: TER General Board Discussion : With the right partner

Once-Is-Not-Enough 1978 reads

posted 5 years ago

1 / 23

Some (just one or two) of the ladies I have been with, do not enjoy 69 (with the lady on top, of course).

One reason I have heard is; "I can not concentrate on two things at the same time." In this case they prefer DATY and BBBJ be partaken, as two completely separate activities.

Of course, I always honor a lady's preference, even when hobbying. Any ladies care to share their insight?

RespectfulRobert 87 reads

posted 5 years ago

2 / 23

Personally, I love it.

Just find it to be extremely exciting and very pleasurable. And there is no rule that says the enjoyment can't be shared in a manner where one person licks/sucks while the other person receives only, then switch it up, as that would alleviate the "I can't concentrate on two things at the same time" issue.

SteadyAlways 106 reads

posted 5 years ago

3 / 23

Can't Conentrate

"I can not concentrate on two things at the same time."

I love having the gal on top blowing while I munch.... She is right that it is harder to concentrate, but I last a good deal longer in such a position.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 97 reads

posted 5 years ago

4 / 23

Not a fan of the "Conventional" 69....

I like the position of say "4"...I'll let you imagination figure that one out...It's one of those things in that if I tell you, I'll have to kill you. But the whole "69" thing, just ain't my thing

barebear3 38 Reviews 103 reads

posted 5 years ago

5 / 23

When I getting a BL and the lady moves...

so that we are in 69 I love her assertiveness. Something about her thighs sliding over my face and her planting her pussy on my mouth.

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 98 reads

posted 5 years ago

6 / 23

69 is fun but

yes i also find 69 kinda distracting and "hard" to focus on two things at the same time LOL

but it can be fun just as something different and playful. but not a main event item. my luck i get the girl to cum and she quickly bites down involuntarily LOL

impposter 49 Reviews 95 reads

posted 5 years ago

7 / 23

Re: Not a fan of the Conventional 69

I can see how v + | = 4 but I can't see who is v , who is | , and which parts go where so it isn't just a 69.

Posted By: hpygolky

Re: Not a fan of the "Conventional" 69....
I like the position of say "4"...I'll let you imagination figure that one out...It's one of those things in that if I tell you, I'll have to kill you. But the whole "69" thing, just ain't my thing

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EDIT: TER won't allow a "greater than" symbol so I had to use a v in place of a sideways v. I still don't know who is the v and who is the | .

jack8888 10 Reviews 102 reads

posted 5 years ago

8 / 23

Not a fan...

Aside from the concentration thing, 69 puts your nose pretty close to her ahole. Even though it's (almost) always well cleaned, sometimes there is still some unpleasant odor.

MojoStu 14 Reviews 91 reads

posted 5 years ago

9 / 23

I guess no ladies care to share their thoughts on this.....

Which is rather disappointing. I love it and if it's not on their menu I look elsewhere.

John_Laroche 97 reads

posted 5 years ago

10 / 23

With the right partner

Both on your side. Mutual teasing, edging, worship, until you're both ready for the big finish.

JawKnee36 95 Reviews 92 reads

posted 5 years ago

11 / 23

Mixed feelings on standard 69

I’ve had some awesome 69s and some, well, annoying 69s. Naturally, depends on the girl. However, an unrepentant unicorn I used to see fairly regularly back around 2009-2011ish used to have me be on top in 69 for the finish. She liked her pussy smacked (not too hard) while choking on a cock with a toy in her ass, and in that position she couldn’t see it coming (no pun intended). She really wasn’t into DATY though. Only real throatpies I’ve ever given was with her. Haven’t found a provider like her since she moved out of the NoVA area, but not for lack of looking. She’s since gone very BSC on Twitter and is now excommunicado.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 86 reads

posted 5 years ago

12 / 23

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

Posted By: JawKnee36

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69
However, an unrepentant unicorn I used to see fairly regularly back around 2009-2011ish used to have me be on top in 69 for the finish.

JawKnee, I too know the feeling of a woman insisting on being on the bottom during 69; it was like mental viagra on steroids to the ninth power. She didn't want me to take it easy on her either.

impposter 49 Reviews 101 reads

posted 5 years ago

13 / 23

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

Posted By: JawKnee36

However, an unrepentant unicorn I used to see fairly regularly back around 2009-2011ish used to have me be on top in 69 for the finish.

Sometimes I know that me being on top would be better for me but I also know that some (many?) women don't want to be on the bottom. I think it has to do with a feeling of being trapped? Yes? No? Every once in a while, I can assume the top position and it works out well for me.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 103 reads

posted 5 years ago

14 / 23

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

Posted By: impposter

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

Posted By: JawKnee36

However, an unrepentant unicorn I used to see fairly regularly back around 2009-2011ish used to have me be on top in 69 for the finish.

Sometimes I know that me being on top would be better for me but I also know that some (many?) women don't want to be on the bottom. I think it has to do with a feeling of being trapped? Yes? No? Every once in a while, I can assume the top position and it works out well for me.

In addition to feeling trapped, there are the pain factors, choking factors, and possible vomiting factors to be considered.

JawKnee36 95 Reviews 97 reads

posted 5 years ago

15 / 23

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

It should be worth an extra point in service, haha!

badger48 153 Reviews 84 reads

posted 5 years ago

16 / 23

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

I would guess the size and weight of the top person would come into play too. I am very comfortable with the woman on top. With the woman on the bottom you would/should be in some type of push up or plank position, especially with a size & weight difference!. Probably wouldn't hurt to do that when in Mish! Unless it is being requested!

DeClemente 48 Reviews 87 reads

posted 5 years ago

17 / 23

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69

Posted By: badger48

Re: Mixed feelings on standard 69
I would guess the size and weight of the top person would come into play too. I am very comfortable with the woman on top. With the woman on the bottom you would/should be in some type of push up or plank position, especially with a size & weight difference!. Probably wouldn't hurt to do that when in Mish! Unless it is being requested!

LOL, badger48, I never want to crush a woman regardless of what sexual position she and I are doing, regardless of what sex act we're doing. The flip side of that, however, is when I've been with a heavy and/or large woman who has practically crushed lil old me under her in certain positions or acts.
I love the traditional 69 with the woman in top, and there have been some struggles I've had to breathe or doubts I've had that I would emerge intact with no cracked bones or ruptured internal organs.
That's why I really should stick to my go-to preference, the petites and the spinners, but we all know that sometimes the little head is in command, and orders the helmsman to seek any port in a storm.