ll means. If you liked her, you can still hedge it to show that in your opinion and experience (and that's all you're giving) she doesn't rate a 9/9, but...But if she's significantly over-rated (and I have a guess about who it is), it should be stated. An honest review won't destroy her if she's basically good, and it's up to you to articulate those nuances.
Not sure where to post this, and didn't want to put it on the DC board right now.
Earlier this week I got in contact with a provider, went and saw her and had an encounter. Said encounter went OK. In my experience, nothing too special. However, since I had contacted her through TER she knew I was a member. She flat out asked me twice during the encounter to give her a 9/9. She's a newcomer, very new to the biz and it's talked about in her reviews (her newness). Many of which are given by pretty active members. Almost to a man she's been reviewed 9/9. Now she did do BBBJ and tongue kissing, so she technically qualifies for the second 9. And her glam-shots (which may or may not be her) are pretty stunning. But I've been with a few 9/9's out there (not that I write reviews for everyone I see, especially if they have a ton already), and there is no way I could give her that score. Should I write the review and basically call out the 10-15 guys who have already given her that score, or should I stay silent and hope everyone else can read between the lines?
Just because she gives a bbj doesnt make it a 9. In your review it is your experience not what she tells you to put out there. If she swept you off your feet than rate her accordingly. Thats just my opinion, i think it would be best not to pressure who reviews you. If the service wa 9 give her a 9 if her appearance was a 9 give her that too not based off her photos. Just give an honest review every reviewer has there own chance to rate there opinion.
9/9 worthy.
80 percent of the top gals have manipulated their reviews
write an honest review, or write no review at all. I hope you don't give into her pressure.
You are, generally speaking, a somewhat tough scorer. I have no problem with that, considering that you gave me one of the highest scores you've ever given anyone. But if you then give this girl a 9/9, it will look like she was leaps and bounds above everyone else you've ever seen, and that's, well, total bullshit.
The score manipulation by many of the girls these days is also total bullshit. Reviewers need to start communicating with each other about which girls play these games, and who does not.
ll means. If you liked her, you can still hedge it to show that in your opinion and experience (and that's all you're giving) she doesn't rate a 9/9, but...But if she's significantly over-rated (and I have a guess about who it is), it should be stated. An honest review won't destroy her if she's basically good, and it's up to you to articulate those nuances.
Hi Natasha;
Totally agree with this post, well done. And I would add that reviewers need to do said communications openly and not simply back channel.
BS such as demanding particular scores, too many reviewers inflating scores etc.. are ruining the value of reviews and lead many, myself included, to write them under an alias.
Regards......RR
Win win!!!
Rate her as you please see her again and again untill she provides a 9 and then rate her a 9. Wouldnt be smart for her to slack on anymore bjs if she wants to be rated outstanding make her earn it!
You can also wait up to 3 months to write the review.
Earlier this week I got in contact with a provider, went and saw her and had an encounter. Said encounter went OK. In my experience, nothing too special. However, since I had contacted her through TER she knew I was a member. She flat out asked me twice during the encounter to give her a 9/9. She's a newcomer, very new to the biz and it's talked about in her reviews (her newness). Many of which are given by pretty active members. Almost to a man she's been reviewed 9/9. Now she did do BBBJ and tongue kissing, so she technically qualifies for the second 9. And her glam-shots (which may or may not be her) are pretty stunning. But I've been with a few 9/9's out there (not that I write reviews for everyone I see, especially if they have a ton already), and there is no way I could give her that score. Should I write the review and basically call out the 10-15 guys who have already given her that score, or should I stay silent and hope everyone else can read between the lines?
but still within the 90 day window... a few weeks & she'll not be sure who you are & can review with a alias if you prefer. Don't be vindictive but try to give the host honest score you can. I write reviews & store them some place secure then review & edit as necessary before submitting. Sometimes my attitude changes some after chilling...
A higher score than she deserves.
You sound like a guy who does not want to see a bunch of inflated reviews... So write an honest review.
Write an honest review. Make it the way you think it should be or don't write it. The idea of using an alias or waiting a couple of months to submit it is fine. I honestly am not sure what I would do but one thing is absolutely certain. I would not write the review and give her 9/9. Her telling me what to score made it certain it wasn't going to happen.
Do keep everything you can to be able to prove to TER it's legitimate if/when she challenges it. That is if you choose to write it.
Had to really respect that attitude. Hadn't seen her yet, hope to soon when schedules match up. But the fact that she was self-confident enough to ask me to keep our meeting between us struck a note in me. She didn't feel the need for public accolades for our meeting and that was fine with me.
I think I know who she is. I think people are judging her not on an absolute scale but on a relative scale. You can be honest with your review and as long as you explain in the body of your report as to the reason, it shouldn't matter. I think she's getting bad advise or picking up bad habits if she's asking for a certain score. She doesn't need to do that IMO.
Thanks for all the advice.
It grinds my gears that she obviously asks everyone for the 9/9. And guys comply. Guys who have seen Jesse Yum Yum who is probably the closest I've seen to a 9/9.
I know everyone's tastes differ, but someone who claims to be brand new to the biz, and obviously acts that way, can't be earning a 9/9 right out of the box.
I think I will post my review, warts and all, and not overtly call out the grade inflation from other scores. Some might see it as a little harsh, but just ticking the boxes that can lead to the ultimate score doesn't mean it has to.
