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Why do my ATFs and other providers rush me when I can't get it up?
mrfisher 112 Reviews 292 reads
posted
1 / 17

and they stayed with it till the mission was accomplished.

You need to find better providers, clear and simple.

They are out there.

tinky-winky 178 reads
posted
2 / 17
SomeHumorName 1587 reads
posted
3 / 17

Ok, I haven't had an issue getting it up, and one pop a day these days is all I can handle. But, I like to overindulge myself. This is from my perspective and experience: I like seeing my ATFs cause they provide good service, but, recently, I haven't got it up to its maximum potential cause I pop one too many for the day. And the nerve of their behavior, they seem uninterested, and rushy when I can't get a full erection (just partial erection). They got every right too be uninterested, but damn, I am paying for the service, at least don't try to rush me (I know how long an hour is, and 35-40 minutes ain't no hour) and try to work with the situation--make me feel comfortable or something. I just want them to keep on sucking mr.limp dick, or at least try or something, and we all know that having a partially erect john makes it impossible to penetrate. This even goes with the other non-ATF's I've seen recently. Anyways, those are my conclusions as to why providers modify their behavior when a guy can't get it up--is it because they can't work with mr.limp? Why? I am paying good money here, at least pretend and suck mr.limp and let him try push his bent limp dick in your vagina. Why can't a man do this? Providers, tell me why please? And Johns, any input would be helpful. Thanks.

--Mr. onlyLimpsWhenHeBust1tooMany

That`sMr.PrickToYou 300 reads
posted
4 / 17

After popping.  This is the reverse oF Multiple Shots On Goal.  You're not paying for her time, you're paying to get laid during her time with you.  If she's any good, she'll give you two pops or more per hour, BUT YOU HAVE TO HOLD UP YOUR END OF THE BARGAIN BY BEING ABLE TO HAVE THOSE POPS.

When you're done being able to fuck she should be done with you.  



ThatsMrManginaToYou 275 reads
posted
5 / 17

Actually, you ARE paying for her time, as virtually every provider's web site makes clear. Amazing that you don't get that.  But if you're having trouble performing (and don't want to take the blue pill), take a break.  Sip some wine, watch a porno, chat with her about stupid shit.  Any decent provider will be happy to do it.  I do agree, expecting her to suck on your limp noodle for a half hour straight is a bit much.  Both players need to be thoughtful.  But there is a happy medium.  "When you're done being able to fuck she should be done with you," ain't it.  Totally unacceptable.  As I said, there are alternatives.  
Just one gutless alias to another.
PS: I would have been happy to respond to this post with my handle, but if you're going to post with an alias, well, you'll get an alias posting back. Just my policy.

scoedthemangina 186 reads
posted
6 / 17

We are paying for her time, and for her to provider an experience. This experience we are paying for is often sexual in nature, but it doesn't have to be. I have had sessions I choose not to do anything sexual. I was not rushed.

If the OP was not able to preform, he is still entitled to the time he payed for. It isn't fair to expect her to suck on a limp noodle for an hour, but to expect her to spend the whole time making him feel special is fair. She is being well paid to do so.

If I was him I would find a new ATF. Shorting of time, unless a real emergency happens, is not acceptable.

Yes, this is scoed. Using an alias for the fun of it.

Claudius42310 13 Reviews 208 reads
posted
7 / 17

i work much better to repeat on a slow sensual tease. my faves understand that and don't rush. ladies that i repeat with less often don't seem to be able to adjust their behavior. i don't know why but possibilities to consider include:

1) THEY like it fast and furious and are impatient
2) they think that an athletic sporty performance is ALWAYS more effective regardless of what you say
3) they think i am so old, fat, and disgusting that they just have to try to get it all over as quickly as possible
4) many others

BUT speculation about THEIR reasons is fruitless and nonproductive. just find ladies whose style is compatible with your situation.

in my first year i was under the mistaken impression that due to age and health issues i was a one shot guy. now, older and even less healthy, i discover that i can complete a trifecta. keep trying. move beyond the rushers and the quitters and find some real faves.

That`sMr.PrickToYou 184 reads
posted
8 / 17

But you're full of shit If you think this is anything to do with time Other than her short changing you if you can still get it up.

You're the kinda guy that would pay her to play TwiddlyWinks for the hour because its "your" hour. That's what Manginas do.

Look if it takes 15 minutes foreplay and to get ready for the main act, I half hour or so to complete the main act, and 15 minutes to relax and get ready to go, then that's fine.  But that's not what he describe, and I was responding to what he described. According to his description she should be sucking on his limp dick for ten of the last minutes. Even! a Mangina like you has to admit that that's wrong.

SugarDaddyDaddy 131 reads
posted
9 / 17
DCgirl 161 reads
posted
10 / 17

Since you're having an E.D. problem you need to talk to her about it.  

There are things you can do to make your sessions more enjoyable.  ie: If she uses a female condom you can have intercourse with a partial erection.  We all know you can still cum with or without a full erection.  And BTW you are not alone.  Many men are in the same situation you are in.

Good Luck.  Communication is the key.  Or maybe you just need to see a different provider.

