Question, for those providers who have wishlist items on their website, some of which cost a pretty penny.  Are these items just given at random, in addition to, or a supplement to the payment of said session?  For example, if I wanted to see a provider who charged $1000 per hour, and I bought her a item off her wishlist that cost $300, would that suffice to bring the remainder of the 1k?

That's their wish list, not their barter list!

Many gentlemen love to bring gifts to the object of their affection du jour. Those same men often tip as well. They're wonderful, and we're lucky! No- it is not acceptable to bring a gift and deduct it from her rate.

I mean really do you have a bunch of made in China knock offs you want to use to screw these poor girls over with?

Ur reasoning defies the definition of the word "gift"

No bro, even I wouldn't go there unless you wanted a high heel in the groin. LOL  

If I bought you that Ms. Julia, you're MINE, lol

No to my understanding a wishlist is something that if you wanted to give her a gift in ADDITION to her donation then you have that option. My wishlist is really simple I don't need all these fancy things to make me look classy. I personally can purchase my own lingerie and shoes. If the gent chooses to bring it that's on him anything other than that is a bit much for me. In my humble opinion. Also I don't want anyone getting me something so lavish and thinking I owe them something. Every time i get a gift I'm actually surprised it's really nice.  Had a regular bring me bags upon bags of dog food for my non profit organization that was more valuable to me than $600 shoes I could purchase myself. I believe in giving, life isn't worth living if I'm only living for myself.

I'd also be afraid to drive it anywhere.  What if some moron wanted to park next to it?  And put a ding in it?

Maybe some guy would give her that title along with the $ 500k in debt?  Sounds like a winner for the guy.

Who are YOU to say whether it is acceptable or not?  

Posted By: SoftlySarah

Many gentlemen love to bring gifts to the object of their affection du jour. Those same men often tip as well. They're wonderful, and we're lucky! No- it is not acceptable to bring a gift and deduct it from her rate.

Keep the rest of it and buy yourself something nice.

Before we go any further, I must put out this disclaimer.  This post was not meant as a troll, nor was it meant to offend anyone.  I came about asking this question because I ran across a providers ad on another website, which led me to her personal website, which led me to her wishlist page.  Her donations were $500, and one item I ran across was a Michael Kors bag priced at $100.  So that got me to thinking, so i thought I would ask.  In my opinion learning never stops occurring and just when you think you know it all, you forfeit the ability to learn more. Thank you Ts Sasha and Roxanne and anyone else who responded my inquiries.

I would be much more apt to be generous with someone like you than the entitled providers begging for gifts.

Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC

No to my understanding a wishlist is something that if you wanted to give her a gift in ADDITION to her donation then you have that option. My wishlist is really simple I don't need all these fancy things to make me look classy. I personally can purchase my own lingerie and shoes. If the gent chooses to bring it that's on him anything other than that is a bit much for me. In my humble opinion. Also I don't want anyone getting me something so lavish and thinking I owe them something. Every time i get a gift I'm actually surprised it's really nice.  Had a regular bring me bags upon bags of dog food for my non profit organization that was more valuable to me than $600 shoes I could purchase myself. I believe in giving, life isn't worth living if I'm only living for myself.  

Beautiful answer Rox!  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RPoBE-E8VOc

and counting it towards her total and let me know how that works out for you.

Posted By: bbfs4ever

Who are YOU to say whether it is acceptable or not?    
   
 Aren't you another one of the whiners on Twitter?  No wonder you're here trying to speak about injustices.  
   

Posted By: SoftlySarah

Many gentlemen love to bring gifts to the object of their affection du jour. Those same men often tip as well. They're wonderful, and we're lucky! No- it is not acceptable to bring a gift and deduct it from her rate.

You must really be getting laid more than usual this time of year, just as you claimed. You are definitely in an unusually (scarily) beneficent mood.  

but, I can't see it.  

It is certainly better to ask than assume. Thanks for asking