Anyone else experience this?  You start a LTR with a Escort, She want's out of the business.  So she pulls her ads down and you supply her with $$ to complete her degree and keep her lifestyle in tact. Then you see a ad that resembles her and you check it out and its her, along with reviews and all... She admits that she place the ad but it was to catch me, then i start reading the reviews...lol And so who do I beleive the escort or the reviews?

What is it in the reviews that makes you so sure it is her? If she really is back in there should be more evidence than similiar pics/reviews.

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aren't you? If you think you are exclusive with her, I've got some swamp land I'd like to sell you....

"No, really, I just placed that ad to test you. Our relationship is so important that I just had to know".

Wake up and smell the coffee.

some providers will take well meaning guys for rides.  Most are sincere and either wouldn't lead you on or would stick to their word.  

But unfortunately, looks like you got taken.

I gots to tell you - true story - I was smitten by two providers.... at different times over the past 4 years... one, I told my feelings to - and her response - well, schedule more time, next time...  

And the other?  she pretended not to hear....

so What do you think?!  

here is what I think, I got off lightly...

have a buddy schedule time with her... and see if she takes the bait!?

You've got to be kidding. Please tell me you're kidding. If you fell for that, you didn't get ripped off, you got what you had comin'. If you want an LTR, try a dating service.

Let this be a warning to all the guys out there who want an LTR with an escort. It still costs money and it's likely that you'll be paying even more than the guys who are enjoying her when you are not around. Sure, there's nothing wrong with helping someone out, but this guy was obviously smitten and his brain turned off somewhere between in and out. I don't think he's got a screw loose, I think he's in love with her and expected that love was somehow going to be returned. It's the classic instance where the hobbyist can't discern between fact and fiction and she was playing his fiddle (pun intended) from the very beginning.

Rod, this is a lesson for you. Learn from it. Never pay an escort unless it is for 'clocked' time with you. You won't get into these situations. The decent escorts won't let this happen.

It is ok in my book to help family out monetarily, but to help anyone else out that way unless you are really loaded, just has a big red target across the face and heart.

...I happen to have some fine, luxery swampland for sale.  I really hate to sell it, but my grandmother needs a hip operation.  Thank you and God Bless.

What were you doing perusing escorts? Or were you just "looking"? Doesn't seem like you're about to keep it in your pants either. Once a hobbyisit...always a hobbyists. It works both ways. Stupid girl for dating a hobbyists. Stupid you for dating an escort. Hang on...I'd say it's a perfect match.

On one of the surveys it asked the education level of the members of this site.38% have phd/masters and 44% have a bachelors.I find it hard to believe that even a person with a hs diploma would fall for supporitng these women just to be exclusive.In my past experiences with ltr's with providers is i never gave tham money for thier lifestyle,the money i did spend on them was the same as wold spend on any woman (civvy or pro)that i was dating.Never pay thier rent,school,cc bills,utility's,ect.I can't believe how gullible some of these "higher educated people" are.Just my 2 cents....

Sorry for the sloppy spelling,I just woke up.....

does it come with a provider?

snicker scicker....

somehow you have equated having an advanced degree with intelligence and earning potential...

let me help you there.  Spending ALL the time on "Book" learnin... well ya don't gets much street smarts... now do ya.  Ya know in those protected ivy halls....

But those that stay in dem halls, well, there are sharks in dem halls.... too!

awwwww  BizzaroSuperdude, come here and let me kiss it and make it allll better..

 Sidney Starr

 P.s.  I think she lied by the way, she is still a lady of the night

yea, pretty sure she lied... but hey, dudes do that too... lie that is.!!! lol!

And I'll bet you totally believed her when she said you were the best she ever had.  Whatdya expect from a guy who thinks he is the "rodofrapture"?  ROFLMAO

That is very true.  they won't - read my response... as I said - I was very vulnerable and BOTH of these ladies (and they are ladies) kept it real.  Even though they may have had other emotions, they were the honest ones.  For that thanks.  

And by the way, it is NOT ok to help family out monitarily.   unless it is a gift.  Again, big red target.

...the number of reviews you have. Sweet man. This industry/community/klan is like any other - i.e. opportunists!

If you plan to play remember the golden rule – Arm's length with everyone! Love them but never trust them completely. Have fun until the fun expires. When the fun fades, move on to fun with another!

Don't mean to sound jaded but this hobby is all about the new and undiscovered. While we all have our ATF and those we'll never forget we all still continue to hit the path called NEW!

xo
Laney

That was well said.  and true.  

perhaps I should stitch it in a doilie and hang it over my bed!

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I thought the purpose of meeting with an escort and vice versa was that our respons. to eachother   is for a moment in time- I think you messed up when you gave any women money that did not earn it- and when you cared if she was still an escort or not. Sad that she is a liar though, about anything- again obv. not only unworthy of your money but also your time!
I would find some more trustworthy less money hungry Escorts.
Tracey xoxo

-- Modified on 3/26/2007 2:36:57 PM

Someone just emailed me the link to this post.  I haven't been on here in a quite a while as I am no longer providing.  While I am not excusing the lady for continuing to work while you had an "agreement" I have to ask....what was the reason you were perusing escort ads?  You had to be looking closely at a lot of ads to come up with her new identity.

This is the reason I believe escort and hobbyist relationships do not work out.  In this case both of you let the ball drop. - Lia