It appears some ladies have no clue what discretion is. I have some issues I am embarrassed about dealing with my body. More than I am morbidly obese and have a micro-penis. I heard today a certain lady has been talking about me using my full damn name and my handle on another board. For the ladies who are truly clueless this is not acceptable.

As I've indicated before, my ATF and I will swap stories...but there is never any sensitive information exchanged.  "This crazy motherfucker I saw last week asked me to do his dog...twice!"  But I will never know the name of the crazy motherfucker, where he lives, or the location where my ATF saw him.  That's the right way to do this.

When a hooker demands that you fill out her insecure online request form...you better do it pal!

I am sure he has heard all the horror stories from her and the numerous johns here that have been fooked over.

And I don't give a damn about who knows I see sex workers. A great many people in my life already know. It isn't a secret. But my personal issues that is different. That I care about. I care a great deal.

that deserves much better. Care to share miss diareaha of the mouth's name via PM so we can avoid loose lips?

I merely asked why you gave out real name. You dodged that question.

I don't know who leaked just that it was. It was communicated to me by PM on another board. He wouldn't share who leaked. I am thinking of walking away from this. I do my best to do right to the ladies and one of them does this, knowing it would hurt me. This casts a long shadow.

first, you sound like my type of guy in terms of looks...i would not call it imperfection )  

I don't give a damn she outed my name. I am out. I am public. I just don't care about people any people knowing I fuck paid ladies. I have outed myself more than once. I am not ashamed of doing this. Hell I've even signed multiple petitions to legalize this with my real full name. So yes it is 100% my fault my name was outed. But I can give a rats ass about that.  

So I don't know who was the lose lips. At this time I don't have VIP anyway. If any want to contact me I can be reached at [email protected]. Thank you.

I have seen too many men with lose lips more so than the ladies. It should never happen.

For most guys that means personal information like real name, place of employment, things that a vindictive bitch can use to hurt the "normal" married guy who is cheating on his wife.

First off let me say I am truly sorry that happened to you! No one should make fun or bully someone, and yes that is a form of bullying. I don't know what person could say such hurtful things weather they are true or not. It's beyond catty and disrespectful. So I'm sincerely sorry you had to go through that.  

GIGO means "garbage in, garbage out".  So whatever info can be used to "out" you is dependent on what information you provided in the first place.  If you provide garbage information, then it will be that same garbage information that will be used to out you, which would be nonsensical information.

Hahah! I see what you did there

If you have no proof which  damsel caused your distress, how can you be sure it wasn't a big mouth Dude you confided with ?
 I've noticed some guys are  bigger snitches than any gal I've ever met.
   
P.S   Go to sports board place a bet,  you might get lucky and win two free VIP days.  
   

Sorry to hear what had happened to you.  You sound like a very nice person and I learned  a lot from your posts.  I totally agree with you, discretion is very important for both clients and providers.  To humiliate another person by his body or health is the worst thing the provider should do.  Unfortunately, not every provider is that nice.  There are so many nasty peoples out there in real life,  
and I don't think women in this business are exceptions, if not worse, at least not any better.  I did meet a lot super nice ladies in this field, but that doesn't means no bad people here.  Welcome to reality.

Consider what industry you are in.

First there are only three I have told all three I have known for years and trust them.

Scoed,

Face it. I've heard many, many of your sad stories on here. A hooker revealed personal info about you, you got raped by a female, I'm sure I'm missing a bunch of others, but you have terrible luck and maybe, just maybe you are a big part of the problem. Why wait for bad shit to happen to you and then whine about it here? That's nuts! Avoid the BS in the first place ... It's starting to look like you want the brief attention and sympathy you get here. That's fucked up! Poor dude! Now go away..

Women are known to gossip dude even the girls at my fave agency do but they are more incentivized to keep it within a smaller circle since they can get ratted out to the mamasan and there is just that small chance they get the boot. Independents have no other bosses other than a valued client, she can do whatever she wants to with the info she's got and it might not even be her outing you! It might be her pimp or jealous bf or someone who got a hold of your phone records.