Here's a question directed to the ladies on here. Most escorts, providers, hookers, courtesans (take your pick; personally I prefer the latter) choose to obscure their faces in photos, be it here, on their websites or other advertising venues. That I get completely, even though most of us visually stimulated men prefer to see it all. My question is directed to those in the minority who choose to reveal their faces publicly. I'm curious why you take that route. I'm guessing you have no fear of being outed to those close to you, or even LE or hotel staff, etc.. I fully respect either choice; it's your life and your business. Appreciate any thoughts.

Why do some of you choose to show you face in 1 pic but then blur the other 9?

..shows her face.  

I can not show my face so I prefer the blurring method because for me if it gets out there's a lot that can go wrong in my life. I think that providers who do show their face have a good reason for it and I actually respect it.

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I think if you have your own private incall location, or only do outcall, it may be feasible. Of course once your photo is out there, there is no pulling it back.  On the plus side, most women don't look like their boudoir shots when they are out and about.

what would you do

I'd put you on all fours, shave your ass and make you walk backwards.

Intergalactic armada??

He confirmed that you  do not wear khakis you in fact wear Mom Jeans.

Also he confirmed that you are a feather weight

you have man boobs.  I rest my case

So I have had people say this to me, because in some pix I show a small angle of my face, or a feature, or something similar- but not my whole face....I feel comfortable enough with the deniability of that one or three pix, if not the anonyminity factor and what my personal restrictions and needs are why I handle myself as I do.

Even if a provider shows her face in 1- and doesnt have that in all her ads- it might just be her idea to blend that in so it doesnt stand out and let you see her.

Not sure if the same or not...

It it is definitely not for everyone and of course I respect anyone's personal preference to show or not show 'zee face.' The love for what I do and giving it 100% is a full expression of who I am. Being able to be fearless and out there, is truly so empowering personally. And that is my reason.

I wish I would have blurred out my face but it's pretty much too late because my face is already on the internet.The thing that sucks is I get recognized so easily in public.I look exactly like my pictures.I was at the airport in December and some random dude asked me flat out "What are your donations." this was one of the many incidences that has happened to me.I'm not a celebrity(yet)but damn I can't even go out in public without being recognized lol

Haha ! How cute . You're so brave....I could never do that. And I have never chosen that route. Too chicken ! lol...

When I first started out in the business, the number of people asking me for face photos and candid shots was too frequently asked so I decided to post them to stop potential customers from asking that question. Now that I look back on it, I really shouldn't have posted my face but it is too late. Once your photo is out there on the internet it stays there even if you try to get it removed. I've never had a hotel kick me out though.

 I have had a man who saw my online photos follow and try to talk to me no matter where I would go in the airport. And 2 men wave & say my work name with their window rolled down when I was in public with family. And lastly, I have been outed to family members because of a client as well as friends finding my ads on advertising websites.  

Soooo moral of the story is, I probably shouldn't have posted photos of my face and ladies should wear large sunglasses in public for a disguise if they did lol.

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I personally, reveal my face or like you said "I'm not obscured" I went to school, and an ivy college. It means nothing to me, in senior yr I saw a lot as well it fun
 How you've been?  
how's the boyfriends?

Still with the old wore out images  

Yes you need to rest your case because it is old and worn out.

Did I mention worn out

You really have let yourself go.  It's sad on so many levels

cantly clad guys it is obvious where your preferences are ….not that there is anything wrong with that

When I first started I showed my face for a few months maybe longer. I started to blur out my face and take new pictures and stop advertising the old ones. Months later I noticed my new blur pictures started to drown out my face pictures online. I also contacted the ad websites and removed some of the old face pictures. Not all are down but over a year has passed and honestly if someone wanted to see my face they would have to dig dig dig. So far out of all the clients none of them have found it accept for one. He was digging way back on old ads from 2013 and browsing.

So I say this to say you may not be able to erase your old pictures but you can drown them out like I did and a lot of providers have as well. It does work.

Good Luck

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I agree with both sides here. I would love to take fearless steps and show my face. I presume I will eventually. But now, since I'm still a bit new, I appreciate discretion and not disappointing my immigrant family.

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I thought no one in my civvie life would be on these escort sites.
Until 2 people in less than 1 month referred to me as my 'government name' through my ads. That was more than enough to start doing the blurring. I might move to masks or carefully placed hair vs just blur though (since there's unblurring technology and all out there).  

Depending on where I tour I still wonder/worry about hotel staff or LE noticing me because even though I use VPN and/or my own internet most of the time when i'm in a hotel because even though I blur I feel like in some places how I look might stand out. Say for instance the Dakotas, Iowa, Nebraska, Utah etc etc lol. My build and browness in some of these places is enough to stand out sometimes. I've literally been in hotels in a few places where I noticed handful of other black people I saw were staff lol (even though I generally stay in mid-size to large hotels). So.....yeaaaahhh. I dress down plain and business-casual like, have different hair when I check in, sometimes where a wedding ring etc but i'm still always a little paranoid.

Well, besides the obvious, which is that I'm not concerned about being "outed" to anyone in my personal life as a sex worker (almost everyone in my life already know that I do this)...

I personally like making eye contact a LOT during sessions, and I like my marketing to reflect this.  I make a lot of eye contact with the camera when I'm doing photoshoots.  I would really hate to lose this element of my photos because I think the eye contact communicates so much.

I really like it when I attract clients who are interested in me as a whole person and not just for my sexy body.  Something about publishing faceless photos of myself in pursuit of that goal just feels counterproductive/counter-intuitive to me.  I'd rather show my face and facial expressions as a part of my marketing.

I am very skilled at altering my look when I need to not be recognized.  Changes to my hair, glasses vs no glasses (or a different pair of glasses) can make me look different very easily.  I have a very distinctive look, but I've shown my face for the last five years and traveled all over the country without ever having a problem.

I do sometimes blur my face on BP or take other measures to avoid being detected by hotel staff.  Most hotels print out BP and Eros ads.  I don't advertise on Eros, only BP, TER, P411 and Date-Check.  So it's only my BP ads that place me at risk of being recognized.  Right now tho, for example, I'm not blurring my BP pics.  But my BP ads don't contain any pics of me wearing glasses, and most are with my hair down.  I'm exclusively checking into hotels with my hair up and wearing glasses.  Even if the staff had seen my BP ad, chances are very minimal that they would ever recognize me.  Especially given how I dress when I check into hotels.  No one would guess that I'm an escort based on that at all.  I look SO different when I'm checking into a hotel vs in my professional pics.  I may look similar by the time I open the door to greet a lover, but the hotel staff never see me look like that.

To sum:  I show my face in my marketing because I want to.  My facial expressions and my eye contact with the viewer are an important part of it.  I wouldn't have it any other way.