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nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 2158 reads
posted
1 / 29
hobbiest and proud

hob·by1   /ˈhäbē/  an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure.

someone said they weren't hobbiest ...  well this activity I am proud to call my hobby ..in fact i use that term when talking to friends in real life.     its a pure hobby ... something i enjoy for leisure, focus on for relaxation and desire to learn more from others about this activity.   oh and lets not forget one key item, i spend TONS of my spare cash on it !!  

GaGambler 114 reads
posted
2 / 29
Whore mongering pig, and proud of it

I HATE the term hobbyist, although I really don't mind calling what we do a "hobby"

 
The problem I have with the term hobbyist is that most guys who are self described hobbyists use the term because they are ashamed to just say "I fuck hookers for a hobby" It's kind of like hookers who won't use the word hooker and who get offended if you don't call them by some kind of sanitized term, like "courtesan" or some such shit.  

 
You seem to own the fact that you enjoy fucking hookers, but there are too many guys who try to sanitize or make what they do more politically correct and I never want to be one of those guys. So count me in the camp of guys who quite firmly state that I am NOT a "hobbyist"

AnotherDonJohn 91 reads
posted
3 / 29
I love the hobby!

I’m also a whore fukking pig.  

But never say I’m a pig whore fukker!;)

Robertini 4 Reviews 87 reads
posted
4 / 29
Re: Whore mongering pig, and proud of it

I think I like you CaCa.

But I don't care about the hobbyist label. It's just a way of saying something in the proper settings. You wouldn't say "I'm a whore mongering pig" at the family dining table.

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 102 reads
posted
5 / 29
Label Me Monger

I abhor the term 'hobbyist'. I enjoy the company of prostitutes/$luts/whores/hookers who gladly take my money for boom boom short / mid-range / long time.

 

Car collecting and restoration is a hobby.  Fucking and sucking for mutually beneficial paid exchange is mongering; you're still my monger brothers despite how you label yourselves.

 

YMMV

-- Modified on 2/20/2021 5:53:15 PM

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 90 reads
posted
6 / 29
Who cares,

just don’t call me late for dinner 🤓

AnotherDonJohn 102 reads
posted
7 / 29
Though the linguist Inicky may disagree ...

I don’t think “Monger” is the correct word for us (see Oxford English dict:

1. We don’t deal or broker the trade (eg fishmonger)... ie we’re not pimps or madams, we’re clients

2. Nor do we solely “promote” the activity (eg a warmonger)...again we’re clients.  

So we’re Johns plain and simple.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 98 reads
posted
8 / 29
Don't give a shit about semantics

As long people get that I refer to paying for pussy, I'm happy with whatever term that is used. Monger, hobbyist, John, whatever.

 
I really don't mind  hobbyist because it IS a hobby to the extent many of us consume it. Especially past a certain age when no amount of game will willingly make them fuck you for free.

 
When you factor in the amount o fresearch, discussion, debate and stories spent on this hobby, oh yeah it's a full fledged hobby with my online bros. Lol.

CorbinCandor 105 reads
posted
9 / 29
Re: Whore mongering pig, and proud of it

“…I think most Americans want the same thing.”  

Yeah, it’s called pleasure. (I mean, some may want power, and some may want meaning, but in addition to these, pleasure is the overriding condition that usually includes sexual pleasure, and some will even go to extremes to obtain it.) So, what you do for fun, or hobby? Pleasure seeker—fill in the blank____).

 Of course, this pleasure seeking is different for everyone in the sexual arena, which is not easily measured, if not for all the disagreement and complaints towards provider ratings on TER to what can be considered politically correct with YMMV (but that’s a different thread, or repeat thread many times over). For instance, some get pleasure out of insults, or S&M; others don’t get any pleasure out of them, but there are some in every crowd to what floats the boat, so to speak.

In regards to Gag’s reprimand—not knowing him, but my opinion is based on reading his posts over the years, from straight forward to a hell-bent edgy, especially if he thinks you’re being prissy—maybe after a few shots, he just may be the one to call it as he sees it at the family dining table.

sunnyday1 169 Reviews 90 reads
posted
10 / 29
Re: Label Me Monger

HAHA well said Twoonbro. When I talk to my vanilla friend (who is still like-minded, just doesn't partake in P2P) about my CF or my recent adventures, I refer to my buddies on TER as "my monger buddies" and we talk shop on "the monger forum" (I never name the site don't worry guys).

I don't mind whatever people want to call themselves. But I proudly and hilariously call myself a monger hehe. I'll also call myself a john when I'm feeling monosyllabic. It just gives me a good laugh. On the flipside, another friend has once called me "a trifling whoremonger" in anger. Which also made me laugh my ass off, LOL!

Any other names we missed?

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 92 reads
posted
11 / 29
Au Contraire

A monger is a person who promotes a specific situation, activity or feeling, especially that is undesirable or discreditible.

