Who claim they are "in shape", "athletic", "great looking",
between 21 and 30 are never remotely close to what they say they are.  On more than one occaision I have left a provider or turned her away rather than put up with the bait and switch.  I will never become so desperate that I can't walk away, and will, if faced with something other than what was advertised.  Ladies, be accurate.  Some of us aren't chubby chasers.  Some of us (probably most of us!) would like you to be accurate about your age, your weight, you appearance, etc.  Some of these reviews are far too generous as to your appearance and performance.  If your hideous, I'm sorry, you are.  If your fat, I'm sorry, you are. I, like many others, like to get what we pay for and won't pay for it if it is not as advertised.  Some men like me see this as a cheaper alternative than community property, especially if we have already have 1 divorce behind us.

since you should have done your research.

Any well reviewed provider will have pictures.  Her profile and
reviews will say whether her pics are accurate.  Her profile
and reviews will also describe her performance.  End of story.

fr

PS  Are you going to providers with out pictures?

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I concur with you.  No pictures = no visit/no call.  With the PSE's that I have visited, some of them have been mischaracterized as to how they appear and I have done the same thing, walked away.  The appearance must be there to justify the fee.  The performanc to merit a good review. I am sure there are other hobbyists such as myself who instantly know the photo is either very old or a complete misrepresentation of whom we intended to see.

upfront you won't book with them.  No bookings means no business (no brainer!).

More prevelant than a bait and switch is the practice of using glamour shots and/or dated pics. Even though the pics are "real" they are not an accurate representation.  I've encountered providers with tattoos and piercings that weren't in their pics, some were taken 25 pounds ago, etc..

There are a lot of ladies with great shots taken by a professional photographer where they are all decked out in lingerie and looking hot and sexy. Then when you show up they are in ragged jeans and a sweatshirt.  

One person's hideous is not another.

Some people may "inflate" reviews.  I have been accused of doing it.  However, it could be that they simply saw the person that way, or they got better performance than you did.  Given your statement that I quoted, you certainly aren't looking to win a popularity contest here, so YMMV might definitely apply to you.  I know several ladies who respond quite nicely when they are treated nicely, and hideous had many faces.

Having said that, if you do your homework and see a provider who has numerous reviews, you should be able to get an honest enough idea of how she/things will be, even if there are a few inflated scores in there.  If not, and you see ones with few reviews, you're on your own, brudda.

The best advice was offered several weeks ago.  Read the reviews rather than just look at the numbers.  Most guys research multiple reviews (at least 3) to make an informed decision.

Yes there are some bait & switches out there. Yes there are some inaccurate ages listed out there. Yes glamour shots are popular and don't often properly represent the lady. In fairness to the ladies though many "supermodels" have their photos touched up.

   Be thankful that our popular, well reviewed providers although compleatly human and therefore flawed strive to fullfill our fantasies where as civvi women are dedicated to giving us only misery.

  Cm.

I agree with the general premise of some of your post. Accurate pictures are a must. I like the glam shots as much as the next guy, but I also like to see just the everyday ones too.

But this has me lost. "The appearance must be there to justify the fee."

You're right that appearance has alot to do with most mens' decision making here. Pictures are often the first(and alot of times, the only thing) a guy will look at on a girl's site. But if you're basing everything on just appearance you're going to be let down with the evening alot more times than you will enjoy it.

My opinion (and we all know what opinions are like) is that there's alot more to making a good choice then just hair color, silicone or saline, and how good you think she'll look sucking your ............

This isn't the dating game, and I don't expect it to be, but the most enjoyable evenings have always been the ones where I've done more than just toss some dough in an envelope. You get out what you put in.  


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you guys shock me!   Most rates in an area are say $300, yet Jane Doe is charging 150-200 HELLO? Anyone home?  She is at best, gonna jack you for tips at worst, not even be close to the pics or description.

IMHO it serves a tightwad right-dont hate me because I am honest I hear more truth from men than the revs and boards will ever know.  Do some research, don't try to save a few bucks.  It only hurts worse in the long run and the worst ladies make the most money with some guys' get it cheap mindset.

Well, willful, I can assure you that at least THIS 21-30 year old is honest about her appearance.  My most recent pictures are on Cityvibe in the VIP section and the two on the left were taken only 2 weeks ago! It is a bummer when girls aren't honest about their appearance, but picture ads usually show whether they are fudging a bit unless they appear photo-shopped!