I was with a provider a couple of days ago and toward the end of the session we took a tour of Greece.
When the session was over, she asked me if I wrote reviews (which I do) and then politely told me if I wanted to continue to visit the Greek Isles (which I did) that I could not mention my travels with her in my review.
In this instance I want to see the lady again and don't want my flights restricted. So, I complied.
However, I had never had a provider ask me to limit what I wrote in a review.
Any of you guys had similar experiences and what was your response?
I think the lady's request should be honored. You are dealing with a real person, not a sex doll. By the way, I suspect that your posting of this message may indirectly "out" her if someone is determined to find out who she is -- by simply reading your recent review(s). It would have been better to state the question more categorically.
since I don't plan to post a review.
As a provider, I feel that individual travels may vary depending on everything from the surroundings to the clients personality traits. When some thing is mentioned in a review many men treat it as a fact of matter and have expectations. Of course every review should be read in the vain of Adult Entertainment only and we all know that many events described are totally fictitious and are not based on actual events…..-however,
Expectations can be formed due to descriptive details of specific travels.(*In this case to error in the side of caution I would suggest you comply with a providers request*)
Just my thoughts….. ~T
(*sorry to chime in, I realize you asked guys…. And it wasn’t my review, but I thought some reasoning could help shed some light*)
It is not entirely rare for a lady to go beyond her typical service offerings with a particular client. This can come in the form of the more simple, e.g. DFK from a known non-kisser, to the more exotic like anal or CIM. There can be a host of reasons why and at the end of the day the why should not matter.
I would absolutely honor her request. Respect, first for her and yes even respect for your fellow hobbyists come into play. If she gave me something special then I'm most appreciative and grateful for such a gesture. As far as reviews, I believe it is important to present the session in a manner that represents what others can reasonably expect to receive if they too choose to see the lady.
We all know that 'YMMV' is a constant variable in the hobby. If she is making it clear that your variance is special and does not wish it to be described in reviews then honor her wishes. It is respectful to her and more helpful to your fellow hobbyists to refrain from sharing these details.
if a provider asked you to say that you got certain services that she did not perform. That would be misleading future clients.
In this case, the provider decided she liked you enough to provider extra service but if you were to put that in a review, she could become besieged with requests for that which she may not want to perform.
Therefore, not mentioning it is the correct way to go. It saves her and potential clients a lot of grief.
the question was ...
Have you been put in this situation and if so, what did you do?
Yes I have and on more than one occasion. I honored the requests as I suggested to you in my reply and for the reasons I cited...
In fact I would ask her if she wanted it included even if she didn't bring it up. Some things are meant for YMMV.
I'll keep it simple and just echo mrfisher and others ... yes I have, and no I didn't.
I do think that there is a message in this thread.
...and will ask you not to mention it for fear that everyone who sees her will then demand the same treatment. Of course, if a lady has been especially nice to you, a gentleman would see to it that she was not penalized for her kindness.
A good rule of thumb is to compare your actual experience with the information provided in her profile and in her reviews. If your actual experience provides you with services that her profile indicates are not offered, then err on the side of caution and refrain from mentioning it in your review - and take it as a compliment that you received it as well.
Ladies often prefer prefer to reserve some activities, such as CIM and trips to Greece as ostensibly 'off limits' because that saves us awkward questions and potentially hurt feelings if we choose not to offer them to a particular gentleman. At the same time, it allows us to have control over when and with whome we engage in those activities.
In essence, respect her wishes and refrain from mentioning it.
She is offering something to YOU that she doesnt want the masses to expect and want nor is the willing to offer ....consider yourself LUCKY AND TAKE SOME TIME TO REVEL IN YOUR SPECIALNESS.
xo L
or man will short stack? Keep your eye on the prize dildo and keep it zipped.
This similar thing happened to me once. There was a very well reviewed FBSM provider here who charged a lot for a massage because she was hot, provided good service, and was really busy. I decided to make an appointment for a massage, and when i arrived, so said she did full service also for some extra $$. I agreed and had an AMAZING session...with BBBJ and everything. Before I left, she asked me to post a review but to exclude the full service part. I am sure if everyone knew about this menu item, lines would form around the block. I think eventually word got out and she requested TER to not allow any reviews on her. Lemme tell you, she still advertises massage on popular boards, but she definitely doesn't want to do full service all day. She is smart, but a little lazy I think. She is in Los Angeles. If you want to know who it is, PM me.
He asked if he could review me, I said yes, but I don't offer greek to everyone so please avoid mention of it in the review.
He sent me a copy of the review to be corrected grammatically, he says. In it, a paragraph on how great my greek is LOL. I asked to please at least put a YMMV at the end of this paragraph.
He removed the paragraph and lowered my score to an 8 ROFL.
Serves me right to be so nice as to offer greek to this guy 
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You did the right thing - any client who does not follow such a request is probably just a "my dick is bigger than yours" kind of guy - who needs that shit? Certainly, the ladies do not.
Those types of reviewers who cannot honor a ladies request along with the White Knights who constantly suck up to "save" their maiden's honor make me want to vomit.
Once word gets out that greek is on her menu she'll have anal humpers calling 24x7. Obviously this isn't something that she wants to happen.
Greek is something she offers on a select basis, and you made the cut. So don't bite the hand that feeds you, otherwise you might find that greek becomes off the menu all together!
This is not surprisring. If the service is noted in a review it become de facto Advertising and guys will expect it. If the lady isn't willing, then some guys react negatively. Some ladies will adamantly refuse, but then change their minds for a specific Client. It has happened to me on more than one occassion.
I've had similar things happen before, and I've always complied with the lady's request. I won't go so far as to lie in a review, but if she's done something special for me, I don't presume that it will apply for everyone else, either. For example, if a lady decided she was having such a good time that she wanted to extend my session for another hour at no extra charge, I wouldn't post her hourly rate claiming it was also good for a two-hour engagement.
I prefer to think of the questions in the description section as "Is this service available for most customers?" If a guy comes in with a 16-inch long tallywhacker that's as thick as the lady's arm, I'm pretty sure that even a lady who regularly offers Greek services to clients will decide that it's off the menu for that guy. Selecting "Don't Know" is often the best choice; letting her know that you intend to write a review and asking if there is anything to be kept private between you is just being polite.
You've also got to be honest, though. It's OK to gloss over details, as long as the general picture is accurate; I don't need to know if she'll drip your come out of her mouth into a glass, for example. If she only allows two minutes of penetration, that's important; if she isn't able to put her legs behind her head, that's not important. If she insists that any penis outside clothing must be wrapped in latex within 10 seconds, that's important; if she has a favorite brand of condom and lube, that's not so important.
