exploited in this game, I prefer it is less often me and more often the escort.  When I do pay L.A. rates, even at MP's, however, I am definitely the exploited one.  However, when I pay $25 for a beautiful 18 year old in TJ or $40 for a similarly beautiful 18 year old in a place like Cape Town, I feel like I am the one exploiting the woman.  While I sympathize, I quickly get over it, just as I am sure an escort doesn't shed many tears when charging her clients more than a top attorney or doctor charges.
18 is OK by me.

Personally, I love it when Nicole talks science...

she has a # of reviews? so..could you please tell me who she is?? thanks

Unfortunately, we all cant have our shit together at such a young age, like yourself Zorro

Failures? Me? Never! Only learning experiances that have helped me grow..'the only 'failures' in the world are the people that never tried'   xxo

are absurdly overpaid.  
I figure sooner, rather than later, that I will abandon MP's altogether and instead choose to reduce my hobbying slightly, allowing me to see only the finest women.
When the atmosphere is right, nothing beats a good incall provider...music, candles, drinks, laughter, intelligent conversation, flirting, etc.  However, a woman with just a hot body but little intelligence and/or personality who just spreads her legs, is not worth the $$$+ rate, IMO.
Trust me, I have more of a problem paying a recent immigrant provider $175 (or quadruple what she would make for the same service just months earlier) than I do paying $350+ for a woman of, say, your caliber.  Unfortunately, due to being in a codependent relationship--question, is it still codependent if I am not at all possessive and don't mind if she disappears for a few hours or a couple days???--I am not able to go off the radar screen for more than an hour at a time.
I can honestly get the same experiences that I do at MP's in TJ or in any foreign country, for 25% of the price.
Didn't really mean to bash providers with my post.  My answer to the other poster just questioned their logic in justifying seeing providers in their mid 20s and beyond but not an 18 year old hobbyist.  If one chooses to provide, start young, get ahead and choose whatever life you want, if you are fortunate enough to have the foresight.  I don't think too many 30 year old hobbyists that started out at 28 years old, wouldn't reject the opportunity to start out at 18 instead, but I could be wrong.

TWO 18 year olds... !-D

I just saw this message, so I'm a little late in my expression of appreciation.  However, I wanted to say that your comment about me being mature "beyond my years" is very kind of you.  It's particularly valued because it comes from you--a woman who, amazingly, exudes both class an unbridled sex appeal.  I admire you, in many ways...count me among your many 'Net fans.  xoxo