I am curious how this has been handled by the guys/gals on this board.

I might be interested in taking a lady on a trip.  Not sure where on when but maybe to Miami this winter or Las Vegas next spring, etc.  I have seen this lady several times and even had longer dates (overnights), etc.  We have a friendship and stay in touch with each other.  

I am curious as to what the financial arrangement would be for a trip?  Obviously, I cover all the expenses (airfare, hotel, food, drinks, gambling, etc.)  Can anyone give me an idea on the donation the lady would charge for an all expense trip?  It's not 48-72 hours of sex.  There would be the pool, beach, drinks, meals, etc.  It would be a real vacation.  

Just curious before I bring it up.  It is probably a case by case situation.  Thanks..........

You are 100% correct it is going to be a case by case situation. The only person that will be able to answer that question will be the provider in question.

Have you checked her website for extended rates?

Most ladies post their rates on their site.  While the rate is usually quite a discount off the straight hourly rate, it is still likely to be very expensive because there is an opportunity cost to her being away for several days.  As an example, one of my favorites who charges $600/hour asked 4500 for an overnight and 8500 for a 2 night 3/day trip.   I have seen other ladies asking much higher rates.  The fact that you are paying for all the travel, hotels, meals, drinks, etc.  is on top of the fee.  It's not a cheap way to vacation.  

... to ask her directly, I'm not sure how much help the rest of us can be. Some ladies might eagerly go for free on an all expense paid top-tier vacation, and some would charge their rack rate regardless. To say that I used to spend a week every quarter at a different international 5 star resort with a friend for X rate, or how that related to my rack rates, would be pretty meaningless in your situation🤷🏻‍♀️  
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If you guys are actually on a 'friends with boundaries' level, then maybe just ask the question similar to  "Hey doll, we dig each other and the last thing I want to do is make anything awkward between us, so please understand that's my top priority, mmkay? I've been thinking about going on X type of trip to Y place and doing Z types of things and I'd LOVE you to  come with me! I know you've got bills like everyone else and I am absolutely NOT going to haggle with whatever rate you say. If  it's something I can swing, hell yeah I'll do it! So what kind of financing would you need to handle whatever you need to do here (ex: pet sitting), and make what you need to make so your budget stays on track, and maybe a smidge more on top so you've got a little more breathing room than usual... so then you can really relax, have fun and make some cool memories with me? I mean... that's assuming this kind of thing sounds fun and you want to do it and all"
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That sort of thing would work on me, anyway😇 Shows your priorities being NOT fucking up a good thing and NOT haggling/disrespecting whatever her rate would be.  That you've game planned the trip (preparation and research are sexy!), have considered there's likely shit she needs to do in preparation and she probably can't just hop a flight instantly, and also let her off the hook of thinking SHE might screw up a good thing if she's just not into the whole thing.
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Let us know how it goes!

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First of if you are looking for a girl on TER, which is essentially a platform for P4P, you are going to have to shell thousands of dollars outside of hotel, airfare, and food and drinks, and entertainment..   If you have millions lying around, or only a few months to live, it probably won't matter. But unless its one of those, keep reading...LOL  

 
You can certainly save lot of money by going the sugar route. Go find a companion on SA who you can get along with and actually like hanging out with. There are lot of money hungry women there too, but there are quite a few who are looking for genuine companionship and while they enjoy money, they are not greedy or lusting for dollars.  

 
You find someone like that I would negotiate a flat rate for the trip and then pick up the tab for food, stay, and airfare.  

 
I have personally never done it, but I certainly have dangled the carrot in front of a couple to see if they would bite. They were really interested. I just didn't take the next step, because I was truly not interested in that kind of trip. I was just doing a social experiment.  If I ever change my mind down the road, I now know exactly how to go about doing this. I seriously doubt, since I have no real desire to spend that much time with another person, as I love my own company a lot more, but hey... knowledge is power.  

 
Remember, time must be on your side for this to work effectively. You cannot rush else it will certainly mess up things. Take plenty of time to vet the right candidate.

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Usually, she will want to at least make what she normally would make, and likely a little more. As others have pointed out, it will likely be a discount from her normal hourly rate. But if it’s a week, and she usually sees 10 clients in a week, some possibly multiple hours, she likely doesn’t want to make less than her usual.  

