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Wondering why providers expose their identities online with unaltered facial photographs?
RespectfullyYours 9 Reviews 1555 reads
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Obviously showing yourself is a big boon for the hobbyist, but the vast majority of providers hide or distort their faces online. The desire for anonymity is glaringly obvious, yet some providers (some of whom are quite reputable and definite A-listers) post multiple photos on their websites that are a true and accurate personal depiction. Why do it? Are you that sexually and philosophically liberated that you have no issues with anyone (including close friends and family) having the capability of discovering your involvement in this hobby, is it a marketing decision to help promote business, do you think the name you display as your alter ego provides enough security that others will never discover your true identity?

If this has already been discussed, sorry for wasting your time, as well as my own?

GaGambler1034 reads

Some "gentS" spelled M-A-N-G-I-N-A-S  either have no taste, no vision, or are just plain "whipped" because even a string of nothing but 9's and 10's don't guarantee you that a fugly won't be answering the door when you show up.

GaGambler1186 reads

Just like I don't lie to anyone about the fact that I am a whore monger, I bet people like you and me don't make up anymore than about 2% of the members here, maybe less?

I don't lie about it either.

I only have a problem when people know about that, and don't know when and where it's appropriate to mention such facts.  

Most of the people I know are idiots, Lesson learned. lol

Or date any civvy women. I'm so over all that. I don't tell anyone I don't think can handle it.  But I've told damn near everyone with no fallout.  As I've said in the past, it's very liberating.
Of course, I'm not putting up any unblurred face shots either, lol!

-- Modified on 2/5/2014 7:17:27 PM

I have yet to suffer any fallout. I was just pointing out, that some people can be uncouth gossips.

 
I chock it up to vicarious bragging. it's one thing if I want to divulge such information about myself, it's another thing when someone else does it.  

 

Was that a bitcoin spinning atop the screen, glad I'm not on acid. :)

HooktardGold1036 reads

especially from those claiming to be grad students or have graduated from Business school. Um, what business are you going into that won't care you were a hooker? Fashion Design? Another sex related industry? Would just about have to be one of those unless you plan on marketing your product/service to only those who are in this life and don't care.  

I would have been kicked out of school point blank, if anyone knew. Too late now, bitches ha ha ha ha.

.and thank god for that. With all the mangina jackasses here, who'll gladly give a six a 10 appearance score, i'd rarely know what I'm getting into.

You never want to dicker, like such, with a man with a fully stocked "bunker" lol

Automation anyone? Lmao

0603450onThe1135 reads

to my 'intuition' which tells me you, my friend, should be on another planet. :)

skarphedin1134 reads

And a Desert Eagle that's one great big ol' pistol
I, mean 50 caliber made by badass Hebrews...
And some surplus tracers for that old B.A.R. of Slayton's
Soon as it's dark we gonna have us a time...  
We gonna have us a time...  
- Choctaw Bingo

Especially when the gal using it, is as big as the gun.

 
I'd be more concerned with her Shaolin style.

You can't speak on other peoples behalf. Worse than that you are flirting on Aria's behalf...

 
What are you a faggot?

Look somewhere else for a partner, Dude. I don't play that way. That is what you were asking?  

No need to open the conversation with small talk.

I thought you were talking to me, as Aria.

 
I suggest you fix your stupidity.

a segue from your "shaolin style" comment. Not sure why that chaps your ass so much, although I see your point about post placement.

You think my calling you a faggot, was out of anger you couldn't be more wrong. I just wanted you to know I won't tolerate anything being said to me. That is presented in a disrespectful manner, such as your response to Aria, which was directed towards me, based on what I said about Aria, in your post about Aria which was a reply to my post, directed to Aria.

 
It wasn't so much the post placement, mistakes happen. Factor in your segue from my "shaolin style" comment, I didn't know WTF you were talking about. Since it's well know Kung Fu grip pertains to a HJ.

 
I am still not clear as to who you were talking to.

I do not see what is ambiguous about your question and my response:

BV: "Were you speaking to me or to Aria?"

MZ: "Aria of course..."
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No, I did not consult urban dictionary before posting Kung Fu "Grip". Anywhere else Kung Fu refers to all Chinese martial arts, including "Shaolin". I looked one way, you looked the other.  

As for tolerating posts presented in a disrespectful manner, it appears we both agree - neither of us will tolerate it.

I suggest we consider the possibility that no disrespect was intended, other than the faggot comment and subsequent response.

I didn't mean any disrespect.

 
I still feel as if you are trying to jerk me off.

 
End Of Discussion

 

 
That EOD up there is official

You can only have one.  

It's okay. I'm still feminine but I'm not a little pussy bitch who's dependent on Uggs and Mocha Frappé

That's kinda my MO. Threaten to kill the retards (being politically incorrect) & exhibit violence to show I'm the alpha female.

HooktardGold1194 reads

Hey now... what you got against Uggs lol. Not much on the coffee, but I do eat bread so I can have an ass.  

Posted By: missariarocchi
You can only have one.  
   
 It's okay. I'm still feminine but I'm not a little pussy bitch who's dependent on Uggs and Mocha Frappé.  
   
 

0603450onThe1146 reads

head. hahahahahahahahahahaha...and apparently I have no website or other account out there either. I guess I'm the 'invisible' provider now LOL. Works for me ;)

Seriously, that's f'n CRAZY....OMG, no way, no how, not for all the cashish in the world, not even to meet Mr. Beckham himself ;) How do these ladies sleep?