 
Ding  

Ding  

Ding

 

YMMV

-- Modified on 2/21/2021 1:46:19 AM

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 92 reads
posted
12 / 29
Play Time

P4P --) pay for play

 

 

P2P --) rub a dub dubbing your hard cock against wet pussy

 

YMMV

-- Modified on 2/21/2021 1:55:25 AM

MP67 11 Reviews 93 reads
posted
13 / 29
I just do what I do

If people don't like it that's their fucking problem. I'm not hurting anyone but their sensibilities and if that's the fucking case they can go fuck themselves.  

I have no problem going to sleep at night, and some of you can go fuck yourselves in advance if you're going to bring up any reference as far as drinking, lmmfao!!!

The way I see it is people are partaking on either perspective here. No one's putting a gun to anyone's head and you can pull out, literally and figuratively...

AnotherDonJohn 100 reads
posted
14 / 29
Au Contraire aussi

That is the definition two I cited from Oxford Doctor ... the example being warmonger, where the distinction is the warmonger “promotes” but does not engage in said activity (ie not a soldier).  

Unless you are cheering  not fukking like a cuckold (don’t know u) we are johns:)

AnotherDonJohn 94 reads
posted
15 / 29
In other words, u bot a knife and cut BUT...

Did not delve deeply enough for the Bullet...

So the patient died of sepsis:)

AnotherDonJohn 184 reads
posted
16 / 29
You can use whoremongering as a gerund for the activity ...

When we talk about hookers and are therefore promoting the activity.

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 92 reads
posted
17 / 29
Re: Au Contraire aussi

Go fuck yourself.

 

I don't know U too.

 
I'll settle for let's agree to disagree.  Otherwise, go fuck yourself.

-- Modified on 2/21/2021 8:22:36 AM

inicky46 61 Reviews 85 reads
posted
18 / 29
I don't think you actually go to sleep at night in the conventional sense.

It's more accurate to say you lapse into a mild coma.

inicky46 61 Reviews 96 reads
posted
19 / 29
Regarding the definition of "monger," The Cunning Linguist points out

That word definitions evolve over time. Thus using the word monger to describe a person who partakes in whores is perfectly fine. And certainly better than "hobbyist." Yech.

AnotherDonJohn 100 reads
posted
20 / 29
It ain’t acceptable pop culture until it’s in UD so...

I didn’t see it there so I suggest someone submits it. It takes less time than writing a post here

I know because years ago in the midst of a Roddy Tidwell post fracas, I edited “mangina” on UD and added  a new derivative “Turdwell”.  Unfortunately the handle on UD i had got a TER brother with the same name in trouble (if you’re still around DMMDI, sorry).

AnotherDonJohn 153 reads
posted
21 / 29
Why should I take the draw when you’ve already resigned the game...

Cussing your opponent out and offering a draw. You’d know that because you’re a well known Master-deBater (say that fast without pause)

I’m done with u, turning my back, sheathing my foil, and walking away, so feel free to strike. Lol

inicky46 61 Reviews 158 reads
posted
22 / 29
I'm a UD fan, too, but haven't posted a definition on there in years.

I just checked thinking there'd also be a definition for "Tidwit," but no luck.

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 71 reads
posted
23 / 29
love the term hobby

on more than one occasion i have approached a hot girl and asked  "are you in the hobby"  ... if she isnt , she would just say no and not be offended ...  if she was ..she appreciated the discretion  :)  

Robertini 4 Reviews 76 reads
posted
24 / 29
Re: love the term hobby

Actually I've seen that but by people who use drugs
"Do you party?"

AnotherDonJohn 90 reads
posted
25 / 29
Re: love the term hobby

Have also done this in NYC I believe in the Union Square W. She was.

Posted By: nevertoolarge
Re: love the term hobby  
on more than one occasion i have approached a hot girl and asked  "are you in the hobby"  ... if she isnt , she would just say no and not be offended ...  if she was ..she appreciated the discretion  :)  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 87 reads
posted
26 / 29
Re: love the term hobby

I prefer "very naaice I like, how much?" in my best Borat accent.

WICardinalfan 89 reads
posted
27 / 29
Once past 50

Dirty Old Man might apply.

 
So I will call myself a Dirty Old Man  who plays with sex workers.

I say this only because activities do not always include fucking.

chunking 94 Reviews 104 reads
posted
28 / 29
Re: Whore mongering pig, and proud of it

I'd agree with this. There's cultures where consensual transactional sex (CTS) is part of the landscape, and no big deal, having a penis pretty much makes you a potential participant.

I find it ironic in the year 2021, where nearly anything goes with sexual identity and orientation, that CTS is still frowned upon even here in the "progressive" SF Bay area.  

DT_lover 188 Reviews 100 reads
posted
29 / 29
I live a good % of my time in Hobbyland

hob·by1   /ˈhäbē/  an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure.
That's spot on for me.

Now can someone explain "hobby horse" or "get off your hobby horse"

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