How everyone here got into this biz?

You don't have to into too much detail but the way I myself starting escorting is very, very random. I wasn't quite sure what escorting was until I got into it actually. So I just wonder how the rest of you got into providing/hobbying?

C'mon, there must be at least a few interesting stories out there.

My first hobby experience was at age 12.  I used to walk by a brothel every day on my way home from school.  On a dare from friends, I walked in, asked for a glass of water, and got chased out.  

At eighteen, I went back and lost my virginity there...and finally got that glass of water. I was really thirsty.  --z

Will I first started out at a service then I was young.  I kind of did not tell the trueth at first when I was interviewed.  I told them I was 18 and I really was not.  When I got the job I told them my really age that was 16.  They were so happy do to the fact of my race I was asian.  Well I was doing calls under the rador at a ladys home.  I only did 2 calls a day that was fine.  I was still in school they were really cool.  They even helped me with Parent Planned Hood. The serviced I worked for was really cool they never made me do anything I did not want to do.  I was still in school I had a work program I had to go to work and school and did escorting.  I met very nice guys I was tried well. I am still normal till this day.  They talk about escorts that are on drugs or have a record that not true with me.  I am as normal as can be.  I get checked out all the time.  This is like the best job ever.  I only see 2 guys day and I am fine with it I do work a legit one.  Now I want to go to school and do something better.

I started out a few years ago, through happening across one of the sugardaddy dating sites. "Mutually beneficial" relationships, which is ultimately the same thing, and from there just progressed into escorting. Still have a few friends that I tag along with on business trips, go to dinner functions, etc. Good times.

After thinking about it for a couple years I took the plunge in NO. Saw an extremely sweet young lady from an eros ad at a little French Quarter boutique hotel.....a great learning experience, which led to others.

A basic sexless marriage followed by a very important birthday.

Realized I wasn't getting any younger and wanted to experience NSA sex for the 1st real time of my life.

I can sneak around with out really sneaking around (hope that makes sense..lol).

It's the best decision I've ever made. I get lots of PM's from very sweet, beautiful ladies that like me for me and I like them for them. No pretending to be something you are not.

When my company transferred me to the middle of nowhere I started ammassing a lot of discretionary money, so when they transferred me back to civilization, I thought there needs to be something fun to do with it. And as I was single at that point (just hard to meet somebody when you live somewhere where there are less than 100 people and the male to female ratio is 10 to 1), I thought the hobby was what I was looking for. So I looked around the internet found TER and that's how it got started and man has been a great ride since then.

I started out when I was in the military. In fact it was a part of mlitary culture to sample the sex industry or visit the red light district for sex.  Unlike America, their were no pickup bars the NSA, just business.  In my years in the military, I had escort from every country I visited, except Saudi Arabia.  Was not trying to geyt hung by the nuts LOL

i was sitting in a cafe with someone, she looked at me and said, "You would make a perfect MILF" i didn't even know what the hell MILF ment, It was around Halloween so stupid me asked "Is there a costume for that?"  UNTIL she told me what a MILF was! she told me some details and the cocoon became the butterfly!
Ironic twist to the story though..8 months later she was the Mastermind in outing me to my family!
Jay

I was looking for a job in South Florida and saw an ad for massage help with no experience..

It said something like   Great hours, plenty of money, no eperience necessary.."nudity a must"

I'm a nudist so that was no problem

The day I started the girls took me under their wing and taught me everything I needed to know..Like I really needed lessons..No just how to stay safe and not get in trouble..

Kisses Haley

From a friend..also a provider in LA
and yes was funny situation.



kiss miss song

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I was going to be attending an event and did a web search on Escorts since I wanted to have a little eye candy with me.

It didn't take me long to figure out that there was much more going on than just hanging on my arm. (Yes... completely stupid!) I continued "investigating" for months wrestling with how I might get any references. Fate stepped in.