Honesty is the best policy when reviewing IMO. I have had some guys I just didn't click with so I just took what they gave me. It actually helped me really. Your honest review may actually help her
I think its tacky as hell to ASK for a review and ESPECIALLY one that you have to ask for the score lol
Hugs and kisses
TL
not attractive by conventional standards you're saying that you've seen plenty of women who are a 9.
for example just look around and I'm sure you'll find plenty of women to get mines in the looks department that you do not think our 9
I have seen many women who me personally if I look like them I would feel very badly about myself not that I am this big great person or anything but as far as your body goes I'm very self conscious about my body and I work out a lot and if I slack on my workouts I get really embarrassed about how I look
and as far as my face goes I was published in extreme magazine for a year straight for two different clubs in Boston
full page advertisements.
as well as I got paid to do a lot of other appearances at motorcycle week and things like that to do modeling for photography companies and what not and what have you.
anyways the extreme magazine they pick one girl out of the whole club to publish an extra magazine to be the advertisement
so obviously when I get a9 I know I deserve it.
but I'm just saying not everyone likes the same look
there are lot of women that
by conventional standards you would not think for a 9 but they get 90 pages and pages of all 9 in looks but yet they have never done any modeling.
I also had a three page centerfold in hustler and then I wasn't it a second time.
but anyways that's just mentioning a few of the things I did with modeling
anyways it doesn't matter if you ever really done paid modeling gigs
or had publications
or start in any type of film or online website work
just take a look at all the women that get nines you say this girl is not a nine and you know what a nice looks like.
so you can't really state and the fact that she's definitely not a 9 just because you have seen women that are 9 and that this lady definitely is not at 9
I have seen plenty and plenty of ladies that definitely at least what most people think they would not be considered model material and more than likely they wouldn't be able to land any publications and magazines or film or get paid as a model
in reality and in real life however
not to say that all these guys giving the nine truly found them to be model material to them maybe their personality it may be there pizzazz
who knows how but if you take a look there are a lot of women that get nines and have never done any modeling and you can tell that by looking at them.
I wouldn't burst her bubble I would agree with her and I would just not give her a review at all.
sooner or later she'll get some fake reviews that are 6's and then she'll realize that
it doesn't really matter if you get all high scores people are going to like you anyway and actually getting a couple of bad ones will only make people believe you're real
I would just say,
if you want to make her day and it really means a lot to her go ahead and do it.
give her another year and she'll stop even asking for reviews and she won't even care anymore.
I know I was all excited about the reviews at first now I never even ask people for one anymore
and if they ask me if I want one I say I don't care because look at all my reviews they all basically say the same thing but plug massage she's this Italian mother that wants to feed you!
she likes to play with feet
she likes to pretend that you're one of her teeny bopper friends and its a slumber party and you guys are going to play manicure spa
and she'll make you subject yourself to activities you otherwise may not be interested in
I can't tell you how many guys let me file their toenails in place by and play with their feet they're such a cutie pies
then I pretend I'm Julia Child and I'll cook a bunch of food and it usually doesn't come out right people are polite and I'm convinced I am this gourmet chef'
what I really think about it it's like I'm subjecting all the guys to pretending we are at a slumber party when I was a teenager and we're doing all these girly things like face masks and spa bubble baths
anyways it's good to have a quirk. and besides if you're too good looking you tend to lose your sense of humor and you lose your personality!
I was sort of joking when I posted don't ever fight with a woman always agree with a woman I've heard a lot of guys say that they just let the women win
I don't know in the long run
there are going to be plenty of people that are not going to fall for that so I don't know if you want to be the one to start doing it
getting all 99 would be extremely difficult
I mean if you look at the girls in the National top hundred you have to compare yourself to them and say look at do I look like them the answer is probably more than likely no!
I highly doubt any of those women even ask for those tens if you look at their pictures you can tell they're getting them anyway-
I mean the things she does have to realize is that she might be in mind all those other guys but the looks is all personal thing some guys will think conventionally unattractive women are modeled beautiful
and then there's some men that like the all-american Barbie look under some men
then there's some men just like Asian women then there's some men like bbw
then some like barely legal in some like cougar
then some like alternative with the tattoos and piercings in vinyl
in all honesty if you didn't think she was 19 and you just thought she was in eight maybe you should be the first one to burst the bubble because it's going to happen sooner or later anyhow
what to have a 99 average I don't know she would have to be something really special to be getting at
that's pretty high
I myself have done plenty of modeling which means I was making my full time living off of being a model for quite some time school
I was on the cover of so many Flyers for different motorcycle events so many clubs
I think I may have posted one of the old pictures I was quite the looker in my hey day.
the platinum blonde hair and the blue contacts I guess that added to the whole excitement of it all some guys really just like that look
but model material I suppose that should mean somebody that actually would qualify to do something with her getting paid for the locks are they getting paid to be in advertisements or magazines,,,
I stated in my review she lacks experience in the technique department, but makes up for it with her attitude and enthusiasm. I also stated that she made me feel I was really spending time with my GF. In my opinion, performance is more than just techniques, but maybe you have a different opinion and that's fine as everyone is entitled to their opinion. As for her looks, I happen to like natural-looking girls with very little makeup and she fits the bill.
Give her whatever score you deem appropriate, and mention that she asked for a 9/9 review if you so incline. The only reason I wrote this reply is I disagree with your use of calling out which made it sound like we intentionally gave out inflated scores which is not true at least in my case