As a newbie I was wondering if it was bad form to write a review for a provider that made an appointment with you then didnt answer her phone when you arrived. This provider is well reviewed. Is it a tough pill I have to swollow or should I warn everyone that there is a chance you drove an hour for nothing.

At the present the only approved method of reporting NoCall/NoShow flakes is by posting the incident on your regional TER discussion board.

The gals have a private board, there is too much hostility to make it a TER feature...use your private board to deal....we don't show=you get blue balls...you flake = we lose livelyhood....the loss is greater on the supply side...stop whining...its just life

...I've heard of someone driving 9 hours in a diaper for love.  Now that's committment.

Me thinks you are a little myopic when it comes to the provider side of no-shows.

Having "job" accountability is a good thing for anyone because it helps keep us all a little bit more honest.

If a provider pulls a "no show" isn't she just as unprofessional as the hobbyist who does the same thing?

If I make an appointment and can't keep it for some reason I am on the phone in a hurry to keep my client or provider from wasting their time. As a professional similar to providers I sell my time.

If I take off to see a provider, I am giving up time that I could have billed a client.I may still be horny if the provider doesn't show but I have also lost valuable time that I could have billed and collected. I have also lost "money".

Rudeness is a part of life. Having accountability and the "concern" that someone will point a providers no-show record is just as valid as the ladies reporting a hobbyist who pulls a no-show.

I'm merely data basing while objectively answering these redundant policy questions from hobbyists who have incurred this type of loss.

2 hour round trip = approximately                 120 miles
Average time wasted waiting at destination      1/hour
17mpg average vehicle fuel consumption         7.058 gallons of fuel usesd

$3.00/gal average fuel price x 7.05                $21.17
Approx. hobbyist income = $30/h ( x 3) =     $90.00

Approximate hobbyist loss incurred =           $111.17


-- Modified on 2/7/2007 7:56:04 AM

Priceless

to Orlando--probably closer to 11 or 12 hours.

Not in diapers.  Its faster.  Try it and you'll see.  Simple high school physics.

Two observations:

1) The provider loses nothing because the reason she no shows is she got a better deal, i.e. a multiple hour appointment.

2) Don't book Miki with an attitude like hers. She'd cancel in a heartbeat.

I had a damn good reason for it.  I had 2 guys book and the first called me from the SAME phone # as the 2nd gent I was supposed to see. So it did make me nervous so I decided the best thing to do was NOT see either of them. And of course I am NOT going to answer either call.

Sometimes there IS a reason for it NOT always but sometimes things happen that spook the provider and she will NOT answer the phone or respond to your calls.




-- Modified on 2/7/2007 7:08:18 PM

Speak for yourself.  I was a late bloomer.

and I suspect that you came up with the same reason.... Was there a lot of Donut munching sounds in the background...? lol

yea, I too think LE!

Geez, I hope # 2 was posted in jest or in the direct light of personal experience.

wow, i know it sucks for any dude to flake on the girl, but nice attitude- remind me not waste my time with an appointment with you- i never flake- and i would expect the same in return

guess its all about what kind of mood you are in