I had quit seeing Providers ,Escorts and Free sluts

When I asked my Gf if she would marry me she said no , she is moving to the West Coast without me .  
  I prefer she say no , than divorce me in less than seven years  .
    It's nice to have good  choices  to fall back on .  
 I'm lucky also .  
   
  A special thanks to the women of TER that meet my fancy .      
   

Posted By: Ridgetucky

So last night I was having dinner/wine/conversation/juicy gossip with my sister in law about my mother in law.  Oh Snap Ridgetucky is such a Bitch  
   
 Anyway, during the course of the conversation it came up that several couples we know are getting divorced/having problems/dealing with bullshit because of infidelity.  And not the good kind that occurs on TER.  
   
 Later that night I thought damn, I am lucky!!  
   
 I get to play in this world (for a fee mind you) but it keeps my marriage in tact.  And I thought only if those guys participated in this life maybe their marriages would still be whole.  
   
 Then I thought do I owe:  
   
 *  a debt of gratitude  
 *  a tip of $$$  
 *  a thank you  
 *  (insert your own here)  
   
 to these Providers.  I must admit for once RT was humbled by the power of Providers.    
   
 I am able to keep up the facade of the nice and faithful husband and I have Hookers to thank for it.  
   
 WOW.  Who would have thunk it  
   
 _____________  
   
 Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it and thought of other things if you did.  
 James A. Baldwin  
   
 

*  a debt of gratitude  
*  a tip of $$$  
*  a thank you  
*  (Just state your gratitude. When someone knows what effect they're having on another, many want to do even better at it. Makes the job that much more enjoyable.)

maybe, there's hope for gentlemen like you yet. Well done.

-- Modified on 8/11/2013 8:17:44 PM

And those that know me know that I appreciate their small involvements in my life.

Not just the hookers...but the johns as well.

I don't tip...but feel free to do so  LOL

Posted By: Ridgetucky

So last night I was having dinner/wine/conversation/juicy gossip with my sister in law about my mother in law.  Oh Snap Ridgetucky is such a Bitch  
   
 Anyway, during the course of the conversation it came up that several couples we know are getting divorced/having problems/dealing with bullshit because of infidelity.  And not the good kind that occurs on TER.  
   
 Later that night I thought damn, I am lucky!!  
   
 I get to play in this world (for a fee mind you) but it keeps my marriage in tact.  And I thought only if those guys participated in this life maybe their marriages would still be whole.  
   
 Then I thought do I owe:  
   
 *  a debt of gratitude  
 *  a tip of $$$  
 *  a thank you  
 *  (insert your own here)  
   
 to these Providers.  I must admit for once RT was humbled by the power of Providers.    
   
 I am able to keep up the facade of the nice and faithful husband and I have Hookers to thank for it.  
   
 WOW.  Who would have thunk it  
   
 _____________  
   
 Money, it turned out, was exactly like sex, you thought of nothing else if you didn't have it and thought of other things if you did.  
 James A. Baldwin  
   
 

First, I'm not sure how much is complimentary and not insulting. Second and I think most importantly, I never try to negotiate. It's my feeling that a provider has determined what she thinks is the best donation for her time when she posts her rates and that's exactly what I donate. Some providers I've been with weren't the level of companionship as their rates, others exceeded it. A select few have exceeded my expectations by making me feel like they really enjoyed spending time with me (it's ok if it's just an act but both ladies have and continue to make me feel like we are friends, if only for a select few hours in time). I'm still not sure if my tip was an appropriate amount, but I am convinced that they both know my tip was a sincere show of appreciation.

"keeps your marriage intact" ??

Wow!!
The question is, how does your wife feel about you cheating?  (sick)

every married guy i know who cheated , w/o provider

Got caught ! It doesn't work . Never did never will . And past ten years , it was their wives who cheated , but most of the women aren't doing so good after the split.

But to answer your question....

What I owe... is to be a respectful gentleman, freshly showered with the correct donation in the envelope!

Good post RT.. are you the same person?

