TER General Board
yep
I know at least couple of providers who feel they cannot perform with guys over 50..
It is quite common for providers to prefer older clients. There is a current thread on this subject (see link). However, I know of a case where the reverse is true -ie, a provider who apparently prefers younger clients. Although she does not say so in her ads, the review I read on her indicated that she only accepts clients 18-45 years old, and that she turns away anyone who looks older than 45. The reviewer states that the reason she gave was that she didn't want to have any clients who were the same age or older than her father.
Are there other such cases that anyone knows of? If, so what are the reasons given for preferring younger clients?
I'm over 60. I have had one lady turn me down because she was afraid I might have a heart attack or something during our tryst. I had another turn me down because I was close to her father's age. It happens. I found other playmates and enjoyed myself...without the heart attack.
Variety is the spice of life.
Pat J
She was about 20 and her clients were mostly in their thirties and forties. She thought any older than that was.. "eww, that's old."
Another one, 22 years old, said of the older clients that "they're OK, too, but.."
I didn't ask them to elaborate, these were just comments in passing.
ladies that preferred younger clients like myself. I've been turned down cause of my age and it sucks. Some ladies could be intimidated because Im probably the same age as their kids. But even some younger ladies prefer older guys.
If you you're in your twenties and not married, why are you hobbying? You should be chasing after the young ladies.
I go to Vegas and meet with providers because it's fun and something to do. While Im in my hometown I partake in chasing tale. Plus im in no rush to settle down right now.
Only a few. Since I didn't fit their definition of "young enough" we never met. No harm no fowl except in one case where her original post said "age mattered to her". I told her mine in my first contact but it wasn't until several days and several e-mails later she noticed I was "too old". Just wish she would have caught it at the start.
After that i noticed she did start saying "no one over 40" in her ads.
Only noticed that with civies who had the same reaction............
I know at least couple of providers who feel they cannot perform with guys over 50..
43, look like I'm 30, and act like I'm 16! Next!
Sorry But would you see a provider the age of your mother? Same difference.
Its all about comfort on both sides. You don't have to agree with her or see things her way, she has preferences the same as you do.
This business, this *job* is NOT like any other job out there at all. This is a very intimate, the most intimate situation you can put yourself in and if she is uncomfortable it doesn't matter why, or if it makes sense to you, its STILL her preference. End of story.
I can NOT figure out why it seems so many think we should see just anyone have no preferences and not have an opinion either way. The right money and we should be like McDonalds, we serve everyone.
Hey, even a contractor, a plumber, roofer, has his preferences on who to work for. No its not age related but they aren't fucking you either, (not literally anyway) but they pick and choose the jobs they want. SO DO WE!
Chemistry comfortability and so on.
You guys see the age group you want to and would think it crazy if you only had one or two to pick from, no pictures no discriptions and no choice. Yes you are paying but you ain't the only pebble on the beach either. There are more clients than there are Ladies out there so she may choose not to see you at her whim. She knows the client who fits what she likes in a partner will call and she'll take it from there.
I just can't figure out why so many ppl seem to not get this. Why is this so difficult to see this as a choice on both sides.
On the upper end I believe discretion is key to me staying out of any sticky legal trouble. So having 30-45 year olds (the actual age preference to my real dating life also) at my incall does not seem too out of the ordinary. But a gentlemen in his 60s would in my opinion have some eye brows raised. Its also hard to have a conversation and be able to relate to somebody who is 40 years older than me. For the lower end, the younger guys do not seem to appreciate the escorting/client relationship. I believe in great customer service and really do feel crappy about myself if I have a feeling the guy is walking away disappointed. Or they are looking for a girlfriend (or maybe they think we would be hookup buddies etc). I am bias though. I have always preferred middle aged guys, since they actually know what they are doing in bed. When I slept with a younger guy pre escorting days he had actually lied about his age and experience it was a disaster and I had no desire to be in that awkwardness again lol
Brad instructed me to keep trying. If I had read your etiquette page ,I would have realized why you did not reply.
I will let him know, he's too old for you.
My biological age according to providers range from 25 - 33 years old. That's how providers try to guess my age. For younger providers like 19-22, I don't tell them my age and they enjoy me, or they might say 'eww'.
Now for providers who like gents in their 40s, I show them my driver's license .. and they don't believe it at times. But I'm pass mid-40s. A 29 yr old provider though I was definitely younger than her. lol.
Unfortunately it looks like your attempt to purchase VIP membership has failed due to your card being declined. Good news is that we have several other payment options that you could try.
We thank you for your purchase!
Membership should be activated shortly. You'll receive notification!
