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What do some of you guys do to help ease the tension at the first meeting with a new lady? A little gift?, a little time spent with conversation?, jokes?, come on give it up and share with the rest of us.

Ladies, what can we guys do at that first meeting to put you more at ease (I know you're probably just as apprehensive as I am the first time)?

Personally, I like flowers just to let her know that I don't have just a pay to play attitude.

Thanks in advance,
pt

zorro7267 reads

In each of my incall experiences, all with favorably reviewed ladies, and none under $$$, I have been offered a drink, engaged in conversation for an average of 15-20 minutes prior to actually beginning sexual interaction, offered a shower before and afterward and NEVER asked for money upfront.  
All you should do is show up looking presentable and clean, be nice to the provider and be prepared to pay her what was agreed upon prior to the session.

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Gandalf8832 reads

Pt,

Generaly, I'm an individual that perfers o/call.  This enables me to prepare a little snack and some wine or even dinner. (I've got good restaurants near me that have excellent takeout. I'm not a good cook, atleast in the form of food preparation)hehehe  

At that point, I will give her a token, based on our previous phone conversations.  Nothing extravagant, notecards with enevelopes, a set of candles that a friend of mine sells, or I'll burn a custom CD with the music she likes, but something related to her likes that I might of picked up on.  

Generaly I can say that the ice has been pretty much broken, and it becomes more a matter of flood control(NPI). LOL

Hope that helps, happy hunting :-)

G.

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MartinLuther10957 reads

I never thought you were such a romantic!

LM

ps- well yes I did, but now it is confirmed! L

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rockit11498 reads

Well I have to admit, I have never done the CD thing. Of course I am still in 20th century and don't own a CD burner yet. Soon. But I agree with the both of you. Bring something if you can, even a bottle of wine, champagne or candles. I often ask what kind of wine a woman likes. All of these gestures are truly appreciated and quite frankly appropriate. Think of it. A kind word or thoughtful (albeit small) gift is fitting for the ocassion, unless you are looking for the slam bam event. If that is true, regardless of what you bring your true colors will remain opaque for only a few moments. My 2 cents.

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Wandersome8300 reads

Aside from a card or gift, or a seven course meal brought to you by Gandalf (with or without the rings) a person to person talk, which is not always easy with someone you've never met, goes a long way. Show some interest, as you should, in a woman as a person and not just as a "provider".

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g29714 reads

Chocolate is supposed to stimulate the same areas in the brain and release some of the same chemicals as sex which makes it both pleasureable and addictive.

Or is this just an urban legend started by Godiva?

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JP8542 reads

G2,

Now this is a tough question to answer.  If I state the truth then the conscious if not at least subconscious association with lust, love, and chocolate that I work so hard for and hope the ladies have -- may well be dispelled!

But then again a question was asked of the community that I think I might be able to provide a small and slightly less than meaningless answer for.  Hmmmm.  A difficulty for sure.  But when in doubt disclosure is the best policy.  So here it goes, and remember ladies do not read any further than this last word.

Yes the above last word, NOSC!  And FF is that you peaking further down this post?  Hmmm... You bad girl you!  And of course GND you most turn of one of your “Goddess powers” of editing and approval.  Oh well.  Guys I tried.

Now after that visit to digression lane (or more like a sub-lease) to the question at hand.

Actually there are several studies out that show the "seductive" qualities of chocolate such as the fact that chocolate contains Phenyethylamine which has associations in brain chemistry for both love and lust.  Also that chocolate will induce the b-endorphin pathway that is part of the "pleasure processes" of the brain.  So yes the "chemistry" (PI) is such that there are many chemicals in chocolate that are associated with love and lust but alas the beautiful hypothesis of love, lust, and chocolate is ruined by an ugly little fact.

And that fact is that the quantities of the “sex” chemicals are so small in chocolate that to get a signal endorphin path response, the average women would by some estimates have to eat about 7 kilograms of chocolate at a sitting.

Now as to the addictive part, that is a little more interesting.  First, again the chemicals (even the caffeine) that could form an addiction are so small that they do not figure in the addiction physiology.  However the sugar part of Chocolates can have an addictive quality and interesting enough there are a couple studies that tend to show that it is the texture and feel on ones lips and in ones mouth that maybe the component causing the “ chocolate addiction". Actually the texture and feel in my mouth may explain a lot my addiction to DATY!  What did I just type that out loud!!!  Oh no…..

So, that is the facts that I know!  At least my chocolate induced bias of the facts!

Of course this does not change my opinion that chocolate is the food of the Gods and that the Ambrosia stuff was really just the amuse bouche.


--JP

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Felicia FoXX7919 reads

Nicole, I too wish to use JP's "inconsistent" recipe.  Together with you and red vines would be incredible.  Let's have a freezer fest.  Whatever else ... chocolates? Yes!  there is a Parisian Chocolate that I've been recently introduced to...discovered I prefer to Godiva's, it's called
Saldivar, I think...can't quite recall the name(salivate would be close, but not it)the chocolate is so fine that it drips down the throat with such thick sweet liquidy softness.

oops, i've melted off...

ff



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Luscious Laurel11366 reads

Chocolate is in a food group all of its own and is necessary for survival.

Felicia:  Please let me know what the name of that brand of chocolate is when you remember.  I have long sworn by Godiva, although I have enjoyed others (kind of like men).  :-)

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Felicia FoXX7025 reads

Absolutely forthcoming, my dear.  I know how we ladies must SURVIVE, especially in the absence of what is it called?  LOVE ... ah, yes.

xoxo

ff

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Felicia FoXX9492 reads

Ladies, the chocolate in my post above is from Paris, it was a gift, I will inquire about acqusition of same, but the name is Saldivan (if incorrect, it is within one or two letters) .

Very very very fine chocolate, and delicate.  Actually the best I've ever had the pleasure to enjoy.

Although I am not a big chocolate consumer, 'twas a most appreciated gift, indeed, a delicacy.

xoxo

ff




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Chocolate_Explorer10556 reads

FFxx,

Could you be thinking of Salavin?  That is a chocolatier in Paris?

They are located at 9 av de Verdun - 75010 Paris and the telephone number is 01 46 07 59 85.



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Felicia FoXX7335 reads

That is MOST definitely it.  Thank you from myself and on behalf of the other ladies who asked.

xoxo

ff

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LusciousLaurel8243 reads

And thank you, FF, for widening our chocolate horizons.

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