*  a debt of gratitude - sure
*  a tip of $$$ - $5 extra dollars
*  a thank you - yes
*  my life, sex life that is

I'm not married by the way

Gratitude to the hooker

Hi Ridgetucky. As a provider, I (we) am here, happy willing and able to make YOU a little happier, less stressed and relieved. We only hope that when you return home to your wife that you reflect those fine characteristics that have been brought out by "your private time".  

We want men to be good husbands and fathers, employees or employers, as well as better members of society. Look back to the day of the almighty Courtesan. She had the power to give that man a little hope, affection among other things that indeed made him a better man altogether.

In my opinion, no tip is required (not by the better providers anyhow). The thanks and gratitude should go to you for having the common sense and dignity to "take care of your business" with someone who is not going to mess with your marriage in any way. Kudos for not allowing hurt to touch your family and friends. Kudos for keeping our number hidden away so that said wife does not come rip our hair out and blow what we have going on for whatever reason we have it going on. Everyone has a story.....thanks for sharing yours.

Stay safe, have fun!!!!

Selena

I feel this indulgence has actually helped out at home. Been married 14 years and yes things have gone stale at home. Blame it on whatever ya want, life, kids, same old same old for years. Whatever ya wanna call it, it happens. This gives me a safe outlet with out emotional baggage. Is it wrong in the moral or biblical sense? Honestly yeah I believe it is, Jesus said that to lust after another was the same as commuting adultery. Some may argue that one but I'm the kind of guy if its in the red letter part of the Bible I'm not gonna bet against the big guy. Anyways figured if I was gonna get pegged with it anyways might as well go for it full throttle LOL!!
It's a nice break from the routine go out with a lovely lady maybe dinner or drinks a little playtime and back to the real world ya go. Refreshed and ready to deal with whatever life throws at ya.  
Like most married guys I do love the SO but don't get the same fulfillment physically that I get here, it's nice to have you're ego stroked once in a while. And like I said no emotional baggage to deal with and safer than some slut at a bar. And my mood carries over at home not to mention the benefits of realizing ya still got a little game left, the other night the SO and I got done in the bedroom and she said "where the hell did you learn that?" I just grinned and said. "The Internet" . So yeah it's wrong but damn it's fun and am I gonna quit anytime soon? Hell no!!

WTF???

Dude, you are paying for a service. Providers owe you good times and discretion the same way the chef at your local restaurant should not jack off in your soup. Stop obsessing.

And perhaps you should ask your wife whether she appreciates the way you so cleverly avoid infidelity. She might not be as big a fan.

Dear Ridgetucky,

The escorts you hire are professionals. Like other skilled professionals, they derive satisfaction from doing their job well in exchange for the pre-arranged fee. However, like other service professionals, they also welcome gratuities if you think the service was 'above and beyond' what would normally be expected.

What services represent 'above and beyond' is of course highly subjective. It often depends on the situation and existing relationship between escort and client. However, I personally would not consider anything that you described in your post to be 'above and beyond'. It is generally expected that escorts maintain the highest standards of discretion. Thus, helping you keep your 'marriage intact' should be expected. Breaches of trust that compromise your marriage, professional, or legal status should be considered gross professional misconduct by an escort.

That said, if you still consider any other aspect of your provider's service exceptional and worthy of extra reward:

Note that gratuities can take many forms besides cash. A nice meal and drinks as part of a multi-hour date can certainly be a nice treat in addition to the hourly fee. However, clients should be aware that escorts that normally do not provide 'dinner dates' or extended appointments may do so for important reasons (problems arranging child care, personal preference, etc), and the client should consider these possibilities before assuming that such things would be welcomed. Fortunately, many escorts make it clear on their websites and through other modes of communication what sorts of gratuities they favor. An appreciative client is advised to look carefully at these 'wish lists' when considering such gifts.

In any case, it certainly does not hurt to promote your image as a generous man. Such an image will definitely facilitate bookings and subsequent service with providers who have benefitted directly. And you'd be surprised how word can get around in the professional escort community.

Please remember to also be generous at home. Your wife deserves something extra nice now and then too.  

Happy hobbying!

Every other person to do their utmost to have polite n positive interactive moments. You don't owe providers anything other than putting your best foot forward w/o it being stepped on. Remember to do unto others as u would have done to you.