I meet a dancer at a strip club that I was attracted to and got a few lap dances and they spent sone time at the bar with her. It was all good clean fun, and never a mention of being a provider came up. A day later I found a provider add that I think is her. Would it be odd for me to make an appointment, as she probably wouldn't realize she knew me till I arrived? And I'm not 100% that it's her, but same stage name, looks alot like her and in the area.
...then she's in business for anyone who passes her screening. If you liked her at the strip club, you already know she's someone you'd like to see.
Give her a call.
... recognize you or remember you from the Club. Dancing is a job (just like providing) and the guys they meet, dance for, share a drink with quickly become foggy memories most times.
However... I WOULD mention to her at some point that you think you met her at XXXXXX Club and want to see more of her. In the worst case scenario, she vaguely recognizes you, doesn't know who you are, and thinks you are Vice.
My .02 worth.
MVR
that she's not very worried about keeping the two gigs separate. On the other hand, if you had met her first as a provider, it might not be so cool for you to stagger into her club, point drunkenly to her onstage and bellow out about the wild sex you two had the other night for 300 bucks at the Hampton Inn.
will enjoy more time with her alone without others watching.
"No, if you were attracted to her once unless you were drunk"
Thats's the worst problem with strippers.
Seeing what they look like when sober.
The other worst problem: Seeeing her in the daytime, before she cakes on her make up.
And they looked just as hot when we woke up in the morning.
You know. All sleepy eyed. Walking around in my T-shirt. Making them coffee and eggs and shit(I popped open a beer or three) before another romp.
Then took a shower and they went on their way.
I miss those days.
If she has a ad up then she wants the business. If she already knows you it should make your first visit that much more comfortable.
and may be very UNcomfortable to find that someone who knows them outside the escorting world is their new customer.
She's stripping in a public bar, giving lap dances, and advertising as an escort..... with a picture that must be recognizable enough for the OP to realize he's already gotten a lap dance from her?
okay....lol...
I was replying to the implication that any escort who advertises would be delighted to have someone she already knows show up for a session. Nyuk nyuk.
to see daddies golf buddy show up at her door. Or a childhood friend. Or her kids teacher. Her brother's best friend....her brother....her.....there's a lot of icky possibilities.....
Not the same vibe as 'some guy' she gave a few lap dances. Just because OP was attracted to her, and she spent some time with him at the bar, in_a_strip_club doesn't mean she remembers him from adam.
And, even if she did, so what?
Nyuk nyuk.
First of all, 'good, clean fun'? You're at a boobie bar. It ain't Disney-fucking-land.
So you saw her ad, maybe, a day later on a hooker board and think it's the same person.
Fuck. Call her up. All she could say is no if you asked her if that was her at the bar and you want to spend some 'good, clean fun' time together.
I know I would if I was attracted to her.
but yours is by far the best advice given so far.
If a gal is advertising under her stripper name, she must not be trying to keep "her worlds apart" and it's not like you met her at her secretarial day job, she's a fucking stripper for chrissakes, those two worlds live right next ot each other. Actually providing is a much more honest way to make a living.
So go fuck her already. lol
Seems to me that she would appreciate seeing a familiar face!
Are you fucking kidding me? Call her up if u want to fuck her. You are not proposing to marry her, are u? There is an paralysis by analysis syndrome but you surpassed that, this is, stupidity by analysis, that is, more you analyze the stupider it becomes.
Even if it wasn't the same girl, maybe this one is well reviewed. So you can't go wrong either way imho.
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