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Wife vs Provider
Zangari 218 reads
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Posted By: London Rayne
I know a lot of women in this business who truly do get some affirmation because they fk other women's husbands, but I am not one of them. I would never want to throw that shit in another woman's face, because I am certainly not better than her just because her husband pays me.
A lot depends on a provider's discretion, & it's always dangerous to assume things about someone else's marriage. I'm glad you're mature enough to protect a client if his SO ever called you.  I'm not so sure about my 20 year old SB.   Like most men, I've never made the connection between sex & love.  My S0 has health problems, & I'm not going to abandon her just because she's no longer a hot college girl.  I can pay a 20 year old siren to fuck me.

 Sex is one thing, love is another & most providers understand this.  I'm sure you enjoy sex with your favorite client even though you don't love him.  I'm guessing he's a gentleman & you have affection for him.  But it's not love, and it doesn't have to be love for you two to enjoy your time together.  regards,  --z


I know a lot of women in this business who truly do get some affirmation because they fk other women's husbands, but I am not one of them. I would never want to throw that shit in another woman's face, because I am certainly not better than her just because her husband pays me. I believe some women assume they are at times lol, and it's naive. Half of these wives look better and probably fk just as good as many of us...yea, I have seen photos of many for some odd reason!

I know we have all had to deal with a wife or GF contacting us, so I wonder how many providers are outright rude even if the mate calls you a whore?  Do you tell them stupid shit like, "Well, if you were taking care of your man, he would not be seeing hookers?" I don't know about anyone else, but I feel sad and guilty when a mate contacts me, especially when they say things like they are 4 months pregnant, or have cancer! Talk about a fkin reality check!  I do the opposite of what most would expect from me because of my board persona, and reassure them that it was probably just spam or his email got hacked. This seems to be the best defense, because it happens rather often...spam, I mean.

I have known ladies to flat out tell the wife, that they were bad women who are not taking care of their man, they are probably a fat ass, he is tired of her, etc. Does anyone really get off on being that cruel when someone just found out she was living a lie? I'm a bitch yes...but, not heartless.

I don't understand why anyone goes out of their way to be unpleasant to someone they don't know and hasn't done them any harm. But a lot of people really SUCK (not in the good way).

by a married woman how much her dress costed.   Her reply was that the woman should ask her husband since he had bought it for her.

Zing!

I guess things have improved since then, and yes, there is never any need for disrespect or bad manners.

Zangari219 reads

Posted By: London Rayne
I know a lot of women in this business who truly do get some affirmation because they fk other women's husbands, but I am not one of them. I would never want to throw that shit in another woman's face, because I am certainly not better than her just because her husband pays me.
A lot depends on a provider's discretion, & it's always dangerous to assume things about someone else's marriage. I'm glad you're mature enough to protect a client if his SO ever called you.  I'm not so sure about my 20 year old SB.   Like most men, I've never made the connection between sex & love.  My S0 has health problems, & I'm not going to abandon her just because she's no longer a hot college girl.  I can pay a 20 year old siren to fuck me.

 Sex is one thing, love is another & most providers understand this.  I'm sure you enjoy sex with your favorite client even though you don't love him.  I'm guessing he's a gentleman & you have affection for him.  But it's not love, and it doesn't have to be love for you two to enjoy your time together.  regards,  --z


makes things worse for the husband, though I do have empathy for all parties concerned. I am not exactly getting a permission slip or a confirmation that the guys I fk are in open relationships, so it does tend to hit hard when a wife sends a damn 8 paragraph email telling me what a whore I am, and how ashamed I should be because they have 2 little babies. Normally, I would blast off if someone said that here, but it seems to be different coming from the other side. The last thing I want to do is make another woman feel like this is her fault, and it's certainly JUST sex.

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Completely on the money here.  Well written.

Just makes me want to meet you even more, which, from reading your posts, I know would never work out, as I happen to be "well endowed" - although I'm not a huge guy otherwise...

The downsides of the hobby, haha...

I have never been contacted.  I would never be rude.  I agree with everything you say and I know that why many people choose a provider over a mate has nothing to do with one being better than the other...I actually feel sorry for all the parties involved in the triangle, including the client who comes to see me and I certainly don't involve myself in the business of why...it can often be very disheartening to hear about anyway as some of the scenarios mentioned in this thread illustrate.

I like your approach.  I think I would just ignore the email.

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