ReaganMoore See my TER Reviews 209 reads
posted
11 / 17

If your ATF gets you up, gets you going, and gets you gone, then obviously nothing wrong with her or her abilities. Now we have established the issue is all on your end.

If you want MSOG, then book the time you need to get there. Book 6 hours, or an overnight. Book what your body takes to recover. You love Ice Cream, but you cant eat 3 gallons at a sitting. However I bet you could over a 24 hour period. If your body requires chemistry to perform, then you really should take that into account. You cant gripe about the companion if she had no problem in round one and now YOU have an issue.

I will agree that no matter what your condition, the amount of time you book is petty much sacred. If you book an hour the you should get the full hours of attention. If you book six the same should apply.

Finally since your posting behind an alias I cant put any credibility into your post. And since you cant be credible here I wonder if your credible with your companions. Do you tell them you have an issue? Do you discuss the issue with them along with your expectations and desires? Perhaps you would find that spice is the variety of life. Your companion may be able to increase your arousal and your reaction to that arousal by changing up the routine. Instead of treating your companion like an orifice with an egg timer strapped to it, appeal to her experienced and thoughtful side. Are you talking to her and telling her that yes thats good but what I really need is a banana up my butt (extreme example I know, but it is what it is).

Contrary to popular belief, good companions want you to not just hit goal, but to have a great time. Thats what customer service is all about. It creates the brand, and image of the companion. Those are the building blocks of repeat customers. And we love repeat customers.

ThatsMrManginaToYou 150 reads
posted
12 / 17

Did you even read my post carefully?  Guess not.  You also didn't read the OP's post carefully either.  He said he couldn't get it up, remember?  Or is it just that you write so poorly no one can understand what you're saying?
As for me, I don't play "TwiddlyWinks" (and thanks for adding the extra "w," dummy) because I don't need too.  Yesterday I fucked my ATF for an hour straight.  What did you do, tough guy?  Beat off, most likely.
Hint:  try taking some remedial writing and reading comprehension courses.  Until you do, STFU.

That`sMr.PrickToYou 174 reads
posted
13 / 17

You write, Ms. Mangina. You couldn't imagine how many drivers I poised off while typing the reply to you.  But that's OK, I'm a Prick.

Listen up fuckwad, I read your post. You talked some shit about that it IS Paying for time, and then used the provider websites as support. What are you, a fucking idiot?  We pay for sex.

If she's good, you pay for 2 or more pops per hour. If she's one and done, you should only book a half hour.  This guy goes in for an hour knowing he won't pop twice and bitches when she's done with him after the pop. That's pathetic in my book.  Either take longer as you and I suggested, or take off when done.

Prick like tone and language because you called me an alias tough guy and I didn't want to disappoint. And because I'm a Prick.

ThatsMrManginaToYou 166 reads
posted
14 / 17

Note to self:  Mr.Prick is really easily upset and lots of fun to piss off.  
No surprise "fuckwad" but you missed my point.  Most providers' sites say you are paying for their time and no sex is promised or implied.  Now, we know that's not really true.  Duuuuhhh.  But my point is, you're paying for the full hour no matter how you choose to spend it.  A provider who gets frustrated with somebody's limp dick and cuts him short ain't holding up her end of the deal.  How can you not get that?  I'll tell you what, dickbreath, you find a provider with a legit handle on this board who will back you up -- or shut the fuck up.  I bet you can't.  Because no decent provider who's been paid for an hour (or any amount of time) will bail on a guy because he can't get it up again.  If you're so damn sure of yourself, find me one who agrees with you.  I dare ya.  Bet you don't even try because you know you can't, asshat.
Now, please, stop texting while driving before you stuff your little Toyota into somebody's nice Mercedes (*note steam comng from Mr.Prick's ears*)

Pinchi 11 Reviews 196 reads
posted
15 / 17

If you've been busting all day, and you know you only got one left in the tank, don't rush to it. A great buildup will lead to a more satisfying finish.

As far as trying to force a limp dick in her, I hope no provider ever allows that. That's a great way to lose a condom and spread disease...

HaleyOrlando See my TER Reviews 145 reads
posted
16 / 17

I have always said it's the journey that is the most and longest part of the ride and should be taken the extra mile if possible. Many men can't get off at all but still enjoy the foreplay and the closeness of a women. Getting off is great but it only takes a minute and it's done. I'm not saying it isn't one great big rush but for those who don't get there a long lasting sensual tease can be the pleasure they seek.

Speak up and tell these ladies what you enjoy. Let them know it is not so important that you get hard but it is important to be pleasured for every exciting minute you spend together . Let them know your not frustrated or getting tired and give directions when need be.

Kisses Haley

STOLGUY 24 Reviews 266 reads
posted
17 / 17

Take the offensive - never let someone "try" to get you hard.  You get yourself hard.  Don't give her a friggin break:  rub her back, smack her ass, kiss her neck, suck her toes - do "some damn thing" other than laying there thinking about it.  If you do it ain't gonna happen.  Taking the offensive at least gives you a fighting chance......

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