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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 935 reads
posted
1 / 31

When scrolling through provider ads, there are some I click on and a lot that I skip. Obviously, things like hair color, ethnicity, certain body types, even the clothes they chose to pose in all play a part in drawing me in to take a closer look at their ad. My likes and dislikes are based on a variety of things. I'm very conscious of some of these factors-- this one reminds me of a long ago girlfriend, or that one seems so exotically different from me or the people I'm mostly surrounded by.

There are some "types" I recoil from because of some connotations that they would be boring or drab.

I wonder if other hobbyists base their decisions of who they choose to see on similar past memories.

How conscious do you feel you are of the reasons you pick one provider over another?

I realize this is slanted toward the men's opinions, but I'm sure women on this board have insights I've never even considered.

AtxSally See my TER Reviews 664 reads
posted
3 / 31

Us Red Heads, are all just good girls, but once heated up watch out you dont want to get burned.  
Preverence has alot to do with the choice. I like men a little taller than me,with a belly,white men are my preference,and other nationalities .

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 692 reads
posted
5 / 31

in my personal and real life.
always alpha males completely covered in tattoos full sleeve. tons and tons of Money millionaires only.
the last guy I lived with Owens about 7 businesses. 3 houses. two of which were three families so he was collecting rents from 6 just from those 2 houses. so obviously he didn't have to get up and go to work everyday.  
and when I moved in with him I gotta have a 16 foot walk in closet with lights all across the ceiling.
and then the boyfriend I had after him was a stunt bike rider
that one actually lived in the mothers basement and was not loaded.
but he had full sleeve his hands were tattooed about 70 piercings
he drove this crazy truck that had all this hand painted Hot Rod flames on it anywhere really bright wild colors dress like us from the west coast.
send another boyfriend I had as of late drove a really expensive Mercedes Benz.
always took me on nice fun vacations and trips and paid for everything.
always took really really good care of me and did nice fun things with me
I remember he took me up to the casinos wit
I remember he was a really bad bad guy, like a lot of people were afraid of him.
but the funny thing was he was very adamant about living a healthy lifestyle and getting me not to want to drink.
he took me also to Las Vegas we stayed at the spot it was 500 a night.
he bought me those $2000 ball

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 608 reads
posted
6 / 31

care of themselves work out a lot where very fashionable clothes.
a guy that doesn't take good care of himself or present himself neatly and take care of his body and where clean fashionable nice clothing.
I'm really into self care and if someone doesn't care about themselves its a big turn off
I also like guys that are dangerous I guess you could say
I like the kind of guys that if you got caught lying to them they probably kill you.
and they have to be a pack leader
like whoever crowd they are running with they have to be pretty much the toughest one in that crowd.
and I never woke up one morning and said hey this is going to be my type!
that's just the kind of guys I have ended up with the way the cookie has crumbled for me
a guy that dresses grimy and has bad skin and is overweight
or that drives a dirty nasty car or that doesn't have any money cuz he's a lazy
those are my biggest turn offs
my boyfriend right now will be home in 2015 I'm coming in to move in with me and I can't wait
for now all I'm working on is making sure I get this place is awesome as possible to surprise him
every morning I wake up thinking of him and getting this place beautiful for him he carried me for a long time
he was also very strict about keeping me on the straight and narrow
he even took me to go look for a condo what he wanted me to go move in with his mother so I would be safer than where I was at the time

mrfisher 115 Reviews 614 reads
posted
9 / 31

Very often I get interested in someone on account of interesting posts that put up on here.

One gal because her photo was so sexy.

One gal on account of how she came across on her website.  She is very non-traditional.

Often I get recommendations from other clients and providers whose opinions I respect.

Sometimes I don't know why I'm attracted to a certain provider, but I just am.

It's a nice mystery.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 613 reads
posted
10 / 31

that explored my fantasy that the provider would forego requesting a fee...?

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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 643 reads
posted
11 / 31

that the client will experience tried and true responses from them. Yes, not very logical, but I have been swayed by that factor. It's not hard to imagine others going down that line of thought. Thanks. I learned something this morning. Now I can feel justified having my breakfast.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 703 reads
posted
12 / 31

I just really really like a certain type, am ok with some others, and are repulsed by some. But I don't know why.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 554 reads
posted
13 / 31

I knew women would bring a new perspective to this question. Thank you.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 571 reads
posted
15 / 31

I admit I have (or at least used to have) a fantasy type. Not the wifely lady you described (happy to remain child free, can hire a housecleaner, etc.), but a True Human type, very intellectual but lying around in a sarong all day, you know what I mean. So... Maybe I look for providers who sort of feed that search for such a woman.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 771 reads
posted
16 / 31

Except for the millionaire part. The guys I date are usually some breed of hippie/unknown musician.  