Cosette1065 reads

about the repercussions. They either have to be honest with their families, or be prepared should it happen they be discovered. As for professional lives, they can be their own bosses working on a project of their own, maybe they're comfortable with doing this for the rest of their lives, or are in an industry where they know the repercussions will not eliminate their careers

I'm "out" to my family and friends; they don't know the finer details nor do I talk about work with anyone but a select few, but they know. As for what I intend to do in the future, I'm an artist--designer, specifically. I could get away with both never using my real name or ever attaching my face to my work. Fashion is forgiving like that.

Posted By: Cosette
about the repercussions. They either have to be honest with their families, or be prepared should it happen they be discovered. As for professional lives, they can be their own bosses working on a project of their own, maybe they're comfortable with doing this for the rest of their lives, or are in an industry where they know the repercussions will not eliminate their careers.  
   
 

You might be a better designer than any of those folks on project dandy. That doesn't mean you might never have to take that job at Citi Trends.

 
You never know

I'm not looking to land a job, I'm already working toward being my own boss. Should that not work out, there's a variety of other paths I could take with my skillset, within the industry, and still be pretty safe. Donatella Versace was a prostitute at one point, after all.

Posted By: bigvern
You might be a better designer than any of those folks on project dandy. That doesn't mean you might never have to take that job at Citi Trends.  
   
   
 You never know

You might need a job, that you don't want, and still won't get the job.

 
...if you can't get the job you don't want, then what?

That's a bridge I'll cross if I ever come to it. That isn't to say I haven't considered it, but my focus lies on what to do when I don't get what I DO want.  

Posted By: bigvern
You might need a job, that you don't want, and still won't get the job.  
   
   
 ...if you can't get the job you don't want, then what?

Who am I kidding there's a mangina born every minute. :-D

 
...it's all work either way.

Posted By: bigvern
Who am I kidding there's a mangina born every minute. :-D  
   
   
 ...it's all work either way.

With so many advances in technology, would it be possible for the government to determine your true identity from a photograph, i.e., cross-check with the photographs stored by the issuers of a state drivers license. What would stop the IRS from then gathering information about your income (posted rates, nos. of reviews, etc.) and doing an audit on your return? Prostitution is a misdemeanor, but tax evasion is a felony, and the last thing you want is the black suits sticking their nose up your ass and into your business

Hence, if a social security number comes up...you get a letter notifying you of your lucky day  LOL

As for your delusional paranoia of face recognition software to try and determine unreported income due to prostitution...let's go and watch the Matrix again...shall we?

You fellas watch too much Law and Order...get out and enjoy the end of winter.  Then spring will bring forth a bevy of hotties in halters and short skirts.  Relax...all is well  ;)

Posted By: RespectfullyYours
With so many advances in technology, would it be possible for the government to determine your true identity from a photograph, i.e., cross-check with the photographs stored by the issuers of a state drivers license. What would stop the IRS from then gathering information about your income (posted rates, nos. of reviews, etc.) and doing an audit on your return? Prostitution is a misdemeanor, but tax evasion is a felony, and the last thing you want is the black suits sticking their nose up your ass and into your business.  
   
 

Touché. I guess I picked the wrong day to quit taking my Thorazine.

Wouldn't that just be ironic if you saw that letter from the Internal Revenue Service  LOL

Hey...pay attention over the next couple of months.  The IRS loves to spread scare tactics in the press during this time of year.  It's always good for a laugh or two...unless you are one of those that hasn't filed in some time  LOL

 

Posted By: RespectfullyYours
Touché. I guess I picked the wrong day to quit taking my Thorazine.

But I blur my face to conceal my fucked up mug and gnarly grill.

Damn you Tobi. lol

 
Hey since you are most likely management material. Not that it's my thing, but one scenario could be you and another provider could dress up like UPS mngmnt lesbians, and punish the "new driver" and his package for missing a pick up.  

 
Courtney has short hair, don't she. :-D

I could try, tho lol. I can be the aggressive dominant type, muahaha..

That's why it would be funny,

 I don't want to be dominated, as long as you're not trying to dominate me, you can be as aggressive as you like.  

 

I'd extend the invite to Tobi as well, but I think I'm on her DNS list.

So that's why they're breaking the door down to see you! Next thing you'll tell is that you use a body double in your photos and that you're really shaped like Melissa McCarthy!

Nope, she looks like Calista Flockhart next to me.  

Posted By: RespectfullyYours
So that's why they're breaking the door down to see you! Next thing you'll tell is that you use a body double in your photos and that you're really shaped like Melissa McCarthy!

The ones who do not show their faces are Amish.

Posted By: RespectfullyYours
Obviously showing yourself is a big boon for the hobbyist, but the vast majority of providers hide or distort their faces online. The desire for anonymity is glaringly obvious, yet some providers (some of whom are quite reputable and definite A-listers) post multiple photos on their websites that are a true and accurate personal depiction. Why do it? Are you that sexually and philosophically liberated that you have no issues with anyone (including close friends and family) having the capability of discovering your involvement in this hobby, is it a marketing decision to help promote business, do you think the name you display as your alter ego provides enough security that others will never discover your true identity?  
   
 If this has already been discussed, sorry for wasting your time, as well as my own?

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