At least 6 to 10 months ago; I had a client who got caught up in a moment of passion during our session---that he asked me to call him "MY BOYFRIEND". Due to the fact that he did not feel comfortable with being called a "CLIENT". Well, I have left him several voicemail after our session and after a few days of thinking about the whole incident. I told him in a nut shell that I did not feel comfortable with calling him "MY BOYFRIEND" for several reasons. First reason is that he was married for 20 years and has 2 kids(MAIN REASON) and the second is that he knew from the start that this is a business transaction between us. Don't get me wrong!!!!!!
 If he was single without kids, then yeah I would have let it go further to see which direction it went. Fast forwarding to our conversation an hour ago. He apologized. He also said that he got caught up in the moment of passion.  So, it appears that we are on good terms and we are back to where we started.

after an appointment because he asked you to call him your boyfriend?You are worried about him being married and with kids but yet you call him many times imo was just fantasy talk during a session?
Very weird.

I take it this is a regular you see often?

Some people call it dateing or a date it better than " clients" meaning sex for $$ and a "boyfriend" where you know a lot about each other. Most of these women have a sad story through I like herring the good story it a real turn on when she tell me how she got her DL back and life turn around. If you call him boyfriend it could put you at a legal risk if pull anything also a client is bad because it prostitution so a date is the term most like. That only if have tell someone in public like checking in. For me it mostly putting dick in pussey sucking face there should be no calling anyone anything.

Sometimes when you get along with someone your hobbling with the lines start to get blurred. Respect of a providers boundaries is what I try to remind myself when getting into session with a provider who I start to hit it off with on a personal level.

I'm with you. I'm not sure the point of this post.

I think we have heard this before

I'm glad to read that you've worked it out. It's ok to luv your client or provider. Just don't mistake it for Love.

More customers, this would not be the big deal you're making it, and you would not come across as desperate. BUT . . . Hooray!  You got your customer back. We're all so happy for you.

I said that if it makes them feel more in the mood, to have at it.

have called me their "part-time" boyfriend.  I'm cool with that limitation. Lol

For one gal that I knew very well, it was ok to say just about anything in session, including an ILY to maximize the fantasy, but we never let it creep into any OTC time, emails, or texts.

turns into a RL relationship, and that's a different animal.  Just going out OTC with my regulars occasionally because I earned enough reward miles, that's when they would half-jokingly say I'm their part-time boyfriend.

I think the key to this post is the last part where she states, "If he were not married............."  Guessing the OP has some feelings for the dude, hence the rambling post.

I find much more erotic.  If I was looking for a GF I would be on another site.  Daddy is more appropriate as it involves the transfer of cash which would be true in a parent / child relationship and correlates better with this business.  Just sayin.

Hence the emoticon. I did not answer her question because there didn't seem to be one and she seems to already know it's not meant to be.  

...this back when it happened.

As my world turns, if any Gal I was intimate with  called me Daddy I'd feel like I was transported  
  to  West Va. or worse, Arkansas.
     When I was late thirties my GF a hot early twenties stripper from Arkansas asked me for 500 bucks to buy Christmas presents, I informed her I'm not  her Daddy.
     She said her Daddy left her Mom and ran away with her sister after she caught them fucking.  
     Some of the TMI,  strippers have told me I'd like to forget.  

I'm fine with that too.

GFE - Girlfriend Experience

default term used by almost every Kgirl I ever saw during the first session.

ago did you leave West Virginia?

Are married. Not being a smartass, Im just saying personally I don't judge. If it's not your thing it isnt. If those were the kind of request I got I would probably be jumaing up and down. A client that wants to be called a boyfriend for an hr doesn't seem painful. I've had ppl that want me to call them My husband, I don't and I'm actually engaged. If I were to put so much weight of words I wouldn't be able to read the boards lol.  

is that I'm glad it worked out between you and the "client" and hope if it ever happens again, you can resolve it sooner.