My best friend made me an indecent proposal recently. I was over at my friend's place drinking together. Both our girls were out somewhere at the time. He complimented that he thinks my new girl is attractive. I said the same about his girl even tho she's been my friend forever. He then said something I never expected him to say: He'd be ok if his girl and I got involved physically and fooled around. He said she's cool with me for that too. Fucken really? I thought he was joking so I verified twice if he's serious. She's my friend whom I went to gradschool with and also the girlfriend of my best friend so automatically she was placed in my "No Go Zone" despite being attractive.

You describe this guy as your best friend.  If he was into "swinging", wouldn't you have known about that before now? I'm always amazed that people cannot see what's right in front of them.  They cannot see-the-play.
 
 Your best friend is already fucking your girlfriend.  He's also a little tired of your 'grad school friend', so he's throwing her over to you.  Your ego is preventing you from seeing this situation clearly.   In order for your best bud to make this type of offer "out-of-the-blue", he knows something that you don't.  Before he steals your girl permanently, he's throwing Miss Grad-School-Friend over to you as a peace offering.  Three of the four people in your little group already know what's going on.  Sorry that I'm the one who had to tell you.  --

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its not surprising that such offers are made. Nothing that causes me to fall off the chair. Someone has to come out and make an offer... right? - unless of course you are in the swingers club.  

At least some kind of electricity is going on between your girlfriend and your drinking buddy. Otherwise he wouldn't have discussed it with his USO. He knows that if he was doing her she'd be more than a little responsive to him, otherwise he wouldn't have approached you.

Ok, I'll play along, even though I would give fifty to one that there is zero truth to the OP.

It's not really that uncommon for swingers to "recruit" straight couples to join them, and when they do so they try to be as seductive in their offer as possible.

Quite frankly, except for the author, there is nothing remarkable or unbelievable about this story, and if the author is to be believed (huge leap there) he did say that he was sure his GF had no interest in such a thing. If anything it would appear that the storyteller didn't know either his best friend or the woman he'd been friends with for years quite as good as he thought he did.

Actually I think the whole post is bullshit, but hey I didn't want to start looking football yet this morning

All my "drivel" are truthful or based on the truth. I admit I like to joke around but a liar who makes up stories like this, I am not

Considering she had only met them a few weeks ago for the first time and had to take care of her kid the whole time, your assumptions are extremely unlikely.

After flooding the board with nonsense for months under various aliases, anything coming out of your mouth will be discounted.  

Dislike for BSC and commenting on actual events are my MO.  Making shit up and pulling it out of my ass? Not so much.

All my "nonsense" were based on an actual events and truth. Just cuz it came from aliases doesn't make it less truthful. It just means I may have changed the story around to make it less personally  identifying.

That is the very essence of gullibility.

This is like debating the origins of the Klingons, it's fiction, we/he can make up whatever "facts" that we want.

If you are going to accept any one of his statements as fact, then you have to swallow the entire story, which I don't. I think the entire OP is made up to "stir the pot" Now who's gullible?

but if I ever get around to using New TER,  remind me to "like" this post. lol

Of course this kind of thing happens all the time, but I am willing to lay HUGE odds that it didn't just happen to the OP

I have plenty of alias board friends like AsianManNova, Pantera12, and cashorcredit, just to name a few. Black_In_Black and a few others who don't post here no more.  

"like" your posts.. LOL..:

Maybe I'm dense, but it certainly appeared GAG quite unequivocally labelled the OP as bullshit, and did nothing more than hypothetically ASSUME certain statements to be true to make a point.

I think you're seeing it as it is, and the more I've contemplated GaG's stance the more I'm inclined to admit that he's right.

but I plainly stated that I believe the OP is most definitely a work of fiction.

I think someone has simply found himself in a hole of his own digging and is now desperately trying to dig himself and even deeper hole to hide in. lol

We disagree on a lot, but thanks for actually understanding the point I was making

I wasn't offended in the slightest bit. We just laughed and said "thanks, but no thanks." They were into swinging, we weren't. It's really not a big deal.

When a person makes posts on a public board like this, the audience makes up it's own mind what we find both believable and entertaining. NEG was briefly entertaining, exclamation point was not even briefly entertaining. Back to the drawing board would be my suggestion.

Some people just are not entertaining, just saying...

Cool name ain't it?

Calling yourself cool is in itself uncool.

Remember when Tidwit first came on this board "demanding" respect? You are beginning to remind me a bit of the little Turdball.

Comparing U-man to turdball, that's a low blow, mon.

You can only change them once every three months.

Gandy will save me. He who believe in Gandy will be saved.

That says a lot dude!



Steph

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Is it because you'd rather pay to keep your cheating to yourself than spice up your own relationship in an open and honest way? Does it offend you that other people can have fun together and you and the gf can't/won't be open about your desires with each other? Is it because your female friend never had any interest in you until her bf had an interest in your girl, leaving you in the fallback zone once again? Does it offend you that your girl is hot enough to draw the attention of another guy? Or is it that you're the only one allowed to be "shared"? What's the deal with being offended by an honest version of yourself? These aren't meant to be pointed questions that you need to answer here, just a reminder that many of the times something offends you, it's because it points out something that you don't like within yourself, and this seems like a very good possibility in cases like this.  

And he is angry that you have abandoned your NEG persona.  His wrath is great.  You are fucked.  And not in a good way.

Thou shall not abandon being negative?  

You sent me this photo of yourself.  Don't deny it

But the responses to the OP are very entertaining. So, there is some value in letting him post his gibberish.

I don't get it.....so what? I've accepted similar proposals before, and believe me it's a blast. Come on, the chance to test drive your friend's girlfriend? Hell yes! I'd jump on that opportunity in a heartbeat! Only problem I see is that you are a) the jealous type, and b) seeing a woman whose not into that sort of thing. Too bad.

I thought he'd want to do me too.  

Keep telling yourself that she never fucked him.

YouWanna, that's a very sensible view of the situation. Do you think that this forum assumes a bias that sex with more partners is preferred to sex with fewer? I'm wondering how people who have never ventured into the P4P world might respond. There are some, and I was one myself for most of my life, who lived a monogamous lifestyle seeking the one-on-one relationship that would last "a lifetime." Meaning marriage or at least a similar LTR facsimile.

I love how people magically know the situation.  You have NO clue whats going on here.  NONE.  Yet you egg on the situation as if you know some secret.  Totally stupid and baseless accusations.  Grow up folks.

Other than your GF isnt into it.  I'd say go for it and have wild foursomes all the time.  Why the heck not.  3 of the people (including you) are relatively close and Id say the safest to do this type of thing with without any serious backlash and/or drama.  You're obviously not the only person your GF has ever banged and since you're on TER I would guess you're banging other ladies on the side, so who cares if your good bud is nailing her.  At least its not Joey bag-o-doughnuts from down the street, behind your back.  Besides what guy doesnt wanna nail the chick he's known since grade school?  Gay guys, thats about it.  (Nothing wrong there, just sayin)  If I could nail some of my elementary school-mates I'd be all over it in a heartbeat, and he gave the green light!  Heres a thought, can you bang her anyway if your girl says no?  Now you come out totally on top while your friend gets shafted............Just sayin

He never said that, why would you suddenly jump to that conclusion!!

The rest of us moved on long ago, you need to keep up. lol