that have spent several hours or days with a young ( around 25 ) provider, was it a positive experience for you?
I would say mine was.
Boy did i get the looks from others when i walked into a bar or restaurant. ( i'm like, what the fuck are you looking at, she's my daughter...lol )
I was also loving the shit out of it when the young guys were checking her out. ( i'm like, eat your heart out, she's all mine )

Maybe they think she is my daughter, so no big deal.  She is the only youngun that I see regularly, in any case.

Only once recently did we get a stare from another gal.  I was with a gal who was really dolled up, but she is only maybe 15-20 years my junior, so no real big deal there.

Some matronly lady at the table next to us could not take her eyes off of her, and the look was classic:  "What a slut", even though my date looked anything but.

Well, it didn't bother either of us, but I'm glad it bothered her.

And, her date?  He was a fat old slob who kept stuffing food in his face.  yuck!

I am white and she was black and gorgeous, we went to an amusement park and got quite a few looks especially from the black guys.  I mean we are talking major evil eye but I really didn't care.

When I first started to hobby, I dated a twenty-six year old weekly for over 2 years. When we walked in resturants or were in public all heads turned, and she would kiss me, grab my ass or embrace me, anything to let me know she was mine. Best feeling a mature gent could have!! She was not a sugar baby either!!! Good old days!!!

I hope you told her that .. I'm sure it would have made her smile

Tell ya one thing, i would love to be seen in public with you. ( KS )
I'm blown away at how gorgeous some women are. ( other than my babies, when they were born, there is nothing that can compare to the beauty of a women ) IMHO.

Every date that I've been on which included social time in public has been with gentlemen over 50. I'm a girly-girl to the heart, so I ALWAYS get jazzed up when it's time to go out. Every now and then, I'll get approached by a lady and complimented on my dress. Funny thing about that is it's usually an older lady who's obviously comfortable with her relationship and also in her own skin. The only opinion I'm concerned with is the opinion of my date, though. The "looks" don't bother me. They have no idea of the damage they're doing to by staring at me because by doing so, it gives the gentlemen they're with an excuse to check me out as well, lol. So, I simply ignore the inquisitive glances of the ladies and smile kindly at their counterparts as I sashay out of the establishment hanging on my date's arm.

I have a 20 something daughter.  She saw a 50+/20s couple and made a comment to me about how disgusting she thought it was that a pervy old man was carting around a sugar baby.  

So it was hard for me to be doing something that I know would cause her to lose all respect for me.  I had already set up the date before my daughter made that comment, and didn't want to back out of it for reasons I won't go into on this thread.  But it made me uncomfortable during the dinner, and I won't repeat the experience.

Its also made me start looking more extensively for more mature providers.  There is a huge drop off in supply in the 30's age group, an even bigger drop off in the 40s, and the one 50+ I have seen ads on in my area is just not my type.

If you expect that people outside of the hobby (especially family) to understand hobbying, then you are in for a big disappointment.

I can completely understand that mature men (50+) would feel rather uncomfortable being spotted in public with twenty some year old, but I seriously hope you can still enjoy a twenty year old pussy in confines of the bedroom, and that the comments made by your daughter has not completely dissuaded you from pursuing young pussy...

I am a 20 something provider and my clients are 50-65 yr olds.  When going out to dinner, I have received plenty of scathing looks, usually from older women, because they "know" that he could very well be their husband out galavanting with a young piece of ass.

Especially since my clients and I are typicallyram interracial couple (black/white), we tend to get even more looks.

I've gotten used to it and try to just be positive, but am aware that most people do not approve!  Whatever.

I have been seeing a certain 23 yr old for five years, *yes do the math) we have graduated from me being a client, to being her boss, to being in a BF/GF relationship,

The two of us have become so comfortable with each other we don't even notice any disapproving looks, but I do notice the young guys checking her out, which doesn't bother me in the least as long as they don't act on it.

To answer the OP's question, yes it's a very positive experience, and I don't have any issues with the age difference, we routinely travel together, which means checking into hotels as a couple, dinner, drinks (now that she's old enough.lol) and everything else that a typical couple do.

Call me a pig if you like, but I am a very happy pig.

I think part of it is how you carry yourself, and whether or not you feel you "deserve" to be with this younger woman. As everyone here knows, my ego is quite healthy. lol and I have no problems hitting on civvy women, thirty years my junior, and even scoring every once in a while, although I have to confess, my batting average isn't what it used to be, but I swing for power now, and not for average. lol

I am well into my 50's, my wife is 18 years younger, my girlfriend is 1/2 my age and at this point, I don't even notice other people's reactions when we are out and about. (Separately, of course, they're aware of each other but never the twain shall meet!) Anyhoo, they are both gorgeous, garner tons of attention and when I first started spending time with either, it was amusing seeing the reactions.  

It's interesting how different people have different attitudes about these things.  I am one of those who doesn't give a flying fuck what others think about me and my activities, other than those near and dear to me.  Accordingly, I am never concerned about what others think nor have ever felt uncomfortable with anyone's reactions, some of which have been quite disdainful!  

I, too, have a daughter in her twenties and she's told me that I perfectly capture the essence of her reaction to the girlfriend's (who's younger than her) age by noting that she's simultaneously fascinated and repulsed by the idea of my dating someone have her age!  She grilled me when first told of it, leading to this colloquy:

"So does she ever call you?"
"Well, actually sweetie, most of the time we get together it's because she's called me."
(Incredulous tone): "Really."
"Yeah, 'really,' ya little shit head and I'm sitting right here in front of you!"

Anyhoo, she's reconciled herself to my proclivities long ago (and loves my wife, just would prefer she was in different industry) and loves me all the same.  

I guess the point is that I've become pretty comfortable in my own skin and quite happy by not living my life for others!  No point to it, you're never gonna make anyone happy that way anyway!

I have had numerous dinner dates with a provider about 30 years younger than me.  Never noticed a second look from patrons.  We always ate a beach bar on the causeway to Clearwater called Bahama Breeze, it is a chain but no idea how widespread it is.  However, I have not taken a 20-something out to dinner so, I can't worry about that.  I will say this, if I did take a 20-something out to dinner or drinks, I would hope that all the guys who saw us would be jealous as hell.

If you go to Vegas, you are going to see lots of old guy/young girl couples, and no one really gives a shit.  Either they know what the story is, or they are on vacation and don't have time to worry about it.

I agree with one of the previous posters, most non-hobby people just don't understand what's going on with us.

Swim

........and I enjoy the companionship of a woman, yes, younger with me. I haven't noticed any unusual looks because I'm totally focused into who I'm with but I have heard comments from dates about looks that we get and my response is "did it bother you?"; if it does then I have to doubt the company that I'm with in terms of their comfort level with me. Actually happened only once but it did surprise me. An earlier reply on this thread mentioned that most people do not understand the relationship between a hobbyist and an escort or provider and I totally agree. Another reply on the same thread mentioned a comment by his daughter which I respect and understand. I have three of my own and they are all older than most of the women I see. I'm not trying to get hugely philosophical or judgemental but we have to act and believe in what we are comfortable with in doing and roll with it. gf60

Is this what I have to look forward to as I get fold, wrinkled and hunched over?
Early on in my divorce I worried that I'd never get laid again.  Hence my participation in the hobby.
Nowadays I'm hesitant to fall prey to the allure young nymphs on the grounds that I'd be disappointed at the lack of worldly experience.

Hey Man,
Relax and take a deep breathe. Getting older is what happens naturally; getting wrinkley and hunchy is in your control. Take it a day at a time and enjoy. gf60