Posted By: angelexotic
in my personal and real life.  
 always alpha males completely covered in tattoos full sleeve. tons and tons of Money millionaires only.  
 the last guy I lived with Owens about 7 businesses. 3 houses. two of which were three families so he was collecting rents from 6 just from those 2 houses. so obviously he didn't have to get up and go to work everyday.  
 and when I moved in with him I gotta have a 16 foot walk in closet with lights all across the ceiling.  
 and then the boyfriend I had after him was a stunt bike rider  
 that one actually lived in the mothers basement and was not loaded.  
 but he had full sleeve his hands were tattooed about 70 piercings  
 he drove this crazy truck that had all this hand painted Hot Rod flames on it anywhere really bright wild colors dress like us from the west coast.  
 send another boyfriend I had as of late drove a really expensive Mercedes Benz.  
 always took me on nice fun vacations and trips and paid for everything.  
 always took really really good care of me and did nice fun things with me  
 I remember he took me up to the casinos wit  
 I remember he was a really bad bad guy, like a lot of people were afraid of him.  
 but the funny thing was he was very adamant about living a healthy lifestyle and getting me not to want to drink.  
 he took me also to Las Vegas we stayed at the spot it was 500 a night.  
 he bought me those $2000 ball

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 670 reads
posted
17 / 31

What do expect from your favorite type that you would not expect from types you're less interested in?

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 620 reads
posted
18 / 31

Not surewhat I "expect,"but I am just turned on by certain things and turned off by others. For example, lots of guys ateturned on by big huge tits. I am repulsed by them. Lol.

I read and answered your thread before Robin's above, but in reading hers (and the link) I may have figured out my "why."

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 75 reads
posted
19 / 31

call it "artistic" request.

Were you to receive a fantasy story, requesting a sound-and-movement rendezvous, could you make it work?

The given: No "words" or literal movement (pointing, beckoning, sign language... No physical gestures to get around the "no words" given.

Anything else goes (using the same sensibilities that a theater improvisation assumes, a non-injurious control on interactions [with the exception that in a theater improv this would included having sex on stage]), and we are free to confront, physically interact with abstract movement, and express ourselves with non-literal sounds as wildly, or again, as abstractly as happens.

The other given is that we respond to each other in the same dynamics, allowing the dynamics to "change key" in a transformational manner to whatever extremes of human emotion the interaction leads to.

You have a theater background, so think Grotowski or Open Theater technique.

A safe word would allow us to step out of the sound-and-movement towards the end of the session for whatever anticlimactic talk we might want.

Or would this be "asking to much?

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 615 reads
posted
20 / 31

that you are unaware of?

For example, I tend to bypass blondes. I sort of understand why. I mean memories and attitudes reinforce this aversion, but the "mystery" remains, Why do these memories and attitudes have this affect on me? Nothing in my past relationships with blond women is particularly horrific or traumatic.

Or don't you ever wonder about things like that?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 769 reads
posted
22 / 31

But short of spending thousands of dollars to get psychoanalyzed, and learn why (maybe!), I'd rather just go and spend that money on more providers and let myself accept the mystery of the attraction.

Perhaps some things are best not known.

Dave76015 38 Reviews 656 reads
posted
23 / 31

I love them.  They have driven me crazy since high school.  Some of my most exciting dates have been with redheads.  The fire in their eyes, the passion they bring, and their energy really excites me.  I suppose it is a result of coming from Scots/Irish/English family.  It's the whole moth to the flame thing.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 618 reads
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25 / 31
GaGambler 561 reads
posted
26 / 31

What do you think the chances are of me writing a fucking "fantasy letter" to see an over the hill, obviously BSC hooker???

