Just got back from an early morning tryst with a sex buddy friend and I know for a fact she had a total of 3 orgasms. Two of her orgasms came from me performing oral sex on her and the other from  straight sex.

My question are 3 orgasms too much for a woman in one setting. She seemed kinda exhausted and a bit wobbly after the second orgasm and should I have stopped after her second orgasm and continued some other day.

Ladies and guys please feel free to chime in.

Take her horseback riding and she will love you forever. Thats the only time I have seen them wobbly after dismounting.

...it takes too long for me to come and most men aren't patient for me to experience the big O.

Sometimes they will tell me to take my time, but after not even five minutes, they start to rapidly and roughly rub my clit and say "come for me baby, come for me, you can do it, you're almost there (no, I'm not), come for me, come for me, COME FOR ME!!!" So I "come" for them.

For the most part, I cannot come from penetration. I can squirt if a toy is used, as it's usually longer and hits the right spot. But typically I come from clit stimulation. But since I've been using a high speed vibrator for the past 15 years, DATY or a finger doesn't work for me. And if the guy wants me to come, I gladly "come" for him. It is his experience, so I accommodate.

There are only two times that I have actually had clitoral orgasm with a client. In both cases, I used a vibrator on me. Both were with regulars, and both wanted me to really come. I came after 15 minutes with the one client, and he was so pleased. The other client was turned off by it taking 20 minutes for me to come that he left my incall disappointed. Apparently, he did not want that much time focused on me, but he said he really wanted me to come, so I did.

I may be different, but that's my experience.

Oh and to answer your question, "My question are 3 orgasms too much for a woman in one setting."...No that is not too many orgasms. I've given myself back to back orgasms before with my vibrator and it's awesome! It usually leaves me a little tired and definitely content.

And just to be clear, faking an orgasm isn’t necessarily done to fool the guy or because a provider thinks he’s an idiot. But sometimes, at least in my case, I want to get the focus back on pleasuring him as soon as possible and not waste time on trying to get me off when that rarely happens.

Most civilians will never fake a orgasm.Thats how I learned it often takes at least 17 minutes of DATY,for a civvy that is easily orgasmic to get off, and why I sometimes snicker when a provider has one after two minutes of DATY. I had a 30 year young live in GF who told me before she moved in, she had never experienced  a orgasm.She was sexually experienced and quite capable of giving me great pleasure.Even though she never had orgasms she was uninhibited ,
enjoyed sex and often initiated it.
I tried "almost" everything including different sex toys for a couple years, but still no orgasm from her.One day I came home with a rabbit dildo, and the combination of twenty minutes of  DATY and "mostly" the rabbit got her off for the first time in her life..I was her hero.  I would like to take this opportunity to thank Rabbit corporation and Eveready for my success with her.

...it can still be an amazing experience to share with your partner.

In the case with the regular who was happy I came, we have been closer ever since that appointment, because I shared with him my true sexuality. The fact that I was able to let go as I used my vibrator, and he was there to arouse me by sucking my nipples, etc., was simply wonderful. I use my vibrator weekly and it's nothing compared to someone in person caressing and licking other parts of your body as you get off. I love it.

Yes, the rabbit is brilliant. And I'm glad you were accepting of your GF's needs. That's always important in a successful relationship.

Xoxo.

GG: Yes, I am getting out all of my posting while I still can!! LMAO

experience is more common than the ladies here want to admit.

Without saying who, someone I know is just like that. We use toys a lot, it works better for both of us.

jhtresa said: "I may be different, but that's my experience."

You are as different as every other woman out there.  In my experience with girlfriends, I have seen the absolute spectrum.

My very first serious girlfriend could only ever get off from DATY or hand stimulation (and I suppose a vibrator, but I didn't know about such things way back when).  I learned my initial DATY technique by learning to please her.  So I figured EVERY woman took 20 to 30 minutes of non-stop DATY to get there.  Hey at least my tongue got in shape!

Boy was I surprised by my college GF.  She was like a carnival ride from the get-go.  First O within about 5 minutes, then multiples were common.  She'd have nearly 10 or 12 a night.  I could never really count and she didn't care to try.  Next morning, she'd be at it again - LOL!

Then I met a lady that had never had an O.  She thought she had, but knew that her experience wasn't what her friends were describing.  Eventually, we got her there, but it took a very unique combination of things to press the button right.  Yes, she was thrilled as was I.  (I tend to be a perfectionist - LOL!)

With providers, I try to make it clear that I enjoy giving them pleasure, but I not if they have to fake it.  Better to enjoy the sensation rather than try to act to please me.

I have had a couple providers tell me up front (after I asked for honesty) that they were 99 percent sure that they wouldn't have an O with me.  Just the way they were.  Fine by me and they both relaxed markedly.

Lastly, I once made the mistake of not believing a provider that told me that once she had an O, she was basically done for the night so she tried to actually avoid them.  I wasn't really performing well that night anyway - stupid brain getting in the way of my own pleasure - so I decided to focus on her.  Well, we got her there and it was great. In fact, I got totally aroused by it.  Of course, as she had warned me, she was like a rag doll and was barely staying awake as I realize I had just paid a provider so she could get off and I didn't - LMAO!  Couldn't decide whether to be irritated with myself or pleased.  I opted for the latter.

(No review because of the weird circumstances).

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I don't know about other women, but my wife would take 8-10 orgasms if she could get them. I usually make sure she has at least 4 before I get taken care of. I say keep giving them to her until she complains. I doubt she ever will.

3 Orgasms is nothing!  BRING IT ON BAYBEE!

of course I passed out after that.  I come so much and continuously it is hard to tell them apart.  Give her as many as she can and wants to handle.  She will stop you when she has had enough.

but then, i may have 3 orgasms during the course of 3 years, or less. but i have zero complaints as i do not seem to have the pressing need or desire for an orgasm that most people have. in fact i find them to be a distraction, a nuisance, and not wildly pleasurable. so i much prefer my sex life without them. which means that the LAST man i want to have sex with is one who is hoping or trying to make me cum. for me, there is NO greater turn-off than to be in a room alone with such a person.

I have a special friend that I have seen quite a few times in the last like 5 mos. and the first time...I lost count...it was one right after the other and they were intense.

I can't explain it other than the chemistry is off the charts and he hits that spot all the time.  After a few we  both lost count and just enjoyed ourselves. I know for sure all times were in the double digits...like high double digits.

Damn I think I need a road trip again here real soon..especially with my birthday coming up next month.

Makenzie

So yes I am multi-orgasmic!!!

If I got a government grant for research on this topic, would they be stimulus funds?

Personally, I'm like the stereotype of what they say me are, one and done... and just tired as all heck afterwards. I've tried for more, but after the 1st, I'm just so sensitive, it's just not happening

Well isn't this interesting...the three providers who talk about being multi-orgasmic and used their real handles are all at least D cups...any correlation???

That's funny, all the women I dated that were multi orgasmatic were "A" cups.  I need a larger sample group!

Whoda thunk?

Depends on how she cums as in how hard AND how she recuperates. From oral I can get 2 back to back easy if done right and if we get into sex right after the 2nd I can knock out 2 more depending on the position and might be a bit tired after but I'm pretty energetic so I don't need much time to charge up again.