So lately I have been seriously considering inducing lactation. I'm young and have never had children, but it's something a partner has expressed interest in, and my curiosity is growing.

I guess my question is: would you have a problem seeing a provider who lactates? My initial thinking is that it wouldn't negatively effect my business. I think more people would be neutral or possibly even turned on by it.

Ultimately I'm going to make the right choice for me and my body, but I wanted to hear some people sound off about it.

bust in the mouth to really know...
I'd  probably see you at least once ...

 

You didn't ask, but ...  

1. Understand the pros and cons. Inducing the production of breast milk is a huge undertaking, so the pros and cons should be carefully weighed before any final decisions are made.

Pros: [mostly pertain to infant nutrition and does not apply to you]
Cons: The major drawbacks of induced lactation mainly involve the time and effort required to be successful. Stimulating the production of milk requires huge dedication and commitment, as breast pumping and stimulation needs to be performed 6 to 12 times a day, including night-time sessions which involve waking up in the early a.m. This process can be painful and uncomfortable on your breasts, and if you're using hormone therapies, you may experience mood swings and disruptions to your menstrual cycle.

2. Prepare for the changes that will take place in your body. Before you begin the process of inducing lactation, it's important to be aware of what will happen to your body, and the possible side effects. (Possible weight gain, menstrual changes, etc.)On your specific Q, I think it could throw off some guys. Many are accustomed to handling things in a particular way (with their hands, with their mouth). To suddenly get a spritz of warm liquid when none is expected could come as a HUGE surprise, and not always in a good way. Some guys like to suckle at a dry teet and watch it grow. I have no idea how lactation affects that. (Anybody?)  

Personally, when I was young (neonate), I'm pretty sure that I loved it! As an adult, I didn't like it all (taste, texture, context (sex versus food)).  It would not appeal to me and might turn me off (if I was hoping for other kinds of "regular" play).  OTOH, I knew someone who fathered a child out of wedlock, sucked the mother dry all day long leaving ZERO for the baby who was formula-fed exclusively. After a few months he abandoned the mother and child and went on his own merry way. Quite the creep.

Some guys will associate lactation with motherhood and that could work both ways.  "I want to help her out so she can spend more time with her baby and not have to work 10 hours a day at McD's." or "I'm uncomfortable with this and don't want to put her or her baby at risk. I will not repeat."  

You could also try to moonlight as a wet nurse for a wealthy family. Except that with modern medicine, wet nursing is pretty much a thing of the past in developed nations. (Third world is something different.)  

To me, the biggest negative is the personal medical aspect. Although it can be quite safe, it is also an unnecessary procedure so why mess around with your hormones in a way that might have long term unknown consequences? (Hypocrite speaking: birth control also messes with your hormones but we have 60+ years of clinical evidence on hundreds of millions of women to know what to expect.)

Whatever you choose to do, GOOD LUCK!

I'll always remember one of the first ladies I ever saw...back when big dogge was just a free board. Tessa, a redhead, a new mother, implants and lactating. Truly delightful to have her ride me while I nursed. Sweet mother's milk. What a kink.  

Worth a premium.

Thanks for this detailed examination!

I think that, when inducing lactation, milk production occurs in lower volumes at first. The more you do it, the more you produce. So I could see myself finding a balance that would make it so I wouldn't have to constantly be pumping.

I need to do more research on the hormonal side effects. I already have some hormone issues (pcos and an IUD) so I'm not sure of the effects. The increased progestin could actually be just what I need!

Just a dab will do ya! Haha

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and make me very much want to see you.

I read somewhere that ingesting large amounts of nutmeg can induce lactation.  Perhaps this is safer and more comfortable than the hormone method.  

... I think I'd be hovering somewhere close to neutral on this little extra, but I'd be open to giving it a try to see if it turned me on (provided you don't call me back in a few months to change diapers lol)

analysis.  I learned a few things I didn't know, and I have been around . . . . some would say I've been around too much.  For me, I think the biggest negatives that MIGHT put me off seeing a lactating girl would be potential weight gain, and mood swings from the hormonal changes.  For me, its not a fetish of mine, so it would not matter one way or the other in a positive way.  If a girl was a single mother hooking to take care of herself and her baby, as long as the baby wasn't in the room when we were fucking, it would not matter if she was lactating or not.  

The only point you made that I disagree with is not doing it because its an unnecessary procedure.  Paying for sex is an unnecessary procedure for me, but I do it anyway.  Even being long-acquainted with the negative consequences, I still do it.  Go figure.  

Large amounts of nutmeg also cause hallucinations (not necessarily the good kind) -- maybe there is a moderate dose that works but I would be careful with this approach. One thing not mentioned in this thread is whether the practice of taking milk is safe -- I would think STDs can be passed on this way, no?

I've also heard that too much nutmeg is poisonous. There are other herbal methods that work!

Haha! It is really something I'm thinking about for my personal sex life, but the effects would obviously trickle over to my work (pun intended).

Yeah I'm not getting pregnant for a LONG time.

Yes this is correct!! However, I'm not sure how unsafe it is. Will do research.  

On a similar note, there is risk in many other activities people partake in without batting an eye (cim, bbbj, daty). However I'm not sure how those fluids compare to breast milk in transmission of STIs.  

