Post up a link of her and we will play the rating game.
I'm new to the site, actually joined just to read my fiance's reviews! She's got all 9's and 10's, my first thought was, that's right fuckers, and now she's all mine!!! But then, I thiught, wait, she made ALL those guys think they were in love..by the way, did I mention I was rich? ( don't worry, she signed the pre nup) WTF? We have a great time together, can lay in bed all day watching movies and fucking..Has anyone married their escort? And how did it turn out? signed...Addicted To Her...
Something tells me a scoed sob story will be included as well.
Feed that troll kids, knock yourselves out.
dont really understand your reponse...Whos the troll? and who has the sob story..
Ok, guess u neeed more facts..
yes, Im older than her..but Im not an old fat slob..Im super fit, gym daily, tri-athlete, snowboard, fly airplanes,yada yada, ..live in LA..usually date models or grad students at UCLA..
her..yes, she could use the financial stability..single mom..(big surprise)..but we really hit it off ( or she deserves an oscar)
so..has anyone here done it? and what happened?
I don't usually flame people but, dude, you are just too much. You tell us you're "rich." You modestly point out you're "super fit...fly airplanes, yada, yada...date models." Who are you trying to impress? Get over yourself. The basic question was lame enough without all your alleged personal bullshit.
Ok, guess u neeed more facts..
yes, Im older than her..but Im not an old fat slob..Im super fit, gym daily, tri-athlete, snowboard, fly airplanes,yada yada, ..live in LA..usually date models or grad students at UCLA..
her..yes, she could use the financial stability..single mom..(big surprise)..but we really hit it off ( or she deserves an oscar)
so..has anyone here done it? and what happened?
Yes I done it, and we are still married though she didn't have a kid.
Being poor keeps me sane, oh modesty helps to.... Good luck $.
no 1st hand expierence
Ok, guess u neeed more facts..
yes, Im older than her..but Im not an old fat slob..Im super fit, gym daily, tri-athlete, snowboard, fly airplanes,yada yada, ..live in LA..usually date models or grad students at UCLA..
her..yes, she could use the financial stability..single mom..(big surprise)..but we really hit it off ( or she deserves an oscar)
so..has anyone here done it? and what happened?
I'm going to skip the story. My wife is a former escort. But what I would recommend is a nice long 1 year courtship during which time she abstains from escorting, lives in the same place as you, and is maintained stably. Then you can see how it works out for you. Maybe she'll be fine, maybe not. But IMHO, it is too early for you to start crowing.
But, right now I am enjoying the ride.
But if you married her just for the sex you marriage won't last. Marriage is about love and commitment first and foremost. Looks wane, fights will come up, and sometimes the sex even fades. If she married you for your money and/or you married her just for the sex, I feel for you both as your both going to get hurt. But if you both married because you both really love each other and have the same values and goals it can work.
Post up a link of her and we will play the rating game.
Mostly because I don't really think marriage is a great thing in general. To your question, I know of 3 or 4 that I could refer to. One of them is currently having problems likely leading to a breakup. I suppose that's a better statistical record than the general population.
Phil says "I don't think marriage is a great thing", and that's his opinion from marrying anyone. Which is really the point - "What is right for you?"
I laugh because most of my girlfriends (who are not escorts), have slept with more men than me, taken more gifts and/or bills paid, had sugardaddies cheating on boyfriends/husbands, gotten drunk and slept with strangers. I've never taken a stranger home from a club. I've had one 1-night stand, and he stalked me for 3 months. It was my last.
One thing I also noticed, the more involved and devoted a woman is/seems in her man, the more likely she is to go crazy (like stab you with a pen crazy), when things go bad in a relationship.
I don't think the main factor is "escort", but rather the content of the lady's character. Because someone could deny a guy because he has seen and escort just as easily. I mean people marry abusers, cheaters, lairs, thiefs and even salesmen. A marriage is about the two people involved and no one else.
As for being rich enough for an escort - hmmmm - again how superficial a woman is has nothing to do with her being an escort or not.
Personally, I know that money does not make a man, butshiny things do make it easier to ignore his BS. However, eventually that gets old.
I think it is just a lease.
Since I'm not rich like you I keep hoping a hot top high end provider will fall in love me with....marry me and support me the rest of my life..LOL.....BTW...pretty sure your post is BS but if not I'm wondering. Do you really think your babe is ever gonna be all yours??
Only one escort that I ever heard of who married and never escorted again... Eva Peron..... a/k/a Evita.
But, you aren't a world leader, so YMMV.
Chuck
Just curious about what effect being married would have on her rates.
No, Richie Rich, I've never married an escort and I wouldn't for most of the obvious reasons. I get your braggadocio, but I wouldn't trade your wife for my GF and she's got a lot less mileage on her. I think she can fuck too, so we lay in bed and watch movies, and it doesn't cost me anything. You got your girl because of your money, right? If she isn't working and you lose your fortune and you'll be begging her to get back to the office.