 
And despite it being a vacation for you, it’s work for her. She has to put more energy and time in. Fair chance she wants this to be more profitable than an average week.

 
But… like others have said, only she can tell you.

Can and should be answered by the lady. Get it all sorted out before you buy the tickets or book the room. Mid-vacation bargaining would be a real drag. And don't forget to cover whether the lady is exclusive for the trip, or can take a side bet while you're on the golf course.  

The question I'd be asking myself is what do I want out of the experience--arm candy plus benefits, sports and entertainment buddy plus benefits, on-call benefits when I'm done golfing and gambling, etc.

And, presuming you care, are either of these locations places where you might run into friends, co-workers, relatives, etc.? How public are you willing to be? You might want to avoid any place with a "kiss-cam". 😆

Have fun brother.

My friends tell me the plans & their budget for my gift. I’m not entertaining, like I would on a regular date it’s less work. I offer discounts for fun vacations. I love my friends! 🥰

Ladies in this business take real vacations just like the rest of us. If the two of them get along that well and are friends she just may accept it as a free vacation and be done with it.  

 
The main thing, as others have said, is the ONLY way to know is by asking her directly.

Less likely she sees it that way, but you never truly know. I would question how much they are friends though if she is still taking his money for every visit. More often than not, when a client says they are friends, the provider has a very different perspective on if this is true and what this means. I would go in with zero expectations. Asking is absolutely fine. But if you’re disappointed with her answer because you thought you were friends, keep that to yourself. It just means she’s been doing her job well with you.

But if it is any help, I have gone on2 to 3 night vacations several times with gals whose normal rates were $500-$600/hour and they were fine with $1,500 per day, so use that as a guide.  

I also paid out about another $500 or so in shopping gifts.  

They all turned out reasonably well.

Let us know how it goes, but I would just arrange to see someone there.

If they like you as a client, that price seems very reasonable. If they are low volume, 3x their hourly rate per day for an all expenses covered trip that includes some gifts is a great gig.

It sounds like you’re planning something exciting! Here are a few thoughts to consider:

Fun & Memory making
Why not plan a trip that combines both fun and meaningful experiences? You can have it all! If she is one of your favorite people, both Miami and Vegas offer opportunities to bond through relaxation, excitement, and plenty of indulgences— fashion, food, and entertainment.  

I have had the best experiences bonding with my favorites dressed in designer, mutually enjoying gustatory delights underneath a mildly warm tropical moonlit night or snuggled close at a booth inside a dimly lit Vegas restaurant with a lively atmosphere, catching up and plotting our next dopamine hit haha.  

I’m given a bit of roaming time in between our sessions so that I can recharge the beautiful, playful and pent-up energy that my lover deserves. Daybeds and shopping fill me up, amongst other things that fill me… and as an ex high school pageantry dancer, watching Cirque de Soleil performances brings me so much joy. It is different from classical ballet in style, but compositional methods are pretty similar and the dancers are just dedicated towards their training and artistry. Just like going into the theater for a cathartic emotional release before getting into serious business, Cirque provides that.

Planning
Booking ahead can help secure the best rates for both your friend and the logistics, making it easier on everyone.

Booking everything at least six months ahead has saved me from headaches later on. Never economy basic… needed added flexibility in case plans changed slightly, and the additional cost usually isn’t terrible.

Keep in mind that she might prefer separate rooms for her own comfort and privacy, as well as time for herself to unwind. Discussing these details upfront can help set the right expectations.

Mo Money Mo Problems
As for the financial arrangement, it’s definitely a case-by-case situation. Her tribute could vary depending on your level of commitment and the nature of your relationship. Personally, I believe that if a gentleman values me and shows it through his actions, I’m more than happy to reciprocate and make the experience enjoyable for both of us.

I have the sweetest gentleman who is ALWAYS there for me. I’m happy to make things work for him. I’ve spent many sleepless nights and glorified search engine chatbot hours on how to optimize our time together LOL.

Just make sure to communicate openly about logistics and expectations, and it should be smooth sailing!

Best of luck planning!

for their time.   Make it a part-time vacation for each of you.  Some time together and separate time for each of your own interests.  This link is from 3 years ago, but I still do it the same way.  The key is to make it a luxury vacation and don't be cheap about it.