I'm in trouble..
So now I'm convinced I'm dating a sugar baby..
And there is trouble in Sugarland...
Which makes trouble for me...

just save yourself. Tell her she needs to move out for a while because you have family coming to stay with you.. Once she's out, she'll have to figure out how to survive in the mean time and you will become a distant memory. If that doesn't work, have you heard of the Witness Protection Program? lol

Not to sound unsympathetic but, you are an adult, you can fix this.

If this bitch has you on the clock, you're fked Hound.  

You say she "just showed up"?

You didn't know her before?  And you start having sex on top of that?

Why would anyone ever let such a person just crash at their place?  (Please don't say it was for the sex, or we'll have to have you institutionalized also.)

If you do know her already, what is the basis of that relationship?  Do you have friends in common you can call and talk to about this?

In any case, it seems like a job for the police or some social service agency.

The sooner the better.

you didn't meet her in the hobby so it's irrelevant. or does she know that you hobby?  

she can just stalk him and "Hound" him.  At home and maybe even at work.  I'd let him come home to his Mom and me but I'm afraid she'd follow him.

identity.   She isn't a TER escort,  she's just sugar baby of some sugar daddy.  why would he feel that his identity is threatened? is she going to out him on some national blacklist that she probably doesn't even know about,  for kicking her out of the house?  

send me her info and if shes a 10/10 its my headache .  
your welcome .  

She seemed pretty awsome actually.
I liked her. Wanted to date her long term.
I don't know her friends..
I met her in a town not very close to where I live.
If I say any more detail. It might not be smart.
She had been to my place before..
She knew where it was...
So yes. She just showed up..
What guy wouldn't let a woman who he knew into his place?

Who knows what she would/ could do.
She has rich, and powerful friends.
She could tell them whatever she wants..

...do NOT get any type of police / social services / medical company involved. You will be Suspect Numero Uno.

And toss a bone outside the door and tell her to fetch.

Ever here his routine on how to be a millionaire? "Ok, step one. Get a million dollars, then..."

She is diagnosed Bi Polar Manic Depressive.
Been to the nut house and everything.
I didn't know that when I invited her in..
The pills are what made her into Dr Jekyll, and Mr. Hyde

why you create your posts in lines like poetry.
Cuz, here's the thing:
They don't rhyme.
But I
still love you.

I wouldn't do it to you dude.

I can tell you that I can't control what someone else does, BUT I can control what I do, and since I'm not BSC, I'm going to ask myself logical questions.

I would never do something like that to someone who obviously needs help.
I want her out. But not like that.

If so get her our of your life!! Who needs drama like that.. No Pussy (or cock) is worth that!!! OMG ....  

Yeah I had some BSC incident this year too. This dancer I know,  she blamed me for everything even though it was really her fault. Absolutely nothing I can do when the girl is just too immature and needs to grow up first. That's the definition of BSC,  blame someone else and go bonkers. Life is easier that way for an irresponsible and immature person if they blame it all on someone else.  

I have insurance and it may be fun to watch . no no do it to me . does she throw things ? is she feisty ? I mean a year or two with her and youll be ready to marry . look at this as boot camp for the future if you survive the next woman youll be telling us about will be mrs dawg . and I said send her to me not that I would be her sugar daddy .  id take your place and deal with her drama for you . just know im there for you dawg , just know .. keep us posted  
 

...play poker with a man named Doc, eat at a place called Mom's or sleep with someone crazier than yourself.

Can you identify the drug she's abusing?  Lock up or remove all alcohol & your medications.  Are her meds LEGAL?  If not remove them from your home.  Was she really supposed to be somewhere?  Take her there; put her on a bus or plane.  Buy her the ticket as the best investment you'll ever make.  
Yes, use any info you can glean from her phone or her wallet  She should have ID.  You can find her doctors through her prescription labels.        
I do know a bit about bipolar as a college roommate was.  His father was an MD but as soon as he got out of state.  The kid F*cked with his meds, got off schedule & eventually crashed.  When he crashed.  He ended up hospitalized & was stabilized & shipped home to his parents.  He did not return to the out of state school.  Myself & suite mates packed his things & the school shipped them.    
She likely has no place to go but you can not save them all.  Sometimes we can't save ourselves. I get it that you don't want to hang her out to dry but you must explain "It's not working out."  Do your best to get her to someplace safe.  But failing that, you'd need to make discrete inquiries of the proper authorities.  
Yes, your hobbying will take a back seat for a while.  So be it.  You need to deal with this problem first.  

