i have a question for both hobbiest and providers on a fetish of mine. i can't stand cumming in a rubber,i like to pull out and cum on the lady.......on her ass,tits,CIM,etc.i have had some providers get pissed off when i do it, and some encourage it. a ATF of mine says she lets me get away with a lot of this stuff(because i am a regular), and she doesn't let other clients do this.i also read reviews on providers and when the guy finishes it sounds like he finishes inside with the rubber on.how many hobbiest like to do what i like,am i the only PERVERT here that likes this, and how many ladies allow this to happen based on percentage.i like to see many different ladies and i feel awkward asking if they will allow me to do this , and i don't like getting my ass kicked.

I have to say that for me, this sounds totally inane.  Where did you get the idea?  Perhaps porn?  Do any of your civvy partners allow/like this?

I think not, but I could be wrong- and I heartily support fellow hobbyists doing stuff that turns them on!  

I think of the facial or the splooge shower as a total monjkey see monkey do childish act.  They do it in porn films to re-assure you that it's real sex you are watching (and even then it's often aided or visual effects), but it's not a real part of sexual practice for many.

I too am eager to see what responses you get...

This is not a flame- it's all good.  I just am saying I would never do it and I think it's silly.  But I am not you and I think when one is paying- one get one's fantasys fulfilled, dammit!

if providers allow guys to yank off the cover just before they come so they can come all over her?
As long as I know ahead of time, I don't mind that at all and depending on where it's going. That's why I bring towels to the bed.

I enjoy the visual sometimes as well, and have had partners who liked it even more than I did.  Just gotta discuss it, because if she doesn't, it could blow the whole appointment.

I like that too.  It is not perverted, and Sully needs to lighten up, especially for a hobbyist.  I really enjoy releasing onto a woman's face, breasts, belly, etc...  If she doesn't mind (and many seem to enjoy it), what is the harm?

I've read tons of reviews where the client claims to pull out and shoot it on the girl... I think some providers would rather you shot it on their back or stomach than risk the condom breaking and shooting it all inside.

Personally, the best part of the sex is the ejaculation... pulling out and jacking it off on the woman just doesn't appeal to me.

Never did it. Now if a provider or girlfriend asked me to then maybe.  

I like to get off during the act or BBBJTCCIM  , but thats me.

Never had a moman ask for for otherwise and I never wanted to do that myself.

"Yeh, lemme see you jerk that cock hard, and shoot that hot, dirty spunk all over my [tits/ass/legs, face]."  Hot enough?

I have only been asked to do this by one provider. Personally I dont like to stop for that. I prefer a nice warm Something(mouth,vagina,? } holding  my cock at that moment. The only time I enjoy cumming outside is with good Russian and then I enjoy it more if she takes me in her mouth.

you just ask before hand. It's just common courtesy and will save you a butt kicking.
~CarleeofArizona

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Roxy,
The only problem with you post is that I did not think of it first..

LMAO

I do not wanted it on my face, thank you.

Hugs,
Ciara

Intercourse is like an IRA/401k..... in that there are severe
penalties for early WITHDRAWL.

I absolutely loathe and despise rubbers. Latex simply prevents me from experiencing the tactile sensations vital to a satisfactory sexual experience.
But then again, my fetishes all involve oral sex of one sort or another. The condoms rarely come out of the drawer.
I did have an ATF willing to go bareback with me provided I paid for both of us to be tested prior to the encounter. This arrangement worked fine until she got into a civilian relationship, and chose to retire to a life of monogamy.
Good for her!
But nowadays, there are very few providers willing to take such a risk, even with the test reassurances. I can sure understand it.
At least BBBJTCIM keeps me sane

Tha last thing you want to do is surprise a provider who doesn't like it.
If she does like it, then she will probably want to know it's coming even more.

Personally I'll never understand the power trip guys get from this, is it the degrading nature of the act?

Hey if she loves it great, her reaction can be really hot, but if she is not into it why do it?

Between this and your post about your reviews, I am curious who you are.  PM me if you are a VIP or write me at [email protected] and let me know.  You are funny!

