I have my hours listed and I also say "I need my beauty sleep between 11pm-7am so I do not respond to messages at this time"- I still wake up with a dozen "hey baby"s and "u available?"s, incoherent voicemails, missed calls, blank emails.
Just because I'm available at 10:45 for a date doesn't mean I'm going to jump up at 10:45 and get read to go see just anyone- it means that if you booked ahead of time and passed screened that I will see you. I think it's safe to assume that providers sleep on a normal schedule like normal people and if you want a date late at night to contact them many hours (preferably a day or more) beforehand. I have never had an actual successful date come from anyone who calls me at ridiculous hours because frankly I block them or never respond.I think all providers should list their hours of availabilty. I know that some of them do, but most of them just write "call me...I'm waiting!" Their ads are posted on a schedule (every few hours, three times a day, once in the morning, or once late at night; it varies). You never really know when they are available. I just woke one up and she hung up on me. Not the first time either.
Is it just me?
So if she wrote on her ad that she's available 24/7, would you call at ungodly hours of the AM believing she's available right at that moment? SMDH.
Use some common sense.
I'm not an idiot. I never contact any of those 24/7 providers. No one is available 24 hours a day.
It was around 10:45pm, but thanks for assuming that I'm stupid.
You're cold calling woman you have never before met at 10:45pm? I thought it was standard practice to email the woman first with references and a preferred day and time in mind with enough lead time to work out your schedules?
Tip - if you have never been screened by a woman and especially never met the woman, she's going to, well, treat you like a stranger. Because you ARE. You don't get to set up last minute appointments with escorts you never met by calling on the phone. Even agency's often won't even pick up the phone but respond to texts and e mails almost immediately. Indi girls you never met often respond with in 24 hours when screening info and references were provided. Personal calls and short notice appointments come after you know each other and there is some trust between the two of you. I've had women pick up the phone on short notice, but that is not the norm. It was a hail marry and I always expect it not to work out.
These are escorts! Your not calling a 24 hour towing company lol. There is no call service on staff like a Drs office. Women eat and sleep lol. You would have better luck contacting an escort during the afternoon for s late night rendezvous than starting to call at bedtime. We know what's going on...you get horny, its late and you want poon! So you try to set something up like you're ordering a delivery pizza and get frustrated because it isn't happening like you want it too.
It was around 10:45pm, but thanks for assuming that I'm stupid.
There are a LOT of 24/7 agencies in almost any decent sized cities and there are night owl indies in most of them as well.
If a hooker doesn't want to be answering late night calls (and I certainly don't blame her) the answer is simple, she can just do what most providers do "after hours" they turn off their work phone. Only an idiot or very inexperienced hooker is going to be woken up in the middle of the night because her "work phone" is still on while she is asleep.
Once you learn how to do it, ordering up a hooker shouldn't me a lot more difficult than ordering up a pizza. P 411's "available now" section is a good place to start. I rarely "get the urge" and start calling hookers at 3 AM, but I won't say it's never happened either and almost every time I was able to find someone to "scratch my itch" lol You do have to be smart about it of course, simply going down the list of every ad on Eros or P 411 is NOT likely to achieve the desired results.
OMG I luv you! Couldn't have espoused it better myself!
Thank you!
....... it is pretty inconsiderate and rude to call anyone that you don't know at 10:45pm.
You're the one that said stupid. We can go with that if you want. I'll just stick with inconsiderate and rude.
Clever. How long did it take to come up with that? It's a good thing that the dictionary is online now.
Now explain why you just HAD to reply to every response you got on this thread? Sensitive much?
Poor snowflake.
is not to call anyone (and I mean anyone not just providers) before 9am or after 9pm unless it is an emergency. I get pretty pissed off if anyone calls me outside of these hours unless my house is on fire and I'm inside it.
appointments a day or two in advance by email? For those that like to wait until things are "urgent", i.e., you're driving down the street, look down, and notice you have an unexpected boner, you go to the CV ads which have a blue "available" icon with a time stamp so you can get that boner fixed within an hour or two. There are providers that use this feature in the middle of the night, so that you don't have to disturb the ones that don't. I rarely book same-day appointments, but on those occasions where my schedule opened up on short notice, the CV ads have never failed me. Maybe not my first choice, but within two or three tries. If you need an "urgent" appointment, the specific girl shouldn't matter that much.
I'm clear about my working time in all my ads, but guys call during 24hs. Not only when they're horny, also call from another countries and they never think about the different time between continents...
I have my hours listed and I also say "I need my beauty sleep between 11pm-7am so I do not respond to messages at this time"- I still wake up with a dozen "hey baby"s and "u available?"s, incoherent voicemails, missed calls, blank emails.
Just because I'm available at 10:45 for a date doesn't mean I'm going to jump up at 10:45 and get read to go see just anyone- it means that if you booked ahead of time and passed screened that I will see you.
I think it's safe to assume that providers sleep on a normal schedule like normal people and if you want a date late at night to contact them many hours (preferably a day or more) beforehand.
I have never had an actual successful date come from anyone who calls me at ridiculous hours because frankly I block them or never respond.
but in any case, they also tend to have very variable hours. So, to list some kind of regular hours could cause them to miss an opportunity. They can always shut off their phone when they want.
Don't take it personally.
an email address for contact info while some are requesting contact be made through P411. These providers only give out their cell number a day or two prior to a scheduled date.
I pursue a lot of civvie opportunities and my weeks never look the same. Therefore, I never list working hours. I prefer that you email me with your screening information and that you pass screening before I am able to confirm anything. That alone takes at least 12 hrs and I believe is pretty standard practice.
Even if you were to wake someone up accidentally, I would encourage you to open with a polite line. "Hi, I found your number, I hope I didn't wake you up" may get you further on in the conversation. Everyone appreciates respect, regardless of it being noon or midnight!
Fellow hobbyists,
This morning, I fed off of your insults and lashed out at you in anger. I apologize. I refuse to promote hate and negativity. Say what you will about me. I need to give up this hobby anyway.
I am always available to take a booking . . . not an appointment.
But let's face it . . . there aint nothing good at 2, 3AM in the morning.