I know everyone is intitled to their opinions. I also know Im not the most beautiful women out there. But I believe true beauty is internal and Im happy with who I am and what I look like. So why do people have to be so mean. Don't hey have anything better to do?
Below is an email I recieved while on a 2 week vacation with my responce below it....  Just looking for opinions and thoughts.

This question has been asked over and over again.  Who can accurately catalogue all the reasons people have no manners.  But I will share one reason I am very confident of.  Some slimy, small-minded men, who have no prospect of every getting any respect from anyone, love to hide behind their computers and spew insults.

That was my thought too...You are 100% right on that... Thank you

Thank you. I do want to clarify that Im not upset at all because I am happy with me.  I just dont understand Why people want to be so mean. .... That and I have not posted in a long time and thought this would be a good topic of discussion

Perhaps, a person looking for a discount, hoping that they hurt your self esteem, obviously they would try to book under a much nicer persona.  

Hi Jen,

I looked you up...you're an attractive woman who obviously excels at your type of services...your reviews vary widely on your appearance scores but are much more consistent on performance...what people find attractive is far from universal...

It's good to know you're not upset, however the absolute BEST way to respond to ignorance is NOT TO. You shouldn't have even taken the time out of your lovely day to respond!  

Hi There

I get where you're coming from etc etc... but if you're always booked up, why do you care  
about this never-will-be client?  

There is a huge difference between exchanging insults on a discussion board and the message that Jenna received.  

shoulda just ignored it.

Hi Jenn,
Anyone who could say things like that must really hate themselves and it's easier to sling that hatred at other people. You're a convenient target for his own self-loathing. The best any of us can do is have pity for someone like that and move on with our lives, reminding ourselves of our own value and strength. I'm sorry you were a target, but it's not about you. You're doing great. Go kick some ass!
Much love!

"Dear sir, I honestly don't remember you, but I do seem to recall a short, pudgy, balding gentleman with a little tiny 2 inch weiner with a rather strong odor about him, that wasn't you by chance, was it? I am sorry, but even us old fat hookers have standards. I hope you find what you are looking for, but PLEASE stop looking here"

Very good point. I didnt think about it that way. :-

Sooner or later, many ladies get that kind of insulting crap in our mailboxes. So please know it's not just you.  
 
As others have suggested, it's probably best to not reply at all.   Block that person from emailing you again and immediately delete the message so you're not tempted to respond.  

I don't know if this is appropriate but Miss Moore you are DELICIOUS!!!!

It really sounds like a pissed/jealous provider.
IF I even responded at all, I would have told them..."if you don't want to fuck me, you can always go fuck yourself!"  
Chin up babe, haters will hate and they are just miserable with themselves really.
XOXO,  
TL

But I don't want to lump people into catagories.   Don't worry or fret about it; he does not define who you are, only you can do that.

it was mean & nasty...  the person went out of their way to insult you.  How totally RUDE!  They are entiltled to their opinion but there's no reason to write it down to sent it.  Since the message says 'cock-blocking' I'll suggest that it's a guy who was refused services that were not on the menu.  Frankly, every provider has the absolute right to run her business as she feels right...  including the menu.  There are always some guys trying to get something for nothing.  Put them on your No Not See list.      
The first visit is always something of a gamble on both sides.  
I had one just the other day...  It was an experience but although she was nice, it just was not a good fit.  No ill will.  Just moving on as they should.        

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I used to weigh 420 pounds. Over the last three years I have been dieting and excersizing. Now I weigh 205 pounds and am thrilled.  

Chalk it up to him being an idiot and forget about. Ive just read sone of your reviews and you seem to be doing fine. And I think you are cute. I dont want to soubd naive but can you tell me what he meant by " cock block"?

At 205 you could have chased down the little fucker and beaten the crap out of him. lol

Right there with you, brother...down to 198 from 403...and the amount of shit I took from people over the years is astronomical...

But if I did, it would have been over. He was basicly a twig and I bet he would be just as easy to break in two. But I bet that was what he wanted. Feedback and to make me like him. Always ignore the true assholes of the world whenever possible.

Surgery or no, it isn't easy.

and all the other surgical procedures I plan on having someday whenever I need them to stay looking young, Some dipshit will say "he only looks young because of all the surgery he's had" at that point I will most like be in my 70's and me and all my thirty something girlfriends will laugh at the dipshit for the loser he is (or will be) lol

I am sorry you had to receive that. But you know what? I just looked at your pics and I think you are being too hard on yourself. You have nice hair. Nice face. Why not make some improvements to your look for you, not the haters? A new 'do, some hotter clothes and some body improvements and I think you could be one of the better looking girls you refer to. Unless you are happy now than just be you!

You were kind to even reply to that loser. There are many like him, cowards who hide behind their keyboards. Just ignore it and move on Jenn. Not worth getting upset over.

LMAO!  I'd say that's more like an "internet piñata."
Not to mention being unable to tell the difference between having words on the boards with another poster, and sending a woman a nasty, hurtful email out of the blue.
Personally, while I have insulted lots of losers, I have never said a mean word to a woman here.  Not once.  Unless the poster in question is actually a woman.

Look we put ourselves out there being providers. I don't expect everyone to find me attractive and I am OK with that. I love myself, have a great heart and mind and I like what I see when I look into the mirror. I am not going to place any significance on what anyone thinks of my looks. Why would I?  

I am a Professional Sales Rep and learned a long time ago that not everyone is going to love you.  Close to 25 years of outside sales, for every negative situation I have encountered, the next 99 are much more positive.

...I think most of us know just by reading the original E-MAIL who composed these stupid mean spirited words. Although this is just one more example from this idiot, because this is an open forum & I guess he still has a right to post here, I guess it's up to the rest of us to ignore him.

Skill I learned from a camp leader when I was in elementary school. It works. Takes time to make it convincing, but people give up when they know you are just going to agree and move on. No emotional support to their strategy.