Well if she doesnot offer that on her menu, and the reviews doesn't mention that she let hobbyists come in mouth/facial/on her body then you shouldnot try to make her do that.


If she let people do it, and the reviews state that she does, then you can enjoy what she offers.

It's what she offers that decide her fee amount.

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About me, I love it when he comes in my mouth, on my face, everywhere on my body, I just love to see his face when he comes all over me.
And yes, I'm a porno addict. Is that bad or good?

Hi,
 Some women feel like they need to look a certain way because of the media.  People think they need to get a certain car for a certain kind of status.  It turns some fellow on to pull out and cum on his partner because of watching a bunch-a porn or for whatever reason.
I think the subject is that sometimes things evolve from "unheard of" to "the norm" because of this kind of stuff and it takes patience and tolerance from everyone as these cultural changes take place.  Some stuff fails and falls to the wayside and some stuff becomes regular normal stuff.  Examples:
I walk through the local mall and a young girl has a pierced navel.  15 years ago I'd wonder if she was an exotic dancer.  Not today obviously, unless you're in my small Minnesota hometown, then you'd still be an exotic dancer.
Or: Never in a million years did I think the Hummer craze would catch on.  What the hell is that thing doing on my street?  But in as little as five years I can see a soccer mom use it to drive kids to practice.  
 When Mr. Dump A. Load mentioned his predilection for cumming on his partner I thought absolutely nothing strange about it at all.  Maybe cause I've watched all that porn.  And when I hold my grandson on my knee, someday, and give him the facts of life...maybe I'll tell him about the time we used to use these things called condoms but now we all pull out and squirt our love on to their ass.  Everything evolves and who knows where this will land.
Dump-a-Load asked if he was the only freak in the group and I knew that the thread was going to support him.  And they've generally have by saying "to each their own" and "communicate with your partner" which is fantastic but it seems to have a slightly veiled negative spin to it and I just want to truly say, "We support you Mr. Load with an open heart!  The years will tell if you are our future or just a humble perv.  Talk to your partner!  Communicate!   Follow your bliss!  Let us know how it's going with you!"
 Love,
Jockeypants

Why is it degrading?  Couldn't a good idea come from porn?  I LOVE to be jacked off by a hot babe and cum anywhere on her.  I think it's a very intimate act when a lady lets you cum on her.  There's something very exciting about it to me.  I don't see it as degrading.  And some ladies have told me they love working with their hands because, more so than with intercourse or oral, they can see, and thus get turned on by, watching the guy get turned on from not such an up-close vantage point.  It's all good, but I love to cum on hot babes!

arousal, versus olfactory or auditory, is more important to animals that stand upright.

...I always prefer to be ramming it DEEP inside when I shoot my wad.

since I can't, should'nt, and won't have intercourse w/o a condom, then a BBBJTC is the next best thing, since a condom really inhibits by enjoyment of sex.

Lots of guys prefer your desired method.

Suggest you simply ask the lady "if finishing the at bat outside the batters box without a batting glove is OK with her".

Most will get the idea and let you know.

If they don't understand, find a smarter provider.

I am compelled to tell you that "she doesn't let other clients do this" is a lie.

I agree Sedona as long as it's not in my face.

Laura Of Boston

Is this a trick question, Lexus?  

When you are good, you are good...when you are bad, you are better.

I love the sight of a woman's cum!

Respect the opinion and you are entitled to it (at least until Ashcroft rewrites the 1st Amendment along with the 4th).  However, in this hobby, it's hard for me to characterize anything as silly--the only choices for me are what I would do and woul not do.  Remember that a lot of people out there think it's silly, or much worse, to be paying for companionship. As for splooging, my only recall of the one time I was allowed to do it is that it looked a lot better in the movies but I would try it again with a willing lady.

Well it just depends on the persons likes and dislikes. I dont mind it now and then but there are times I do things with one client I may not do with others. All the person has to do is ask ahead of time instead of just doing it and taking the chance to tick someone off at them. Besides I heard it was good for your complection....Kisses
Renee (tampa)