Ladies, how would you feel and/or react to this scenario:
you are visiting a client for the first time, and when he opens his hotel door, he is totally nude. Would that turn you on, repulse you, would you stay or leave?

Leave

I'd be shocked, I'd walk.

If he told me in advance that was his fantasy then maybe it would be different.  If he just did it I wouldn't even enter the room.

If he wants that kind of encounter he should go to a 30 minute walk up joint.

... someone has to put you out of your misery for asking such a dumb-ass question.

I'd be worried about a guy's mental state if he did something like that. I'd definitely leave (at least he probably won't chase me if he's naked.)

But recently went on a 4th date with a civie and he answered in his underwear so "I could see his package to make sure I would still be interested or some BS. "

I laughed and thought it was really funny.

I guess the sad thing is he thought that I wouldn't be able keep my hands off of him in that state of undress.

I needed a bit more of a connection before I was to jump his bones.  

Hobby is one world - civie is another ......

xo xo Lisa

"Goodnight enjoy your day"

I can see that some dude - somewhere, would do that!  Were I you, I might respond by saying something like, "Oh, excused me, I've the wrong room.... I did not know that the miniature hobbiests convention was in town..." or some such..... LoL....  

Seriously, I think that if you were told that this was going to happen - it would make it ok?  maybe?  

Counter question, how many ladies are nudists?  Seriously, how many of you visit and practice nudity in your life?

. . . but that might turn me on.

"Would that turn you on"? They don't get turned on by our encouters. That is why there is money involved. Why do so many guys have trouble with this?

we he a client that i had gotten to know either over the phone or thru board communication and i knew his was their personality type i'd think "wow.. now that's a wild one!"

but for someone i've only touched base with to present themselves like that i would think "i see we've got a live one here!"

some guys will disrobe immediately as their way of cutting to the chase. and at times these are the same guys who try to BCD for 59:58 minutes of their 60:00 date.

*sigh*

I'd walk. In a heartbeat. Unless he was hung like Dirk Digler.

to really see if he was more than an inch

turn around and leave, its very rude, disrespectful and a total lack of discretion. who wants to see a man like that???

because I would take this as one of the surest signs that the guy WASN'T LE.

-- Modified on 6/15/2007 12:06:37 AM

I usually like my men a little classier than this, but as long as he was clean, didn't try to shake my hand with his weeney or place the envelope up his a _ _, I'd probably walk in and think to myself, "Wow, this is going to be easy." All kidding aside, everyone is different.

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 6/11/2007 4:52:18 PM

I don't know what you think about the women in this hobby, but many of us are turned on by the men we see.  We are not here just for the money and don't see you guys as cash registers.
I enjoy the men I've met and by enjoy I do mean mentally and physically.

-- Modified on 6/11/2007 5:18:54 PM

The subject line says 'for SB', I get the idea this was meant for another poster a ways up, and was written under yours only because it was the last one in line.    If I've got it all wrong, let the flogging begin. lol.

-- Modified on 6/11/2007 5:23:46 PM

She is almost certainly talking about SB1111, a few posts above yours.

but you have to realize how it sounded and that it fit my humorous description. Anyway, yes I'm a little heated -- not feeling well, but she could say something too.  Sorry! Kisses, kisses, kisses all over.  I'm really a nice person, but we all have our bad days and don't like being picked on.  Thanks, Ga Gambler.

Hugs,
ciara

Yes,
I was posting in reference to what was said by SB1111; that is why I addressed it to SB.  It just happened to fall under the last post by CiaraPhx.  Oh, well, life.

I'm sure we're all friends again, I've been known to be a little quick with the keyboard at times, usually on the politics board which is one of the reasons I rarely post there anymore. Its much friendlier here and on the other boards.
Hugs back at you

-- Modified on 6/15/2007 12:05:21 AM

If he's hard, it might be a turn on...if he's soft and shrivelled like a raisin, I'd RUN!

and insightful questions i've seen posted anywhere on TER in the year i've been reading the site.

i personally received a most necessary education; i'm surprised and dismayed by some of the providers negative reactions.

for some reason, i figured they as a group would be more open minded to various sexual scenarios.

*shrug*