I wonder if TER will ever allow female (lesbian) hobbyists to become members of their site...? It would also be interesting to read lesbian reviews, I bet they would be a lot more descriptive and hot than many of the dry three-liners on the site. Thoughts?
There was a member who used to post here all the time, webterrorist, a very nice client gals I met at a meet and greet in Las Vegas a couple of years ago.
Not sure what happened to here lately but she was always an interesting read.
Many, many moons ago in 2004, I met DCHotgirl (I may have the handle wrong) . I was sitting having drinks with fellow hobbyists and she shows up. At first we thought she was a provider, but she introduced herself as a hobbyist. It was refreshing and shocking to see a female hobbyist.
So I am sure there is more than one out there.
Thank you for this post! I recently saw my first provider and it was super fun! she told me about this site and I started looking at these boards to just get a feel for what this was all about. Well I was kind of surprised that the only women were providers so I felt a little self conscious and that is why j have held out on VIP. Wasn't sure if I was welcome.
I don't consider myself a lesbian as I have never had a physically sexual experience with a girl. (yet lol) I should explain because I'm sure people will be confused. I live in river north in Chicago and I was at a rooftop bar and saw a girl dancing and stripping in the window of the building across the street and I almost creamed right then and there. I decided I have to have that and unfortunately I do not deny myself anything!
While I don't consider myself a lesbian, I love girls with bombshell bodies. So a guy acquaintance helped me find a lady that had the exact measurements as I do and looked like me. my fantasy was to have her over to my apt try on my sexy outfits in the window (I have floor/ceiling window so it was really hot! (to me). My experience sounds like a girl scout meeting compared to some stuff I have read here ![]()
Anyway I would love to hear from a female hobbyist. I plan to continue as I have 2 other fantasies I want to explore. I have another question I will post because I don't want to hijack this post!
So your fantasy was voyeuristic, not physical? I dig that. What you described does sound hot, but from my point of view I'm just picturing watching the girl who's watching the girl.
The donation! This was my first experience that was technically a transaction. It was pretty hot. I have never spent money on a date obviously since I'm a girl. She laughed because I used a turquoise envelope with a label ![]()
But omgosh.. You are right. It was voyeuristic. That's so embarrassing.
My next experience, I want to take a lady on a date. I want to know what it's like to be the man. I have had so many amazing dates and been so spoiled by guys. I want to see what it's like to do the same for a beautiful lady.
Then I would like to spend time with a provider that's older than me, maybe like 30-32. Secretly I think I want to spend time with providers because I fantasize about being one!
I can tell this is going to be fun!
Sounds like you are really getting it, so to speak.
Thanks for sharing this with us.
One of my good friends told me, jokingly, couple of months ago that HE, yes he, was considering becoming a male prostitute (or gigolos as they are called). We were just talking about how insecure his job is right now, given the current state of economy. He works for on of the big banks in NYC and told me that he could easily make a good living if he fucks for living, or at least would be able to make enough to cover rent and living expenses.
So my question to the lady hobbyist is, have you ever hired a male escort? I know most women wouldn't REQUIRE to do that, but I am sure that some do it for the sheer thrill of doing it. Have you ever considered it?
Your input is much appreciated.
There is a market for everything and anything.
For example, I was leaving a five star hotel and this guy in the lobby (normal looking in a suit) starts making small talk with me and then asks if I have a razor in my suitcase - weird- them says he will give me 300 for it! What a freak. Don't even want to know what that was about.
That said, I'm sure some ladies would be into it. Maybe older, married, wants to spite their husband by spending money?? Not sure.
I wouldn't be interested in seeing a male provider (maybe when im an old lady lol). I'm in my twenties but LOVE older men that are extremely type A. And that's the type of guys I attract. I would be interested to know how much business he gets though.
I didn't know there was a market for getting beaten up by a women, until a women actually did it to me. One time while having SEX with a this very young (20-21 yrs old) provider, I asked her if she could spit and slap me around. When she started unloading spitballs and slaps on me, I realized that there was a market for this too. I had not planned on asking her what I did, and certainly hadn't planned on receiving it.
She postted and put up a few reviews on the Washington DC board I believe her screen name was girlindc. Have not seen her post in a number of years.
Yes mrfisher webbie is quite the character, I say that in a good way.
She never wrote reviews but was an active hobbyette I believe.
Her posts were always insightful, informative, humorous and then some, and I too miss them.
Thank you
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Thank you
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I’ve posted here for a number of years and they haven’t booted me out …..yet…lol…
I’ve also paid for VIP on/off a few times. And when I’ve had access to PM, I’ve been contacted by a number of women who had questions but were not comfortable posting publicly.
And…not that there aren’t delightful gentlemen here…...there certainly are...
But, with the number of women hating asshats (or, those who like to play one on TER) posting here, sometimes this can be a…..well…a less than inviting environment for women (providers, or not). There is also a tremendous stigma associated even with the idea of women paying for sex (yes…even here on TER). Not to mention the raving homophobes that get loose now and again.
But, I’d love to see more women (non-providers) posting. There are some out there….![]()
Most of us are lesbians. Some of us just happen to have penises. Oh hell, never mind.