I check out the reviews and accompanying website profiles for three separate cities in three separate states of which I travel.

I notice today that of the 19 ladies that are listed as a total for all three cities, 6 of them have absolutely no photos to offer and 5 of them have only a single review written.

It completely blows me away each time that I read a review and find that the client had no photos to go by as well as no review to refer to.

I always wonder who would book a session and take the chance on spending hard earned money on an unknown face, body and expertise knowing that she could end up looking like Ernest Borgnine.

Surprisingly or not the reviews are usually always positive and complimentary. Whether they are real or not is not for me to decide.

I understand that you ladies go through it each and every day that you choose to work. You will be forever surprised each and every time that you open that door.  

I know that it is a bit different in that you are on the receiving end of the $$$.......

But how the hell do you do it ???

That's why I've never even thought to haggle over price.

In fairness, most providers I see have had some sort of pictures of me or something in advance. But not always. Even so, I'm an unknown quantity.

Just opening the door, IMO, is an act of incredible courage. They've earned the money right there.

It's especially courageous given that every provider I've ever seen has been on her lonesome at the time. No backup. And we all know the differential in strength between men and women.

These ladies are made of something strong yet flexible: steel.

And now -- imagine that strength and that courage; and the ability to transition that to all of the things we find so endearing in women.

One day when I'm assembling my army to stop the motor of the world; you can bet several providers will be included.

For me it is not about how a man looks but his personality and how he treats me. I try my best to get a feel for his personality be his emails, phone calls and reviews he has written.
I learned my lesson years ago, married a hunk, women drooled over him, after a few months he quickly became the  ugliest person in the world to me. Unfortunately I was so taken by his looks and great body, I didn't take the time to get to know him. Lesson learned, now I love for the guys who make me laugh, open the door for me and actually listen when I speak, not a care about how they look.

Pity Ayn Rand wasn't a provider----------on 2nd thought, maybe she was---------

opening that door, is really not so fun.  I too, try to be pleasant, open minded and trouble free.   I can dream!

and by the way, I've a couple I would suggest for that army... and one has the bona fides to qualify.

with scores all in the 3-5 range.... on both looks and performance.  And with comments like, "I was rushed" "upselling" "if it was the gal in the pictures, they were taken when Taft was president" etc.

Those are the dudes who get me wondering... cause they are on TER, they know about the review system... and yet, like lemmings to the sea they scurry onward, as fast as they can, to jump!

I am a fan of Ayn Rand because of her development of the ideas of psycho-epistemology and her recognition of the importance of philosophy in our daily lives.

However, I tend to hail back to her more fundamental sources -- philosophers such as Nietzsche -- whose philosophy was obscured by the influence of certain Frankfurt School ideas (particularly those of Erich Fromm) in some of her later work.

I also disagree with her single-minded admiration of an economic system -- any economic system -- as being perfect. I look beyond the false dichotomy of capitalism/communism -- both of which reduce Man to homo economicus -- to see a realm where economies serve Man rather than Man serving economies.

But let's not get too deep. eh?

And she is definitely military ready! I am hoping to give her a little John Galt visit and invite her to Galt's Gulch next time I'm in her neck of the woods.

But if you've got suggestions, send 'em on!

to open the door to strangers. I have heard some real horror stories, and they went to back work.

BTW for a classic scifi novel about stopping the engine of the world try "Jack of Shadows" by Roger Zelazny. It's a great read. But somehow I don't think Zelazny is what you had in mind.

TC

I open the door each and every time with open arms, a warm heart and a wet pu$$y! Guess I am in the right job eh?

I dont care how the guy looks, but I hope that he be polite, caring and nice and clean and respectful! If he can make me laugh or we can laugh together then thats awesome. I am all these things so I dont think its too much to ask.

Kisses! Sidney

The very first lady that I ever shared time with, walked up to me in a crowded casino, with a big smile and wide eyes, threw her arms around my neck and stuck to me like glue while she whispered in my ear,

" Hey, your not too bad at all".

I could never be 100% sure how to take that comment, so I took it as a good thing.

I read fantasy and sci fi once in a while.

...Bumfuck, Nebraska?  If the women showed their faces, everyone in town would know who they were.

I've squeezed more providers' melons in the produce section of Ralphs than there are in those 3 towns.

I suspect that is why guys are willing to take a chance. Just make a run for it. That's the chance some providers are willing to take when they don't provide any pictures.

I would think providers get desensitized to this after a little experience. Alcohol probably helps. If they close their eyes through most of it, they should be able to get through it unscathed. Or they can bail too if the guy is too horrible. Honestly though, I've been to a lot of meet and greets and don't recall any guys that were scary looking.

Even my former therapist (RIP) named his son after him.

Doesn't TER require a site with photos to qualify for reviewing a gal?

Yes, but which Borgnine?  The Borgnine of "From Here to Eternity" or the Borgnine of "Convoy"?

I especially like his books "The Art of Loving" and "Man for Himself."

Unlike most of the rest of the Frankfurt School, while he WAS a Marxist in many respects; I think Fromm actually had many very unique and valuable insights. He wasn't in lock-step with the rest.

But from a philosophy perspective, I think his influence on Rand didn't work well.

back then, everyone had to be a Marxist or you weren't cool.  That can be dismissed.

Are you familiar with Wilhelm Reich?  He was way ahead of his time, and I think he would very much approve of the hobby and TER in particular.

Poor guy, first he gets kicked in the ass by the communist for not being Marxist enough, then he comes to the US and is locked up (He died in jail and all his writings were destroyed.) for being.....a communist!

If you can find it, read his book:  Listen Little Man.  It is priceless.

Also, check out a movie made in the sixties, WR Mysteries of the Organism.  It's a weird film, but has a lot of information about Reich.

(especially the first sentence) over and over and over again.