I made an app with an agency in-call at 2pm. I arrived at the hotel at 1:43pm and waited in the parking till 1:53pm and text for rm #. The message I got back was 7 more minutes. I then got a text back at 1:56pm with the rm #. I got held up in the hotel lobby with a phone call ( work call ). I went up and the girl did not open the door till 2:10pm. I literally knocked on the door 3 times before she open.... I hate, hate standing in the hallway waiting for the girl to open ( is like everyone knows why you are there )

I have a tendency to arrive early for play dates, especially if I am unfamiliar with the area and the parking. I will wait until 5 minutes before our scheduled start time to email or text her that I have arrived, and 9 times out of 10 she'll radio back that she's running late and that she needs just a few more minutes to get ready. That usually means I'm waiting for at least 15 minutes before she calls me up. The clock starts when I cross her threshold.

...especially, if this is the most memorable thing from a session with a hot female. Don't get me wrong, promptness is appreciated, but any indiscretions are quickly forgotten in my case once the clothes come off. Just sayin'

hat seems inexcusable and could affect both your and her safety.  She should not have texted the room number to you unless she was fully ready.

Of course I would have not stood in the hallway that long maybe 5 minutes depending on cameras and how active the halls was. I would have been out the door and consider the appointment canceled.  

... there have been times where the provider will say, I'm sorry, but our scheduled 1 hour session ends in 45 minutes.

Much older.

What about some thoughts and advise from the ladies???

Wow....with a muttonhead like her, there really isn't a favorable way to handle it. She's already irrational with that bizarre interpretation about the time. Remember - you can't have a battle of wits with an unarmed opponent. I guess you could have offered her a donation equivalent of 45 minutes worth, but who knows how she would have reacted - would have probably created a shitstorm that you wouldn't want any part of.  
I would do exactly what you did - shake my head, have the session, cut my losses and fuggedaboudit.

Once payment is made and the party actually starts like showtime,clothes come off
the clock should start once everything else is out of the way.
however i have been cut short on numerous times
the girls are the BOSS in the timeclock division,now when your back at work,would it not be nice if the timeclock there was that
generous?

If the provider is ready at the agreed start time, the clock starts at that time. If I'm late and it's not the provider's fault (eg if provider's fault might be she gave me wrong directions, didn't send me the room number in time), that's time I don't get unless the provider chooses to extend the time.  

Agency providers are often new to the business. They might be younger, and irresponsible. They might also be overworked.  

You say you texted at 1:53 and you were given room # at 1:56. And YOU got a work call that held you up until 2:10 and somehow she should extend? I see some agency ladies, and if I were texted at 1:56 for a 2:00 appointment I'd be happy, keep in mind that she's standing behind the door so that when you quietly knock she's ready to answer the door immediately
so that you don't have to stand in the hall. You took 10 minutes on your work call and do you expect her to stand behind the door for 10 minutes? I think that's unrealistic for you to expect. I assure you that I simply wouldn't have taken the call, there are two places that I can be that no one can reach me, when I'm golfing and when I'm getting pussy, to be clear when I pull into the parking lot for either.

Dont take work calls when on your way, or when with a provider.

Only once git burned by 2 hotels, different branches of the same chain, within sight of each other & unclear instructions...  Like I said, I arrive probably 15 minutes early & then withdraw to the local coffee shop...  timing my return to the exact time.    
I expect the time to start at the appointed time...  elevator time is on me...  I expect her to be ready & any delay made good.  I may be kidding myself but if she burns me for her lateness, then I'll not be returning.  Simple as that.  (If lateness was MY FAULT, then it comes out of MY TIME.  Only fair)

Agreed.

And it would have been a godsend apparently if it was.  To have someone give you a timecheck upon entering is bad enough.  The circumstances are worse with waiting in the hall.  Screw it.  I have had a provider screw around with the time when I got there.  Claiming they never got my texts and keeping waiting 20 minutes until the miraculously got the text saying I was leaving but none of the others. I was thinking they were trying to shorten the session as it was just before checkout time.   I guess that's why god invented the phrase 'one and done'

I'm pretty relaxed person, but am one of those that will arrive 20 minutes early, to make sure I know where I'm going. I may spend my extra time "talking" on the phone or drive around and return. But I too feel that if the appointment is at 2 the provider should be ready at two. I appreciate providers that leave enough time between appointments to make up for "shit happens". Getting a text while driving to an appointment asking for a 30 minute delay does not do it for me, compound that with a (after waiting for that 30 minute delay), "can you give me a few more minutes, i want to make myself beautiful for you".

I strongly agree...  It's not discreet to sit in a parking lot talking on the phone & reading your newspaper.  I have been approached by Hotel Security & eyeballed by Police Patrols (I mentioned the Police & the lady told me that Mgt had requested incresed patrols to stop breakins of guest cars.)  
This is why, after getting the lay of the land, I withdraw to the corner coffee shop.  Around here they are near most suburban hotels...  often within sight ofthe location & certainly no more than 5 minutes away.  People are expected to sit inside or in their cars there...  so I'm just another guy with coffee & a muffin at the drive up.    

Went to see Nikki Irish, when she lived in Phoenix. I knocked on the door 1 MINUTE before our time and got an ear full asking why I was early.
  Session went down hill from there. no repeat

thanks for your insight.  

Still trust me?

yes, dear, I still trust you!!  

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Re: I'm not a provider. Just a horny hobbyist like you all.... Still trust me?  
 

I would have said... sorry, my watch was running one minute too fast!

I think the time starts when you enter the room. I don't rush anyone out if they are going over by 5 min or so. That's also why I space out my appointments appropriately.  
HOWEVER! I used to give out the room number right when a client arrives, but I have found that some do not let me know when they are here and have come up 15 min early, while I am getting ready, etc. It is nice to know when I am expecting you darling hehe. But communication is key. Your time should not have been shortened because of this. If you were standing outside chain smoking on the other hand, teehee, then that's a different story.

It's your own damn fault for staying and going through with the session. After all, she told you in advance, thirty seconds after you walked in the door according to you. There was nothing to prevent you from simply saying "with an attitude like yours, let's just forget the whole thing" and then just turn around and walk out the door. That's what I would have done if I had received such a rude greeting.

Any more than 10 minutes early, I will usually not consider because I could be putting the finishing touches on the food, room decor, putting heels on, etc. but 10 minutes early is fine with me, and I will happily provide the location at that time. Guys who are late locally, pretty much ok because it is never going to be an issue with someone being seen after him... he can be an hour late for all I care as long as he calls to let me know. My nanny is paid by the day, not the hour.

I've had ladies kick my ass out of there 30 minutes into a seemingly good one hour session, and I've also had ladies ask me to spend the night off the clock. I've been on both sides of the spectrum, and every where in between. The thing you have to do is quickly figure out where each lady stands on the spectrum, and adhere to that like the world depended on it. If she's strictly by the book, then play it that way. If she's generous with her time, you can relax in the shower.  

You want the clock to start when naked and actually doing stuff?

I definitely appreciate someone who can communicate well. Text, call, email..whatever works for the lady.  It definitely helps.

but this is a lie.