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Bad google searches of me.
bobafouts 10 Reviews 1854 reads
posted
1 / 12

Hi, I'm fairly inexperienced at the escort game.  Lately, I've had some no-shows...we schedule for incall, but then the provider doesn't contact me at the appointed time.  

I just found out that when I google my name, I can find myself, but I also find a registered sexual offender in the same metro area (same first/last name, different middle initial).  I'm worried that this might be an inhibiting factor.  

Any advice you folks could share with me would be appreciated.  Thanks!

no_email 3 Reviews 387 reads
posted
2 / 12

You two have separate addresses, right?

 
I think that's how it works.

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 348 reads
posted
3 / 12

And provide proof that it is not you. That would probably be the fastest way for me to not approve someone (finding their name on the registry) so if you tell her from the beginning, you will be able to prove its not you. Whenever I don't approve someone, I usually tell them they didn't pass, but I've never thought someone was a sex offender either. That really sucks.  

Your probably gonna want to join p411 or rs2k (like someone else suggested)

Dr Who revived 346 reads
posted
4 / 12

Read at least 10 pages worth of posts...learn how this game is played.

And certainly STOP giving up your personal info...that is simply NOT necessary.  If a gal insists on it...move on to the next one.

Join a screening service such as P411 or Date-Check and you can forever eliminate giving up your real name.  RS2K won't be of help as they require as part of the screening the name you signed up with.  So unless you want to use some other name...skip RS.

Honestly, most gals don't do the google check all that thoroughly.  But if indeed your name comes up with the sex offender...hard to explain to anyone here who might be trying to screen you out.  So avoid that and use P411 (or DC)...problem is solved.  And don't tell anyone you see that your name is the same as Johnnie Sex-Offender...no real upside there  LOL
Posted By: bobafouts
Hi, I'm fairly inexperienced at the escort game.  Lately, I've had some no-shows...we schedule for incall, but then the provider doesn't contact me at the appointed time.    
   
 I just found out that when I google my name, I can find myself, but I also find a registered sexual offender in the same metro area (same first/last name, different middle initial).  I'm worried that this might be an inhibiting factor.    
   
 Any advice you folks could share with me would be appreciated.  Thanks!

harborview 10 Reviews 347 reads
posted
5 / 12

YOU just found it & it's creeping you out!  Tell her rather than her finding it & wondering or assuming it IS you.  As a newbie, I gave up my LandLine number.  It was NOT to call but a reverse look up confirmed the info I'd given her.  
In your case, either or both the verification services might be a good idea & again, let them know & ask how they want you to prove your identity.

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 271 reads
posted
6 / 12

This also works. Though I have seen some girls' screening form requires real full name. I only require it if your not on p411, DC, or rs2k I even take TER whitelists.

Do you have provider references? Those help!
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Read at least 10 pages worth of posts...learn how this game is played.  
   
 And certainly STOP giving up your personal info...that is simply NOT necessary.  If a gal insists on it...move on to the next one.  
   
 Join a screening service such as P411 or Date-Check and you can forever eliminate giving up your real name.  RS2K won't be of help as they require as part of the screening the name you signed up with.  So unless you want to use some other name...skip RS.  
   
 Honestly, most gals don't do the google check all that thoroughly.  But if indeed your name comes up with the sex offender...hard to explain to anyone here who might be trying to screen you out.  So avoid that and use P411 (or DC)...problem is solved.  And don't tell anyone you see that your name is the same as Johnnie Sex-Offender...no real upside there  LOL  
   
Posted By: bobafouts
Hi, I'm fairly inexperienced at the escort game.  Lately, I've had some no-shows...we schedule for incall, but then the provider doesn't contact me at the appointed time.    
     
  I just found out that when I google my name, I can find myself, but I also find a registered sexual offender in the same metro area (same first/last name, different middle initial).  I'm worried that this might be an inhibiting factor.    
     
  Any advice you folks could share with me would be appreciated.  Thanks!

Hu11 40 Reviews 434 reads
posted
7 / 12

Without knowing your specific circumstances relevant to your "registered sex offender" status and without any prejudice, I think a provider would want to avoid someone like you rather than risk it.

Meeting with a provider is totally between two informed consensual adults -- it has nothing to do with sexual offense.

Dr Who revived 350 reads
posted
8 / 12

If she doesn't use email/texts as an initial form of introduction...I move right along.

Hence my comments to the OP about getting on a screening service.
 
Posted By: Jamie.Solo
This also works. Though I have seen some girls' screening form requires real full name. I only require it if your not on p411, DC, or rs2k I even take TER whitelists.  
   
 Do you have provider references? Those help!  
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Read at least 10 pages worth of posts...learn how this game is played.  
     
  And certainly STOP giving up your personal info...that is simply NOT necessary.  If a gal insists on it...move on to the next one.  
     
  Join a screening service such as P411 or Date-Check and you can forever eliminate giving up your real name.  RS2K won't be of help as they require as part of the screening the name you signed up with.  So unless you want to use some other name...skip RS.  
     
  Honestly, most gals don't do the google check all that thoroughly.  But if indeed your name comes up with the sex offender...hard to explain to anyone here who might be trying to screen you out.  So avoid that and use P411 (or DC)...problem is solved.  And don't tell anyone you see that your name is the same as Johnnie Sex-Offender...no real upside there  LOL  
     
Posted By: bobafouts
Hi, I'm fairly inexperienced at the escort game.  Lately, I've had some no-shows...we schedule for incall, but then the provider doesn't contact me at the appointed time.      
       
   I just found out that when I google my name, I can find myself, but I also find a registered sexual offender in the same metro area (same first/last name, different middle initial).  I'm worried that this might be an inhibiting factor.      
       
   Any advice you folks could share with me would be appreciated.  Thanks!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 400 reads
posted
11 / 12

Same way here, though I have one. I also have two emails flat out for guys who want to email me directly vs. using the form. It's just a cutsie thing to have on a contact page lol.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 347 reads
posted
12 / 12
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