I'm curious to know how many providers actually like what they do and how many are just about the money. Of course some are better when it comes to acting than others but how do the guys feel about this??  If you're a provider just goes along with the session to reap the financial benefits how do you deal with it???

and am willing to suspend disbelief.  I consider it entertainment.  My experience with providers is very limited but I expect to be entertained.  So I am looking for a good actress, I guess.  I have yet to have a lady half my age come running across the bar room floor and ask me if she can sit on my face.  Kind of like reading a story.  The author and I agree to have a reality for the duration of the story.
 If the story is bad, the acting is poor, the actress unprofessional (loaded, running mouth disease) or otherwise not keeping the agreement then I am not happy and feel money was wasted.  But I am more than happy to pay for the entertainment.  Like other parts of my life, I do find that relationships bloom and an honest friendship develops (phone calls and emails, etc) based on getting to know each other.
 And there are times when I believe the actress enjoys herself.  As Jeanna Fine says in her movie "Deep inside Jeanna Fine" 'You're there, it is happening.' B.

I am now retired, but when I went into the business, I did not go in simply for financial reasons. It was really a social/psychological experiment for me. I had a great deal of social anxiety that I was able to confront and learn to deal with. I had severely repressed my sexual side for most of my life, and I was able to get back in touch with that side of myself. I was able to explore the "dark" side of humanity, the bastard child that most of society doesn't like to talk about (and even those within this "darkness" don't always like to think about until it's time for their next fix, or unless they are fixated and obsessed with it)(And, of course, not everyone is like that, but some are).

I know one who used drugs and drinking to deal with the guilt of being a provider. When she cleaned herself she started talking about religious things and making clients feel guilty. She chased a few clients away doing this stuff. She also stopped seeing smelly old disrespectful men.

The best providers are the ones who are ready and on time. The show it in there performance and how they treat the client. Beauty gets a first appointment but attitude keeps me cumming back. There are a few providers who really do enjoy lots of sex and enjoy the money that goes along with it.

as these ladies do their thing, then I'd do it too. Money is the motivation and if any provider denies that, then she is nuts. I have come across a few ladies who genuinely enjoy sex. Do they have a great connection with every guy that walks in the door, no, and they have superb acting skills, because the best get you to repeat. My guess is that only a small fraction of women truly enjoy the profession while being able to support a family and/or a lifestyle. Think of it like this: How many "freaks" did you meet growing up? Not many and the numbers in the profession are just as scarce. The rest do it for the dough and who could blame them?

Hint: It's the direction in which they face.

My face has never won any "pretty boy" aclaim but now my delicate ego is going to take a shot the next time I am asked to proceed to the canine posture

Probably why the ladies like to turn the lights down low as well

Thankfully they will do this for the money, or I would be in real trouble (hand lotion anyone?). LOL

It is easier to make the client pop faster. Plus it is nice to hold those breasts and kiss the provider as she turns her head sides on the pillow.

I truly love it.

I was making twice as much as a VP of sales and marketing, so I must not be in it just for the money.

It's fun!

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..and I'm certainly one of the 'few'!  But it's my opinion that there are MANY of us who feel that way ....I can't imagine being an escort if I didn't enjoy lots of sex!

-- Modified on 2/18/2006 5:03:44 PM