Also medications someone is taking can be passed (or illicit drugs for that matter).

I guess like anything, modifying the risk is important. Exposure of milk on skin, as long as there are no open wounds, is probably extremely safe. Maybe less so if in mouth (especially if the person just brushed/flossed), and the most with genitals.

I don't think it would cause you to lose business as I would guess that guys are either turned on by it or are at least curious enough to try it once. Would I see a lactating provider or a gal in RL that has that going on? I guess, maybe? I wouldn't rule it out as it depends on the person. Pregnant women turn me on, so who knows. lol.

I think you should do what you want and not do something because someone else thinks it is a good idea. I would assume it could cause you possible issues medically. "Possible". It is not something I'd want to do myself.  

Question is, are you able to stop at anytime if you change your mind without risks? Research it thoroughly and talk to a Doctor about it so you know what the positives and minuses are to doing this.  

Either way, good luck.

I've been with some young mothers but I only found out in the moment. E.g., "Interesting tattoo. Who's A.B.?" "That's my baby boy!" kind of stuff. With the ladies I'm thinking of, I felt fine about it. I knew I was helping out with Christmas presents or other things that they were trying to provide for their kids. (There was no evidence of lactation with any of them, at least none that I can recall.)There are no long term negative health effects from sex, paid or free, if you do it right! Some testosterone fluctuations, maybe, but within normal ranges. And, maybe you'll also have an improved outlook on life and a small cardiovascular benefit. It's not the same as disrupting your normal hormones with hormone supplements or physical measures known to change the levels of particular hormones. Weight lifting and exercise alters our hormones, but most studies point to a huge benefit. Natural childbirth changes hormones the way they are supposed to change for the benefit of mother and child.  

Q. Do you know how to make a hormone?  
A. Stroke long and deep.

Wet nursing by childless women has been around for centuries. The OP just has to go about it in a healthful way with, I hope, real medical advice and not advice from a bunch of thirsty horn-dogs!

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No! In addition to hallucinations, relatively small amounts (2-3 teaspoons) can send you to the hospital.

I love ladies that are lactating. If you do it i will see you when I am in boston

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Kind of a medical - nutrition question. Some women produce milky-milk (white, thick) and some women produce more watery, thin pale white milk. Is that a hormone thing or strictly a nutrition thing? Or is it that the first few drops are watery (like pre-cum) and then the thick milk flows?  

I may be ignorant but I'm also curious.

Thanks for any reliable answers.

ABDL (adult baby diaper lover) is a whole other thing. But some who are into that particular kink would probably love a lactating provider!

And changing poop-filled diapers of adult men?

Yes, I'm being judgmental...because some things are too bizarre, even for me.

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When I was 25 I was at the Sapphires strip club in Vegas for a buddy's bachelor party, and the girl that gave me a lapdance rubbed her breasts on my shirt (it was one of those satiny sort of nightclub styles) and a dribble or two came out.  She seemed mortified and really embarrassed, but I was for some reason very turned on by it.  Since that day I always thought it'd be hot as hell to be with a woman who was lactating, but it hasn't happened since.

but comparing lactation to scat isn't a fair comparison

Are 3 separate kinks. Sure they are probably used in conjunction alot but stay on topic.  She asked about lactating,to mention some other kink that she didn't express interest in is kind of pointless.  

I don't understand people in this lifestyle that judge. Why when I am sure we get judged for what we do already?
What maybe your kink is not mine but why judge or make fun?  I don't have to understand it or agree bit learn something that you didn't know before. That is why I' love the fetish world...it taught me to stop being so judgemental towards other kinks even if I didn't understand them or like them.  
 As long as it doesn't hirt kids or animals ans consent is involved..I could care less what 2 grown ass adults do behind closed doors..

I think she'll do quite well from the thread. Have a great Monday!
Stay kinky

I sincerely apologize if I offended anyone with my opinions.  

Hobbyists and providers, have fun doing your 'thing' (whatever it is).

Oh Lord!  Lol!  Ok...I'm going back to my judgement-free zone.  Wouldn't want someone to poop their pampers.

Most of us here think bigger is better! I'd say chances are 50/50 that I would accidentally 'discover' or cause any leakage if you didn't mention it...

I picked up this little tica spinner with the fullest nicest tata's. During conversation she did mention she had had a "bambino" not long before, but I didn't think much of it as she had no "mommy belly" or any other outward (or inward) sign of having had a kid. That is until she got on top of me and started riding me cowgirl. I reached up and squeezed her breasts and was rewarded with a face full of "leche" jaja. It was fucking great, I had never had a "lactating fetish", but by the time we were done I will literally soaked in a combination of pussy juice and "mommy milk".  

I guess the maids weren't happy having to clean up such a mess, but I had a fantastic time.

As an adult after my kids were born.  They were twins and never able to latch on properly and get nutrition so we ended up feeding them with pumped milk and supplemented with formula.  One day in the shower with the wife, she leaked a bit, so I licked it off her and then with an invitation to taste, I latched on to her myself and drained her dry.  She was practically brought to orgasm by it and even though it was really sweet, it wasnt half bad.  A little finger action and she was cumming all over that shower.  Rinsing off we retired to the bed where we had our first post partum romp in the hay while the boys napped.  Altogether satisfyiing

Thanks girl!