and say she's had trouble contacting references in the past and started asking for more. I don't think it's inappropriate to reply "why so many?" if you are curious.

...taken down their sites. Also, I had a gent send me two references of ladies I knew wouldn't give me a reference or I had no interest in asking them for their help. And I've had gents send me two references of ladies I simply felt weren't acceptable as references. And the list goes on...

I've found it's a lot easier to ask for two additional references than explain why the initial two are of no use to me. The few times I tried to explain why I wouldn't accept a gent’s references only resulted in the gent trying to argue with me. It's a lot less confrontational to just ask for additional references. At least that's my personal experience. I'm sure there are other feasible answers as to why she might be asking for two new references in her email. Perhaps she forgot to update her site with her new screening requirements.

IDK.

Good luck!

When making first contact I usually provide two references and never mention anything other than I would like to see her sometime..If your original contact had anything written that you wouldn't say to a civvy before your first date,perhaps warning bells went off in her head.
Always save the sex talk or sudued references, until its actually in progress.

She probably saw you and Marikod fighting on P&R

And decided to raise the bar a couple of notches for you.

other boards, I'm sure you are always short a couple!!!  ROFL!!!!!

I consider the 'ask a stranger who claims to be an escort' or even a proven lady... as a totally ridiculous, unreliable, not to mention WILDLY and offensively indiscrete verification method.

Find a lady who has some life and people saavy.
IMHO

*and your being annoyed is justified ...