TO ZsaZsa's point about teaching someone else to self-satisfy themselves, I did that -- and now I'm suffering the consequences! Is it possible for a woman to become "addicted" to high-powered sex toys? Opinions, gents and ladies? It sure seems so, from my experience. Here's what I mean:
I'm in the process of wrapping up an affair with my high school crush. By way of background, she was the tall wispy ice-bitch babe everyone wanted to nail, no one ever did and she barely acknowledged my existence back then. We met up at the 25th Reunion, sparks flew, etc. I found out her soon-to-be ex-husband was quite under-sexed (her only other sex partner; she married right after high school). She was naive, and didn't even KNOW what a vibrator was until I introduced it (no kidding; I grew up in a VERY small farm town, guys). To make a long story short, WHAM! Her first multiple orgasms. Her first screaming orgasms, scratching orgasms (helluva time expaining that to the missus), etc. I casually left a few vibrators at her place hoping she'd indulge herself, and did she ever. Months later we happen to get on the topic and she admitted using them "oh, maybe twice a week; they help my migraine headaches". Now, seems to me if a heretofore sexually conservative female is ADMITTING to twice a week, it could be alot more than that, right? The one toy she likes best is the "really big, D-battery" model, but she says it doesn't give her the same jolt as it did in the beginning. So I send her one of the high-octace 125 volt AC models and drop the topic. Over the next six months, I'm coaching her to be more selfish, get in tune with her body, soak up the pleasure, etc. I introduce her to Viagra, since a provider tipped me off that they make some women go crazy. Well, yup. Lately, it's gotten to the point where all she wants to do is eat the blue pill like Cracker Jack, ride me cowgirl while either she or I works her nether region with a toy until she drops like Pavlov's dog from exhaustion. Entertaining to watch, but it makes me feel like an auxilially sex toy. Needless to say she doesn't have much left over for me. Okay, so I'm a smuck and created my own Frankenstein but that's another topic altogether. Besides my indulging in taking a little ego-boosting victory lap here (the "invisible semi-pro" I've been posting about isn't going to be a quick turn-around) I'd really like to know...
Can women become addicted to vibrators to the point where that's the only way they can get off? And, can women become addicted to their own orgasms? Also, any other experiences like mine, where you wind up supplanted by a mechanical device?
I really can't imagine preferring a vibrator over a real live man. They are fun don't get me wrong, I love to play with them with someone else and occasionally on my own but the pleasure is most times that Both of us are enjoying the pleasure.
...and hence preferable. The crux of my question however is which evokes the most raw pleasure -- power tools or human penis?
And here I was about to bring a few toys to my next ATF encounter. Although, I believe ALL providers know a few things about toys and which do the job, right? I just thought sharing the fun might be a good thing. How 'bout it, do you gals enjoy sharing the toys with a man friend?
Yeah, he loves to watch.
I have the best toy ever - paid $100 bucks for it! I'd sell them door to door, it's so great! I believe every female should have one!
I actually get excited just looking at it!
S
She was a skilled and enthusiastic lover, but after weeks of otherwise enjoyable sex, I finally asked her why she never appeared to have an orgasm even though she loved sex. She told me she could only cum with a vibrator.
The first time I went over to spend the night at her condo, I asked her if she would show me how she used her vibrator to get off. Well, not only did she have the big industrial plug-in-the-wall type, but the amount of pressure she used on herself was unbelievable. She had clearly desensitized herself to the point that no man was EVER going to make her cum. Later that night she put the vibrator on her clit while she was on top of me and I lasted about ten seconds. How in the world her poor little clit survived that sort of treatment I had no idea.
But it was a classic example of why you should ask women what works for them. After I realized there was no chance of me ever giving her an orgasm unassisted, I quit fixating on making her cum and just enjoyed our time togther. It must have worked because we dated for four years.
STEPS IN OVERCOMING MASTURBATION
Mark E. Petersen
Council of the 12 Apostles
Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have
been, both male and female, and you can be also if you determine that
it must be so.
This determination is the first step. That is where we begin. You
must decide that you will end this practice, and when you make that
decision,the problem will be greatly reduced at once.
But it must be more than a hope or a whish, more than knowing that
it is good for you. It must be actually a DECISION. If you truly make up your
mind that you will be cured, then you will have the strength to resist any
tendencies which you may have and any temptations which may come to you.
After you have made this decision, then observe the following
specific guidelines:
