or more, involving overnight experiences, what do you think when you are asked for that?
Without saying, it's still a business transaction, and should be nothing more than that to keep things in perspective.  You should hope the guy can keep that in mind and perspective, but there are no guarantees, to say the least.  

Actually lame posts seem to be outnumbering the plain old stupid variety by quite a margin lately.

No wonder I don't have a girlfriend. 👯👯👯

When a client starts seeing you on a regular basis, 3rd or 4th date, overnight or just a couple of hours, it might not be all that tied up with emotion other than the obvious. He knows he always had a good time with you, he thinks you're gorgeous, he LIKES you, and maybe he's hoping you'll give him a deal on the requested donation.

Why does the guy have to get a financial break after seeing a lady a few times. What's wrong with "she rocks my world, so I am going to keep seeing her until she no longer does"

They'll be wanting frequent customer punch cards. Or they'll be sending their ladies breakup letters after the third dates if the service or rates are not to their liking. I thought we repeat because the girl rocked our world the last time, and we'd simply like to have an experience like that again. And yes, providers probably give better service to regulars somehow. I don't think this entitles you to a discount over time. It's not like she needs less money or her time is less valuable because she knows you better.

The difference is probably very subtle. The somethin' somehthin' might be expressed this way:

How do you explain that the experience seems better each session after session?

~4 years ago or so, despite the number of times I saw her, she was very stiff about talking outside of session. BC with other guys confirmed she can win the bitch of the year award.   I intended on booking a session with her so I sent a hello text. She said hi back and that she's doing well. She asked me how I'm doing and all.  I responded with maybe 2 texts regarding certain events going on in my life.  

It's always more fun to see a guy repeat over & over again, the comfort level eases, the conversation more personal, the sessions more intimate.... Trust is established... I would rather have repeat clients all the time, also you let them do things you wouldn't w/a new client like give personal checks, gift cards, definitely specials.... More comfortable doing overnights!!!!!

Are we talking about providers who don't have their stuff together? There are more than a few, most  
often older (> 35) who are successful , keep on top of their spending, manage growing a single daughter to college and such, and have many many regulars who see them over 4 dates, maybe 20, or hundreds. Visit as friends, help out as tutors, etc. so a "queen" provider who has their life together instead of all of these nubiles who are lost from the beginning as providers struggling to finish college part time or always in debt or whatever.  i.e. a civvie professional who became a professional provider in their 30's. (in my personal example, left for good). too classy and pretty at her age

Don't know why.
Maybe it is your handle.
Or the fact you say things like Amen.

is it with all this psycho babble here.  

as for "what the man wants" all I can go by is what he actually said. and what he said was that his "friend" expected to be in a different category after the fourth date where it came to "time and fees" That sure sounds like a financial break to me.

It's tacky, and I give them out to real regulars like candy already. If you are a man who can't handle booking multiple appointments, then please, just recognize that that is one of your short comings and don't put that shit on us. We are trying to be nice to you, but whiney, obsessive, breakup letter sending guys are literally repulsive, even to us.  

And I've stopped accepting grandfathering.  If gal decides to raise her rate by, say, $50 I'd rather just pay the new rate.  If that money means more to me than it does to her I should find something different to do with my funds.

Partly, I think it's because she has health issues.  I don't think I'd ever abandon her completely but I've stopped contacting her.  If she wants to get in touch, she knows how.

Hey, I admitted several times I'm an AH.
I'd rather be that than a dummy or a lamo turdwell.
You're neither of these.

The price on her site is the amount of money she sees fit to charge, she is not a minimum wage waitress living on tips.

and BTW I don't use a fucking envelope, it's a waste of time and energy and doesn't protect anyone any more than those insipid disclaimers on many websites. Grow the fuck up and get a clue.

FWIW I am not the one who is hung up on the money, you are the one hung up on the fact that you feel some need to "impress" a hooker by how generous (clueless) you can be. Are you really trying to supplant Turdy as the lamest poster here?

Pay for play sex is not "priceless" it's a business transaction, most of the time a very pleasurable business transaction, but a business transaction none the less.

It's people like you who see love where it doesn't exist and make providers wary about seeing guys too often lest they fall in "love" and start stalking them.

On a couple levels.

dipshit!!! lmao

I guess being a voyeur is ok if you are into that sort of thing, but the rest I will take a pass on, including having a wife working in a whorehouse, not that I have anything against whorehouses, just having a wife PERIOD, no matter what she did for a living.

So, to answer your question, NO it would not be nice.

Unless she's in a coma it doesn't seem like she wants to communicate. ( Imo,  cuz most girls seem to need more attention when they are sick)  

And that you can be a good pimp too

I hope you're not one of those cheapsies who puts the exact dollar amount for her donation in the envelop and not a dollar more. It's people like you who are so hung up on money who make providers wary about clients trying to rip them off. Retread my posts.

To be a fat, old, balding voyeur with a wife working in a whorehouse to support your degenerate ass AND your hobby?

And when I'm paying $400-$500 for her time, yes, I'm going to put "the exact dollar amount in the envelp(e)."  And, no, that doesn't make me a "cheapsie."  Gals to whom I give the exact amount seem quite happy to have my repeat business, too.

I'm sorry you had that experience.

So it's natural for him to jump to that conclusion.

yeah, I would have to agree with that statement.

Actually you sound like many hobbyists who have very low self esteem and try to compensate by being "extra nice" to the ladies in order to gain their approval. Which is just another way of defining a mangina, just in case russ is reading this.

But don't expect me to share it here.

Dollars remain the same.  Sometimes, the time gets extended.  

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Most aren't looking for ltr's, but are looking for repeat clients. I'm sure discounts for longer appointments are given if they're not difficult and the two click well.. customer appreciation should not be mistaken for love or a possible relationship forming.  

I'll splurge on a really great dinner, fun things like a couple's massage, unique boutique hotels for special overnight trips, nice gifts, etc.  One of the greatest thrills I had was during an evening date and hearing the words " I was hoping to spend the night with you".   Yowza!