Some of this shit is just so over the top insane, I can't help but LMAO as I post my response.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 762 reads
posted
27 / 31

actually Mr Fisher you are one of the people that falls into the category of the guys I like
you don't try to come off like a tough guy that's not your thing what you are somebody that a lot of the guys will look to for advice because you're experienced so that's pretty much what I was saying.
I remember one person referred to as the papasan of the ter.
but Mr Fisher is still the biggest spender I have always gives a thousand sometimes more.
I don't really get a lot of calls for a thousand
then he has a very nice car that's clean
and is the most ambitious person I ever met I remember as he was leaving my house he's on his way to drive to New York to see another gal,  
everytime I talk to him he's another state with another date! :-)
'and he even goes to see those girls that are a thousand  an hour.
the best was when he wore a full suit to come and see me you look so adorable
he's definitely successful in his work so he has play money and he has that swagger that a successful person that's well liked it has a good personality has.
guys that generally have a good disposition and a good 5 they usually are leaders wherever they are hanging out because people enjoy their company because they are pleasant.
usually people or negative are also the ones who are broke because nobody wants to be around a whiny negative person.
but Mr Fisher you fit the criteria too bad you're taken honey,!  :-)

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 691 reads
posted
29 / 31

and then asked me if I would quit working at the strip club and move in with him and be his girl
and come to think of it my friend that was here yesterday that I know for 6 years he was actually there that night so he would know.
no those aren't sectional people those are actually real life my real life could make a good book it probably seems like fiction to other people but I definitely hang out with alpha males that are super hot and super successful
look at my pictures what do you think I'm hanging out with fat smelly broke guys?
silly silly boy'''':-)!

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 585 reads
posted
30 / 31

and again its not really intentional it's just not the kind of crowd I hang out with.
but again I am a lot younger than most of the people posting on here right now
probably about 99 percent of people from age 25 to 35 these days have tattoos
if you watch any TV show you'll see that
but my boyfriend right now that I'm waiting to come home in 2015  
he has his entire chest tattooed his entire stomach tattooed full sleeves
and again treated me better than any guy ever has been my whole life
not the material things matter but he did buy me my first diamond earrings any boyfriend ever bought me which is kind of a thing that stands out in a woman's mind for her whole life.
he was just extremely thoughtful he was always give me a Valentine's Day card he would always take me places.
we were trying to have kids together took me to meet his mother
we were together constantly every day and always slept over together
and no this is not a dream its not fiction there really are guys that exist like this and I bet you about 90 percent of the hot chicks that escort on here probably have boyfriends like that in real life definitely its not fiction
take a look at half the girls in the top hundred pictures you don't think they have bodybuilder boyfriends with tattoos in there real lives?
if you watch TV at all you'll see that all the hot guys with the tattoos and the nice bodies there in rock bands the stunt bike riders'
most of the time young hot women are dating the guys that looks like that or are in fields like that'
I definitely did date a stunt bike rider for a year
he was doing a show at the strip club I was dancing at and we had to model for the cover of his flyer for the event
next thing you know me and him were hanging out everyday and I was going to every stunt bike event with him every weekend
none of those things are fiction and none of them are made up in my head those are actually real events and real people that I met and know.
I do have a good time during the appointment but I definitely don't date those kinds of guys that are older and don't have tattoos
any of my serious boyfriends in the past five to ten years has tons and tons of tattoos and is the body builder type
last summer I dated a guy that does mixed martial arts and it was a personal trainer and he has the sexiest tattoos nicest car drop dead gorgeous
and then even more recently believe it or not I have a guy come to see me for an appointment who also was a bodybuilder with tattoos and this drop dead gorgeous face
and she was very very scary like again you had to be a little bit afraid of him at the same time!
actually just last week too I have another guy that was a bodybuilder come here and he actually showed up in a pinstripe suit and he showed up with gifts and he gave me $100 tip
I was actually a little bit intimidated at first because I'm not really used to getting appointments with guys like that
I was more or less scared that he was going to try to overpower me because his legs were practically the size of my whole body and they were 100 percent muscle all I was thinking the whole time is I hope this guy doesn't decide he wants to overpower me because I would not be able to beat this guy up'
as sexy as he was I kept looking at the size of his legs and they were as hard as rocks and completely muscular and I couldn't help but continue to keep getting a little bit scared!
I was like oh good god please don't let this guy all the sudden decide he wants to snap my neck because I will have no defense cause he was completely like in the best shape I've almost ever seen anyone.
he was like a human pitbull it was pretty frightening! :-)
as far as appointments go I really prefer them to be 55 and up and not really in the crazy crazy good shape
cuz again they're always strangers and I don't know who they are so its hard to really relax when you looking at a person and you know they could break you into with a snapping her fingers because they're so muscular and agile
honestly feel more comfortable having clients that are a lot lot older than me that I know wouldn't be able to overpower me or take me

HooktardGold 618 reads
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31 / 31

Hello LE! I can read his reviews and check out his P411 to find out what he likes and how his dates usually go... add or subtract from that information. It's not rocket science.

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