sometimes I get off multiple times if I have good chemistry with a guy but other times my kitty can barely get wet if the vibe isn't right....its all in how you treat the kitty. sometimes the o can be fun and give you release but other times it can be mind boggling and make you wanta nap and a sammich lol

Always best for me a week before that lovely time of month

Doesn't seem to matter who's doing what down there I get gigantic tectonic shifting orgasms then. Sadly a week later I turn into PMS bitch from hell hahahaha

Self-induced "O"s are usually pretty mainstream.. but...

And I hate to admit this, I'm not your average, finger flicking- clit rubbing kind of masturbator

I hump. Girls may know what I'm referring to, but let me spell it out a little

I bunch up a cloth, clothing article, blanket, w/e, and literally lay on my bed on my stomach humping and rubbing away.  

These orgasms are always the same, and leave me wanting more- until I pass out from my own 2-5 mins of exuberant energy. And yes, boys even a woman can come in 2 minutes lol.  

But sexually, its A LOT harder for me, I NEED to be on top riding like a maniac. and it takes like 10-20-30mins if it wants to. those O's are better than my self- induced O's and don't put me to sleep for some reason

 
But I'd say I had a very very powerful O yesterday during Greek. And, yes- dear god, I LOVE GREEK. So, i'm laying on my stomach, and I actually did my "humping" thing while I was getting pounded. it took a lot longer than masturbating on my own, but dear god did I get loud. and it felt fucking amazing  

And I even got a little bit of my skin rubbed off like rug burn on the knuckle of my middle finger- just more proof that it was just as amazing for me as it was for my client.

 
Now i'm horny again... :-/ *sigh

so yes, some O's are better than others.

Not that who I am with doesn't play a role, but for me the best is when both of us are AT our best: fit and healthy as we can be, relaxed and worry-free as we can be, comfortable and trusting in one another's company. Attraction and chemistry in play, enjoying the journey more than shooting for a goal. The best "O's" will sneak up on you and just happen

...then you should really consider seeing a prostate specialist.  As any guy who has experienced a true prostate orgasm can tell you, they are unarguably "better" than the average orgasm.  Not to mention longer-lasting.  And they sometimes even leave you feeling a little "high on life" for days to come.

Of course in the heat of passion orgasms can be a little better or more mediocre here and there from "normal"/PIV fucking or BJs etc.  But you really haven't had a great orgasm until you've had a prostate orgasm.  

Just read my reviews or the reviews of the many other women who specialize in prostate stimulation to hear firsthand testimonies!

I'm always in a perpetual state of awe that more men don't try it.  But that's society for you I guess.  A lot of men have been cheated out of the experience by social norms.  But it's a shame, because more intense orgasms are REALLY awesome...

I know if I'm totally turned on and there's a long build up time then I will cum so hard! If I'm struggling to even get there in the first place then not so strong..... And for me cumming in the role of a sub is the most intense ... A little tease/denial always does it for me best....and Greek! Good lawwwwwd!! Lol so depends more on the how I guess.....

I don't think it depends so much on the provider, as all the providers I see are regulars with whom I have great chemistry.

I think it must be either my own psychology and/or physiology at the time that makes some orgasms earth shaking and others just OK.  

Fortunately, even an OK orgasm is fun, and I'm into a lot more about the whole sexual experience than just the orgasm.  I like to think of the orgasm as the cherry on top, but I enjoy the ice cream and all the toppings too.

One thing I do notice is that when I do have a second orgasm during the session, it is much more intense than the first, and of course takes a lot more doing to produce

Who you're with, and how well they please you. Some people don't know what they are doing, so it might take some time.

It is all based on Mentality. Some women turn me on more than others, though the mechanics of sex and orgasm are the same. If I am really aroused by a woman, then I feel the orgasm is more enjoyable. It also depends on time and situation. Two minute back alley quickie is not as enjoyable as a two hour slow burn pleasure session.