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whether they tell me or not. I don't find that clients, who take
the "wonder drug" to be any different from others. Although, I have sometimes noticed the ones that are taking it, have a faster
heart rate than normal and heavier breathing. Otherwise, I think it is hard to tell who is taken it and who is not.
As long as it can stand at attention, its all good with me! 
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whether they tell me or not. I don't find that clients, who take
the "wonder drug" to be any different from others. Although, I have sometimes noticed the ones that are taking it, have a faster
heart rate than normal and heavier breathing. Otherwise, I think it is hard to tell who is taken it and who is not.
As long as it can stand at attention, its all good with me!
-- Modified on 2/3/2004 3:09:07 PM
It really doesn't matter if they tell me or not. 
Hugs,
Vanessa Sue
I did have a client who was on the pills without my knowledge, and only scheduled an hour for our first meeting. By the end of 1.5 hours, and still no ejaculation, I had the feeling that he wanted to stay more, but without any compensation for my part 
I did receive a warning that he may go overtime, by another provider who gave me a reference for him. She never mentioned the pills, he was taking. But, I did come out and ask him about it, at the end of our appt., and he said that he does take them. If I had known he was taking the pills, I would have asked him before our meeting, if it would have been best if he took a longer appt. with me, versus, just taking the hour. Without any further compensation for running overtime (nor did I ask for any additional funds, for I felt he would have brought it up on his own admission, which he never offered-1.5 hours is a long time not to ejaculate, and was taking some time away from me, for I had planned to have some down time to myself, before my next appt.), I felt bad He did ask to see me again for another hour, and I felt like a heel explaining to him how I was feeling about the previous episode. In the end, we both decided to move on our seperate ways. So, yes-I would prefer to be told of any wonder drugs, before hand.
It sounds like bad timing on his part. If he knew that he could have had a problem, then he should have told you up front.
It can take up to a hour to work and if he has taken it before,
then he should know that and be prepared when he sees you.
The clients, I have had, that were taking the "wonder drug" normally always take it before hand, so that doesn't happen.
If you see him again, then I would suggest that you ask him to take it before your date, then I'm sure that you both will be much happier!
Kelly~
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