If you have an ATF but you want to see another girl thru the same booker as your ATF,will the booker tell your ATF about it?

and I doubt seriously that you are important enough for the booker or the hooker to even care.

bookers just fucking love drama..so do you..

I can see it coming, he's going to get roasted.

They don't usually do that, at least I don't think they do.

It is not a dumb question,if your like your ATF,you do not want her to know that you see another girl because you can piss her off and there goes you ATF.As the time goes by while your are seen another girl and not your ATF,she will notice that and she could ask her booker if in fact you are seen another girl and is possible that the booker could tell her,think about that!!!

They will keep your secret!

She's your ATF you are not her ATF.

They do not want you falling for them. They need you to keep this in prospective. This isn't an SO arrangement. They don't care if you see other sex workers as a rule and if she does RUN. Nothing good will come of it. So I ask again who cares if a favorite sex workers finds out that your doing others? They assume that you are seeing others, trust me, and many are hoping you are seeing others as fixated clients are not good.

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Do yourself a favor and stop seeing your ATF. You are clearly fixated on her and it won't end well. Dude she fucks you because you pay her NOT because she likes you.  

Depends on the booker.

Especially the stars/flagship girls of the agency. And I wont be surprised that the girl can just ask the booker about who and who and get info. Sort of like a star employee of the office, its natural they get very tight with the boss. These girls won't do much with it though, very mature and professional.

I was fixated with my most recent ATF, fixated to a point I never aked her to run away with, or even asked her out on a date, as I assumed she wouldn't be interest in dating a client. I think I saw her all of about ten times in a four month span. Any way, she sure performed with enthusiasm.

Clearly not the same thing

Also he only has one review. How many do you have even with all your other handles?

why money and liking somebody have to be mutually exclusive? providers are human too and have feelings as well...while the chances are for her it is a just business transaction, does not mean she cannot develop emotional attachment to somebody...

when somebody i really liked and connected with on emotional level asks me for references to see another providers or reviewed somebody else since he saw me....i do give out references since it is to make the hobby safer for everybody, but i cannot help the way i feel...i am still human and have emotions...i am not a just a plastic doll with holes, sometimes i wish i could completely isolate emotions and work, makes life much easier

When you want to see a new provider, who are you going to ask to be a reference?  For me, I know that an ATF will give me an excellent reference.  And she has been especially glad to give a reference for me to her friends or doubles partners.

Honest answer. For mongers who start to get attached, the common advice is, to see other providers because no good will come out of falling for your provider.

But in the end you do realize it is best he sees others right? Of course you ladies aren't sex bots and emotions happen. I am not a robot ether and I care about some of the ladies I have seen but I realize it is in both my and their best interest that we both see others. And tell me do you want guys to become romantically and emotionally attached? And in the cases you do feel a bit jealous doesn't his seeing others help keep the lines in place for you? And you admit you even help them see others by giving references even with feelings. I didn't mean to imply that the ladies don't have feelings about things just that the vast majority get it and even with feelings know it is for the best. Do you agree with that?

In fact, giving a reference for a great client is gold. He is safe, the hooker he is seeing will be safe and the guy appreciates the thumbs up. I love giving references.

The lady he is talking about is undoubtedly the one woman he has reviewed who is an agency K girl.

The chances of her having any actual feelings for him are almost nil. Just read her reviews, she is just very good at what she does, and the OP is new and dumb. This woman is so popular she has a waiting list to go see her, she doesn't have the time or the inclination to even miss him if he doesn't show up for a couple of weeks, much less ask her booking agent if he's been seeing other girls.

i do not agree 100%...i dated a client before and even though we did not last in a long run, we both have learnt a lot from that relationship and experienced a lot of real emotions and feelings, and that was priceless...not having feelings or attachments makes things easier, but often it is hard to put clear-cut labels on relationships...

i did not know the details of this particular case...but from what you describe, it all makes sense...now i do agree with you

But when they do they aren't a client/provider relationship anymore. I am very close friends with a few ladies I met this way. But the relationship is a friendship with paid benefits more than client/provider one. Another has turn platonic real friends and boss/personal assistant  type and the client/provider relationship is dead. I was speaking of strictly client/provider relationships.  

Probably not, but it depends on the relationship your ATF has with her booker.  

yes, when i started dating my client , it was not client/provider relationship any more even though we both got benefits, and it can never go back to the way it was...so ladies who are only interested in getting paid per hour, it is a not a chance they would want to take....if i did not date him , he would probably still see me every other week till now and i would have safe stream of income, but i have no regrets...it was real relationship and it was beautiful... we are amazing friends now , that is priceless and something money cannot always buy...

... she would have already made recommendations, in case of scheduling conflicts or if she is otherwise indisposed.

attached easier than men.