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Don't worry. NOT another "fell in love with my hooker" thread.
some-guy 6 Reviews 1247 reads
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t here's the situation.

Got me a sugar baby. At the bargain basement cost of $500 every time I meet her. Which is about 3 times per month.

On the other hand, I got the regular provider. $500 per HOUR.

The sex I get from Sugar Baby is mind-blowing. Just like the sex with provider is mind-blowing. My SB is hot. Just like my regular provider. At this rate, I am getting everything I could ever ask for out of Sugar Baby. Plus we have an actual friendship.

The more I am with my SB, the more I realize that it is the kind of deal that I wish I had with the provider.Would it make any sense at all whatsoever to ask regular provider if we can re-negotiate our terms? I don't want to lose my regular. But at this rate, it is making less sense financially, compared what I am getting with the SB. Is it time to cut her loose?

My temporary solution to this problem was to schedule a 3some with my SB and my provider. I feel like it is the only thing that will work out for all parties involved. :-) The only way I can clear my head and make these kinds of really tough and life-changing decisions. My happiness hangs in the balance after all

Lady_Rose491 reads

Popcorn, now would be the time...I feel this just might get really good :)

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Fancy8888423 reads

Sex workers going to blow your mind and get paid.Enjoy 3 some :)

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sasha2cute355 reads

dont get greedy. Introducing them to each other may backfire on you. And then you won't have neither one. Enjoy what you have now

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mrfisher309 reads

There is an unacknowledged benefit you are getting from the provider which is:  lack of baggage.

I hope it doesn't happen, but your SB relationship could end up the more expensive and heart wrenching experience by far.

"No strings attached" is more than just a saying.  It is like Star Treks "Prime Directive".  Meant to protect those you meet as much as yourself.

Give that some thought, and keep those worlds separate

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Cardinal_Richelieu284 reads

As i have posted on TER before, the SB route is fraught with danger.  It can slide into some kind of fantasy romance.  Then you've got problems. Been there, done that.

The hooker route is the way to go.   The lines are clearly drawn with a TER girl.

Some of the ladies here offer something called a "non-exclusive SB arrangement."  Maybe that would work for you.

Cheers,

His Eminenc

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JackDunphy304 reads

Be straight up, work out some sort of win/win scenario for you and your reg and enjoy the benefits of having enough balls to ask for what you want.

Special arrangements are worked out every single day in p4p so why not for you?

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GaGambler273 reads

It's true, Check out the Chicago Board a few months ago and he was doing exactly back.

You've got your work cut out for you this time.

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JackDunphy227 reads

I really wonder sometimes.  

Just when you think you hit rock bottom with some of these mathematical geniuses, a new one appears on the scene and crashes into the ocean floor.

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some-guy244 reads

I give the lady what I believe the market bears out.  

And if I need to pay significantly more than a lady's advertised rate in order to get similar quality elsewhere, then I might overpay on occasion -- or rather "tip generously." This has the added benefit of helping her to be lower-volume during our days together. Either way, it is a matter of me preferring to pay closer to what I believe to be the lady's fair market value to be.

But enough of the semantics. The reality is that the economies have now changed. Flipped actually. And in order to get similar quality, I am NOW in a position where I don't need to pay nearly as much. Market value has changed. So, just as in the previous situation, I am posing the question of adjusting the pay to reflect true market value. Or at least to be closer to it.

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JackDunphy244 reads

One can not pay the "what the market will bare" AND "pay significantly more than the advertised rate." That is a non sequitur extraordinaire. The two statements are diametrically opposed.

And you have no idea if it helps her being "lower volume" so you can stop that nonsense too. Maybe she fks 9 other guys that day. Maybe zero. You have no way of knowing

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some-guy206 reads

One cannot simultaneously pay fair market value AND significantly overpay.

That is the foundation behind this thread.

Question is what to do about it, if anything?

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