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The Rush.........
scotdaman 12 Reviews 5593 reads
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I have read many posts here about how us guys enjoy the rush of first meeting a provider. Also us guys do talk about how addictive this hobbie can be.

I wonder if you providers experience some of the rush of first meetings and find an addictive draw to this.

Also i do find some element of the chase in this hobbie. Some of you guys may know what im talking about. Just try to book with a highly rated provider and you will see what i mean.

So, does anyone feel this is a topic worth discussing?

Happily Deluded2238 reads

Yeah,
the rush is great.  Getting to meet a highly rated provider is cool too.  But I won't set the search averages below 8, I am not sure what the point would be unless I was looking for the worst experience of my life.
see my post above.  I didn't stay with yours because I am really going in a different direction.

I can relate.  I think we all can.  Us guys, anyway.  Doesn't have to be a rated provider, either.  As for the ladies, I really can't speak for them, but I think most of the time the biggest rush is when they collect the donation.

Anjala3597 reads

It is an absolute high. Personally, as a perfectionist, I've become goal oriented on obtaining "10" status.  Getting so close.. and having fun with it. The big thrill, I can not deny, filling out my deposit slip on Monday morning.  As long as we both walk away with smiles on our faces... how is that not a high?

~A.`  

TiffaniXXX4607 reads

There's always a little adrenaline rush of waiting to see the new person behind the door; it's not as high as if I knew I was meeting Brad Pitt, LOL, but it's there to a lesser degree--slight nervousness, heart beating a little fast, checking my hair and make-up three times in the mirror so I look model-perfect for that first look. :)

Regarding the "addiction" of seeing new people, I think there may be some truth to that, at least for me. Several of my provider friends tell me they greatly prefer to see only regulars, but I don't feel as strongly as they do. I love variety and I enjoy seeing a new face...so the addiction may be true for me too.

We discussed this at length once.  She said that sometimes the rush of meeting a new client almost became unbarable for her.  Her heart would pound as she drove to the hotel with a combination an anticipation and fear.  

She felt that sometimes she would have a relatively good sense about the guy and other times she just couldn't get a read on him.  It was those times that really brought her to the edge. Yet she was almost driven to go on, just to find out.

She did tell me about one guy who called her while she was on her way and tried to make a joke about tying her up and having his way with her.  She had driven over an hour and called him back and cancelled.  She just got pushed over the edge.  He called her several times again and tried to appologize and expalin that he was just makeing a lame joke.

Another lady I've seen a few times agreed with the ATF's assesment that they do get rather addicted to the high of anticipation.  She also said that she got addicted to the sex.  She explained that when she would take a few weeks off to go home and visit her family she would get these feelings.  In the first few days of the vacation she would have a strong urge to just find a guy and do it.  Then as the time passed, that sensation would diminish to the point that when she returned to the work a day life, she would almost not be into it. But then with the first date or two, she was wanting it again.

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