nd I thought you lived on the board. :

If you get the police involved, they will start asking questions (especially if she is crazy and starts accusing him of things). Trust me. My brother is in LE and they are trained to cover their own asses as much as possible, which means being suspicious and asking lots of questions.

By the way ... does she have a key?  I'll assume that she does NOT.  Then, ...

They were all in prescription bottles. But I didn't even get close to reading a label.
I won't say the names she told me though. They are .. The ones you think they are. Okay?
I can't say much more about that. The post would probably get pulled.
 
She had a pretty good line of shit about her doctors, and what not..  
I believed her. Maybe I shouldn't have......
Now that I think of it she may have been lying..
It's irrelevant now anyway..

I couldn't do that to someone..
I get your plan. It's smart.. But past experiences tell me to face shit like this.

It's true..
BIB is right.. I am a gluten for punishment..

If Im on my laptop. I type longer...........................................

You need to get her the fuck out of your house as bad as you may feel about booting her out.  Frankly I'd just tell her that you're not at a point in your relationship where you're ready to live with someone. She's going to cry and all that fine whatever. Your relationship with her is over get her out of your life now.  Put her up in a hotel for a night or two if you have to. Once she's out change your locks and when she calls you tell her that you don't want to see her anymore. If she refuses to leave your house call the police, tell them your situation, tell them you don't want a big scene and ask them to be discreet when they show up. The longer you allow her to stay the bigger this problem will become.

Conan says it's "glutton.

Are those the words she used in describing her disorder? "Bipolar Manic-depressive?"

I think what he means is that she's embedded in his life now. There's some understanding between them. She's a friend, and as suck, she feels she can ask things of him.

Cosette is right-- this ought to be handled by official outsiders.

...now you'll have to decide from hour to hour how you're going to handle/cope with this. Final word to thee wise, don't expect whatever you plan to do to go like clockwork. You might have to approach it from a lot of different angles until it works itself out.

Does that mean she's acting better now or she's gone for now?

Just wondering?

Steph

Why don't you ask her where she was heading to down south and buy her a damn airline ticket there and then change the locks/

So you thinks she knows real important people...um ok. Ask her for one of their contact number and ask them to come get her. If something's getting ready to blow up, real important people don't want it to happen because the shit might downhill onto them. So maybe you would be HAPPY to help her get her shit together.

But PLEASE don't send her to NC...

Steph

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She's leaving and coming back with CASH? She's either escorting or selling drugs. In fact while she gone, get a PI to come in and SEARCH your house to make damn sure she hasn't hidden something illegal in your house in case you don't let her back in (WHEN you don't let her back in) and she tries to threaten you with something she's left there that if found might get you in trouble.

You might think this is a bit of an overreaction, but if she's  that volatile better to cover your bases!

Steph

PS...now that you've admitted being drawn to BSC women, expect a few PMs...

I mean, I live in a city, but I haven't walked every street either.  Life's too short.

In any case, I think the best thing he can do is to contact a medical center, or if possible her psychiatrist, and get her back on her medication which I suspect she has not been taking.

And, doesn't she have a home or somewhere she lived prior to dropping in?

Did she leave anything of hers?   Bo up anything she left.  Do not let her in the door to pick it up, you'll not get her out again.  She will be back & expect a scene.  You are the legal occupant...  there are no wants or warrants on you.  Don't hesitate to call the Police.  
Change the locks even if you don't think she has a key.  Check doors & windows & replace locks & latches as necessary so she can't get back in while you are away.    
Be sure you don't have any illegal substances that she can snitch on you over...  I agree, make sure she didn't leave anything stashed.    
You've said she has a car & is earning money somehow.  So she does not need your driving her somewhere or getting her a room.