We never married, but for all intents and purposes the only difference between us and a married couple was a piece of paper, we were together for so long that it's technically a common law marraige in my state.
How'd it turn out - it's over. That has little to nothing to do with escorting.
Since you're so rich I assume she's done with the business now, so your question seems kind of irrelevant. If not then it must be because she likes fucking other guys. As long as your cool with that it's a moot point, if not, you'll be one miserable SOB. Aside from that, all you have to worry about is the dozen or so other things that can destroy a relationship.
in addition to the "special" challenges involved with entering an LTR with a provider, there are also every other challenge faced by every other couple.
My batting average with providers is the same as with non providers, every relationship ended at some point, for some reason. Speaking strictly for myself, I can say my "post breakup" relationships with providers has been better than with Civvies. I have no idea if this is relevent, but it has been my experience.
But I had to sign the prenup. She makes twice as much as I ever will!
BTW- that story is as real as yours.
After having so many different guys, will she ever really be satisfied with just one? (ie: Will monogamy be boring and unsatisfying?) Will she stray back into providing from time to time, perhaps out of anger at you for something? Will you wonder when other men look at her if they have been with her? Will you wonder about that if she looks at another guy? Could some provider-client memories become so distasteful as to later make her reject sex entirely? Might some be so arousing as to make her look up former clients? Will you trust her when you're out of town and cannot reach her by phone? How about when she doesn't answer the phone during the day while you're at work? Would you feel comfortable leaving her in the house alone with another guy? (a friend, repair man, pool boy etc...) Will this stuff drive you crazy?
Perhaps she is a terrific lady who would never hurt you in a million years, but these are just some of the things I would consider in your position. There are others too, but you get the point. The mind does crazy things to people. Even if none of those things happen, would you worry abouit them?
These seem like your insecurities about women/providers, not his.
Some people are incapable of having a "relationship" with a provider, you and the OP both fit that bill. You, because you think all providers are sluts and that retired providers are just repressed sluts. The OP because he is just completely full of shit, I don't believe a word of what he says.
Damn dude. I'll put you down for a 'never in a million fucking years'.
No offense, but if you folks are representing to never having given this stuff any thought, you're either lying or lack the analytical ability to evaluate the situation for what it is. Insecurities are a fact of life and some circumstances fuel them more than others. Now, she may be a great lady who can successfully quel any such insecurities. I alluded to that in my previous post. For the record...I don't view providers in the negative context some of you have described. We're all just people.
Thanks for one of the only honest replies here...to the others:
I pointed out I have money so the forum would understand that she has stopped escorting, and I am supporting her, so yes, I am concerned that although she seems real, and what we have seems real, that may be an issue..
I pointed out that i was fit and do cool things, not to brag, but so the forum would undertand that we have /do things in common and Im not some 90 year old guy buying her affections..
And I know Former.Hitman, GaGamblerssmarterbrother and LuckyIrishPrick are also likely telling the truth as I believe them to be straight shooters, even when I don't agree with them. I am married to a provider that retired before I married her and later she has returned to the business and is now providing again. There are things though in my marriage and my wife that likely is not true with you and your fiancée that caused her return to the business.
Thing is if you are marring her for her performances in your paid sessions you likely don't know her that well as these sessions are at least part fantasy. If you really know and love her and she really knows and loves you, great, providers are just women who have a job that involves sex. Things should be fine if you have common values. If not it will not end well, just like with any other woman.
My advice is go slow. Make sure it is real. You seem to have doubts and that is what worries me about how this will end. Do you trust her? If not rethink this. Do you know her bad traits and not just her good ones? If not you don't know her well enough. Do you know her wants, dreams and values and do you share them? If not you are not a match. Are you willing to sacrifice for her? If not you will hurt her. Do you really love her? If not, when you lust for her fades you will have nothing to sustain your relationship.
If the answer is yes and her answers are yes as well then marry her she is the one for you. The fact she used to be a provider has nothing to do with it. Take it from someone who married to a provider, providers are no different than any other woman out there as long as she is leaving the business and you can not judge her by her former job.
I wish you both well. It can work. I am happy I met and married my wife. This Valentines my wife and I will have been married six years and I love her more today than I did when I married her. I have no plans of leaving. It can work, just like it can with any other woman. Take care.
I met an amazing girl that made me feel like nobody else has ever made me feel. And the feeling was mutual. She was just getting started in the business (on the very high end) and had only seen a couple of guys before I told her how I felt and she quit so we could make our relationship work. I am not supporting her, she doesn't ask me for anything.
I had never in a million years expected this to happen to me, and I never thought I'd ever consider marrying for a second time. But here I am.. As for how it will turn out, who knows? But we're both mature enough to know that relationships need work and we're both prepared to put in the effort.
And yes, I stopped hobbying as well.