I had done some promo photography work for a local bar I frequented that seemed to have an abundent volume of hot chicks. The manager had shown the pics around and one of the frequent ladies approached me about doing some pics. She indicated that she wanted to make up a Boudoir calendar for her "massage clients". (Still stupid at this point)

It was during the shoot that "all was revealed" and I explained my previous research, etc. After 15 minutes of laughing we did the shoot. (Yes... it was a TFP session with a promise of a reference). This eventually led to invites to M & Gs around town so after that references were never a problem.

I have to take this opportunity to say that I'm grateful for the way this all came down. Like many civies I thought that the only source of "providers" was the gang that cruised a stretch of downtown and various street corners.

You hear many terms growing up, and none of them good! My education, in this area, really opened up my eyes to the vast differences between the street and escorting.

I like to think of most escorts as American Geishas and far removed from what goes on in the streets. There may be exceptions, but I've been lucky enough not to run into any.

So thanks Ladies!

to counter sue my ex

I knew nothing about the biz..but I knew a fella who I chatted with online and he had xxx in his name.
He gave me the idea. And he also took my pic and helped me get a yahoo account. Then we just watched the windows pop open.
That was May 04, and I was 48 years old. it took a few months to get going. My intro rate was 15o.
I am pretty sure I write about this in my blog.
One thing about my confidence. I knew I could do it. I had been single for almost 8 years and rarely dayed. The few times I engaged in sex...them men thought there was something wrong with me. I was too vocal. I was really into it. I felt I couldn't be myself.
So being an escort was perrfect.
I could be who I was, sexy and sensual and men would shower me with gifts.

The confidence that I had for myself GREW like crazy.
All in all..it has been ONE of the best experiences of my life. My kids do take THE BEST!!  
xoxo
Sexy Carolina

Hi all! I was a naive little ballet dancer with the Dallas Ballet Co. untill I was 17,all I did was dance(6-7 hrs.a day)really didn't even date! Ended up blowing my knees out and needing surgery on both..my stunted puberty and My new found facination with men filled the obsession gap ballet had left behind..to be TRULY honest my ONLY experience with men up to this point was with a couple of my mothers(lets just say confused..) boyfriends.So naturaly this turned into an obsession with OLDER men (tee hee!)I used to read my step-fathers Playboys and Penthouse forum, my growth was so stunted in this area due to my teenaged years just being all about dance. The models became myrole models for what I thought the perfect woman was! Now I giggle when I think of this..I actually used to practice bjs on on carrots (tee hee!) cause I was gonna teach myself to be the BEST lover ever! I.m just a teeny bit cumpulsive/competetive I guess you could say lol..Now being 18 and most of my erotic experience still being only in my mind, I answered an add in the paper for dancer at a local strip-club.It was love at first stage dance! My repressed sexuality just exploded and it was on! The looks in the mens eyes as they watched me dance was intoxicating,And I felt strong and SEXY..a real grown-up woman..At least untill they remembered they hadn't carded me and I was under-aged at the time..eek! They told me I COULD work at their other club in another state where age was 18..I jumped in my car and headed there! Danced for about a year..(all kinds of sexual experience by now I may add!) I ended up finally moving to LA and through a girlfriend who was working found my way to escorting..Talk about the PERFECT job! xoxo

Also,just wanted to add:

Eek! I'm Sorry! I think last post was supposed to go on regional board! Sorry...Still learning...!

Had just experienced an eight year marriage, that was brutal, and subsequent divorce procedures, and was just too damn tired of being lonely. I think I actually suffered PTSD because of my ex-wife's abuse, and it was so nice to experience the attention of a lovely woman. Though, I knew my good looks and studly attributes (lol), were not the true source of her motivations.

You started at 48 in 04? So your now 52-53? Sexy  you are one hot mama.  I am just south of the 617's on beautiful Cape Cod. You come visit my beach anytime. I just started hobbying because I got sick of the mental games of the ladies after a free ride.