I know as a guy I can feel the difference between bareback with my wife and with using a condom with a provider.

I was wondering as a provider if you can feel a difference between the same with your regular husband or BF as opposed to a client being covered?

I've only once gone uncovered with someone since I was 15 y.o.

Interesting question though.  I'd imagine emotionally if nothing else, there might be a difference.

dont let this guy con you to even thinking about going raw..... say hell naw

Your wife has never let me go bareback, so I can't really comment.

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She said it is more "natural" and feels better when doing bb.

it was a real riot when u got done. haha

One could only imagine how'd that feel with you...

But it's a MINOR difference, in my opinion. There aren't a whole lot of nerve endings actually in the vagina. Otherwise childbirth would be a bigger nightmare than it already is.

The majority of nerve endings are around the entrance to the vagina, and up around the g-spot... all of which are stimulated mostly by the pressure of the penis as it penetrates. We feel the warmth of your penis, we feel the girth of it, the pressure you create, the speed and strength of the stroke.

When a man wears a condom, it's the equivalent of me putting a dental dam over my clit. You're covering your most sensitive nerve endings, thus deadening sensation. It helps to put a drop of lube on the glans before applying the condom.

JMHO

xxxooo
Beverly ;-*

The few times I've been with a long-term boyfriend and done it w/o, compares favorably to some of my hottest sessions, with cover, of course, with clients.  And many of the client sessions were much hotter than any with my old s/o.  Perhaps going w/o is 2% better in my eyes, but the most impt factors affecting arousal for me are heat, passion, connection, and chemistry!!  And given the high rates of catching something uncovered, it's a no-brainer to keep a hat well secured.

There is a MAJOR difference for me.
Talking about bareback, for providers, is like a taboo...so most will say they never have uncovered sex.
I have a boyfriend, so sex with him is, of course, uncovered.
You cannot compare fucking  a juicy bare dick...with fucking a condom.
Nothing feels like a real dick for me...and I disagree with you saying the vagina doesn't have nerve endings.
Maybe yours doesn't but mine? oh boy! I can feel all his veins and the softness of his head when he teases me, going in and out very slow to drive me crazy.
He can feel me getting soaking wet and I can feel his precum too. That makes the gliding soooooo good!
Also, the feeling of having a man ejaculating inside you and filing you up is a primal thing for me. I feel fulfilled, complete.




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I can definitely say the feeling of bareback is much better than with protection.  There is also a difference in feelings between different condoms. Trojans feel too rubbery and leave a bad smell. Certain lifestyles are okay but the best brand out there (at least in my opinion) is Durex.
Durex is the closest feeling to bareback there for I ONLY use Durex.


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When are you going to be in/near MI?

Remember that durex does not have as much latex as Trojans. Less latex means less protection from HIV. That is why the boxes for durex is so much cheaper than trojans. Also condoms that don't have that much latex have a tendency to break. A broken condom will freak out a client.

couple times Magnums did break because it was too tight on the guys.
I always have some custom made xxxlarge condoms so it can fit big "fat" boys and give some room for them to "breathe".

When one breaks sometimes you don't know it breaks. You are having fun and climax then when you pull it out, it is like "oh shit". I have never had a trojan break. Of course breakage could be from environment factors such as not apply enough lube.

If you store them in the trunk of your car, where it can be too hot in the summer or too cold in the winter, you're risking breakage BIG time.
Lubrication is very important but so is to use the proper size of condoms.
A bigger & thicker guy cannot fit in a regular Trojan or Durex.
A dick needs "room", so when it is moving inside a woman the condom can expand too.
Without "room" and with a condom stretched to the max, the chances of tearing will increase a whole lot.
I carry all sizes and brands of condoms, even custom made xxxlarge, xxxsmall and the female kind.
Dicks comes in all shapes and sizes and a real PRO should ALWAYS have a way to fit them properly.

writing isn't my forte. Getting it right after only three tries is a real accomplishment.

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ever have a condom break while he's in your 'back door'?  Do you do anything afterward when that happens, like see a doctor and go on anti-viral medicine?

I went to high school in the 80's, had lots of gay friends... saw too much disease and death much too young.

I'm a hard-core latex lover.

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Thanks BDG. I wasn't asking about going uncovered with a provider I was just wondering if the girls could feel the difference like the guys can. I only will go bareback with my wife. It would be very hard trying to explain a disease to her.
Anyway thanks for the response and the "hot erotic jucy details

But, that's what YOU  had to do when your condom broke??? go into an anti viral medicine???

wow...extreme huh?

Condoms are very strong and is hard for them to break IF they are used properly.

Right size, snug but with a bit of "room" for the dick to move around and LUBE LUBE LUBE - waterbased anal kind - and you will be safe and sound.

Thanks for the advice, I will remember that if ever happens to me.

You took  the  words out of my mouth...
and the fellings of my being...
What a great explanation !!!

Do you feel  you  get energized as well after  felling  him cum inside you???   Isn't  it great !

no more commets ... she said it all !

actually never happened to me, but someone on the message boards said it happened to him twice in 50 attempts, a 4% failure rate. He went to the doctor the next day to get the anti HIV (anti viral drugs).  They are testing those drugs right now and they seem to be able to prevent HIV infection in rats anyway (and very likely humans as well).  I hear they are being taken by gay men to prevent them from becoming HIV infected.  They would be useful for escorts and hobbiest as well. I don't think they are yet easily available for those uninfected, still in the testing phases.

Amen!! I've twice had condoms come off inside the provider because the regular size they provided was too small.

I always bring my own. to get around that problem.

...I much, much prefer to go bareback for my personal life. Im not going to lie or try and play like I don't do it or never have, because that is a crock of shit.

I don't think saying it would ruin my status, because I don't do it with clients, and my reviews reflect as much, no matter what they offer to tip or what test results or documents they offer me, its just not worth it. My reasoning behind it is not just because there are cooties out there, but because if a client wants it from me that means he may be getting it from another provider and I don't know what her ethics are, also if he has a wife or significant other he is more than likely with her bareback as well.

I honestly don't do it often and I get checked regularly, I have only ever with my significant other, one I have been with for a while, that I know of his habits well enough, and can make get tested as often as I (once a month). Buts sadly I don't have one as of right now, so, I cant. But I like it alot-- I wont deny it, I prefer it. Condoms are a great tool, and sex still feels good for me when I use them, but I tend not to get as wet, no matter what foreplay is used. And I feel like I smell like latex afterward, which is kinda gross. But I am a huge advocate of them always, because safety is key...

Dani





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....some condoms brands make sex witha guy feel like a dildo-- its so thick and rubbery.

There is nothing like skin against skin...

Dani

I have had a couple slip off but never broken.

I went to the doctor and told them what happened minus the details of how the guy and I met but they didn't put me on anti-viral medicine.

Is there a competent doctor in house to comment on this ?  

If this happens again, should I be request to be out on anti-viral medicine ?

Could it help after the fact like that ?

Otherwise,I did get my normal cultures and tests as a precaution.

xo xo Lisa Butler