according to this.  
You know I like the worse kind of posters, I like the bad guys that come around here.  
I like or don't care about songs or writings like this. I kind of enjoy them.  
So I don't know how you will see it, maybe laugh about it. Maybe feel a little bit proud about it or complete disagree.  
I also want to know what the women think.  

I may be way wrong, but I'd bet that the majority of hobbyists who have been sex worker clients going on multiple years and/or decades are probably some of the least misogynist dudes on the planet.  I'd say that generally speaking: 1) we like women 2) we like having sex with multiple partners 3) we've generally come to realize that one way or the other we're paying for sex anyway so it's no big deal.  In Woody Allen's 1991 movie "Shadows and Fog", Allen as the main character hides out for a while in a brothel, where he's coaxed into a session with one of the prostitutes (played by Jody Foster).  Allen is protesting on the way to BCD that he's never paid for sex in his whole life, to which Foster replies "you just think you haven't".  I think that's the turning point for the true hobbyist, where he makes that realization about paying for it.  The review boards were born of that realization as a place where the hobbyist can exchange info with like minded individuals, and yeah, sometimes the truth can hurt the livelihood of a working girl, but it can also make her respected and sought after.  Like the guy in the Vice article says:  "As for the addiction part, that's all bullshit. Being attracted to beautiful women is normal male behavior."  Sure, there are some not so good people on review boards, but tell me what group of anything anywhere is all good and righteous.

I prefer to "subjectify" them.  I want to be a participant, not an observer.  

And I don't think that he's representative of most "hobbyists." However, there are certainly a lot of incels dominating the discussion boards these days, especially on the Minnesota board. It's become a sausage fest, so all my interactions with the ladies are now on Twitter.

I certainly agree that some may feel so and if such is the case while finding yourself sensitive to it, then you need to find something else to do with your life, this is no place for the thin skinned.  Further I am incensed that some find themselves forced into a form of this life whether thru no fault of their own or not,,it is horrifying to me.   But I do not feel objectifued ot taken advantage of in any way and I never have.  
i like what I do and in the over 20 years that I have been  involved I have never felt subjected to abuse directly or indirectly.  Are there hateful misogynist out there surely there are, they never get past a phone call with me, i have always been frank, open and brutally honest with myself and others, I take no sh.. I start no sh.., it works for me.
I am happy that men are interested in me, not because I have issues with self esteem but because I like and enjoy men.  A graceful gracious strong confident man with self determination no matter the looks age or socio economic status just excites me and i am on him like a hound dog on a pork chop.  I DO love to fuck and suck cock, I DO enjoy being submissive and played like a fiddle in a Texas band., make me beg and make me beg for more.  Call me a slut call me a whore call me a cocksucker......i don't care,  it even turns me on, but what I always love to hear is SUZZEEEEE OMG I AM CUMMING AGAIN.  I am who I am and I like me just fine.  Objectification?  Hell no,,but if so do it one more time and use me like you own me, please
Suzee

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If my goal is to have sex without getting otherwise involved with someone, why should it matter if that is considered "objectifying?"  They can either accept my cash or not.  I'm not forcing anything on anyone.  Fuck outsider's judgements about what I want or why I want it.  I don't need to justify it to the world, I only need to find someone willing.  Everybody else can fuck off.