I'm relatively new to the hobby that is to say I've been playing for the last three years. One problem I seem to be encountering is providers getting impatient with me if I don't climax within the first twenty minutes or even sooner. I mean I am paying them for at least an hour and even longer. Before I started hobbling and of course when I was younger and even now I have stamina. When I was banging civvies that was viewed as an asset. However, now that I P4P my stamina seems to be a determent. I have had providers cut me short and even refunded part of my fee because (I guess) I wore them out. What do you ladies think?  Is it unreasonable to expect a full hour or even longer of play time when I paid up front?

Top shelf girls don't give you the bum's rush. Perhaps you should see fewer girls at a higher rate.  

I’m /really/ new to the Hobby (couple of months; I’ve got total of one review), but already I’ve started looking for Providers whom I find attractive AND have a lot of reviews that describe them as being nice, laid back and relaxed... or at least patient.

Jake makes a good point — what price point are u typically at? I don’t think u have to go high end. Just not low end.  

Ah - now that /is/ a good point.

Jake does make a good point of the price of admission. I did recently up my budget and her service was much better.... However, even when I solicited lower priced (With a good reputation) provider, I still wore her out. I mean I'm just an average guy. I don't think I am unusually endowed however my last civvy girlfriend said I was the biggest she had ever had.

........ banging the shit out of them, of course they are going to want to stop or slow down. There are some ladies who are energizer bunnies but most ladies have limits to how much their wonderful vaginas can take. These are human sex workers not machines.

Yo Mick! I do what you mentioned, However, I can't help myself to note your comment was thigh slapping funny!!!!!

I think you'll just have to find some who are okay with your style.  Maybe slightly bigger gals.  

You'd be surprised how nice a provider is if you don't pay her upfront. Even your expectations will be satisfied. She wants money upfront just walk out on her.

if you never want to get laid.

... especially wrt first dates with providers.  Almost all providers I know of are clear they'd like the donation given up front.  Not doing that risks making them nervous about it, which doesn't bode well for a satisfying session.  

Kind of like 'life lock' does for identity theft? One of my staff made a huge mistake of sleeping with someone who was rather viejo, gordo y feo and now he is the laughing stock of the office. I told him not to write that review.

Funny!  Wow that is a first thanks for sharing I enjoyed the laugh this morning.  I thought that is why you paid a PRO...

just tell him to give her some khakis.

...and all this time I thought they liked those red soled shoes.

It is probably great advice for the  heauxs he sees. There are no generalizations here.  He might be seeing less than honest women.
The opposite is correct for me and the women I see.  

It works for me. I've never had a problem not paying upfront. You want to pay upfront and get shorted on service and time or worse cash and dash, that's your problem.

Never had the problems you are concerned about. Different people different levels of trust.

Or are you just stupid?

Not too  stupid, just must be stuck having car dates. Sounds like a really great time saying to the ladies, I'm sure you are going to short me on a service or leave, so I'm holding the cash till you finish me.
I'm sure that goes over really well.

I’m older and often have trouble climaxing. The vast majority of ladies are patience and do not hurry me at all if I am with the time. Many of my independent regulars have given extra time based on on long relationships. Older providers are particularly patient

Not so much.  Unless you're ROGM. Of course, he also buys his hookers groceries and Pampers and does BBFSCIP with them.  If you believe him, that is.

continue.

is usually confined to the low-rent hookers.  Ladies with their own websites that are building their brand rarely pull scams and ripoffs.  If the higher-rent ladies give you the bum's rush, its most likely because they thought you were an asshole.  

I agree with the statement top shelf providers give you more. I have dont doubles with 2 girls that were relatively cheaper they charge about $200 an hour and they clearly are not GFE, I have done doubles with ladies  that charge more than me $600 an hour and you can defielty tell they go the extra mile. I would consider myself high end at $400 an hour and alway do anything and everything i can ( as long as its safe) to make sure I satisfy my clients.Lol I once had a 4 hour appointment and I thought we would probally get dinner or drinks but turns out his appetite was for non stop sex  and you know what I didnt complain once not even when my legs were about to give out from being spread open and being in top for so long my jaw hurt from all the oral and it was like running a 10k marathon almost haha I did it because I was getting paid well over 1k and for that amount of money I made sure every penny counted.

There are certain hobbying contexts where not paying upfront is acceptable or even the standard procedure.  

P411 is a screening site for providers and is no charge for the provider.  Me personally, and hobbiests I know, and the hobbiests responding to your question here, would decline to complete your screening requirements for our own protection. Just saying.

.....how no matter the scope of the original post it seems that a significant number here decline to the point of the great screening debate and/or how much screening is appropriate.....such a topic it is.   It is also amazing to me how many will so flippantly look past the intent of the screening which protects us all from the forces of darkness both provider and hobbyist.  As a member of 411 I have found it a valuable resource for me and the hobbyist and Gina along with her representatives have been nothing but honest and helpful and I trust them as much as anyone possibly could however, she will readily admit that the service is not impervious.  To believe that it could be foolproof one would have to be an absolute fool. I have found this to be an endeavour that has few absolutes other than the fools encountered from time to time.  An actual case in point would be recently while perusing another site, I observed an ISO posted by a hobbyist visiting my area, who foolishly posted his 411 membership number in the post for all to see I notified 41 that post dissappeared promptly..  So lets just say the wrong guy realized the opportunity and seized the moment to use that number to book a 411 provider who failed to use 411 PM to reassure herself that she did not have an imposter and then met said imposter, none the wiser to the potential hazard.  There are a myriad of other scenarios that could arise ie providers who could give up their membership info, hobbyist who go off the reservation and when busted give up their info....all these things can will and surely have happened as surely as some BSC crazy provider may out someone.....like I said there are always Dark Forces in play and there are no Absolutes in this endeavour....just Absolute Fools.  Of course we all are free to choose our own poison I guess just some don't want to be in a rush to do so..