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Who are you chasing?
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 506 reads
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You pay them money, they let you have sex with them.  There is no chase involved. While I would agree that variety is a great reason to hobby the ladies involved still have every right to see only who they want to see.

I am noticing more SP ads that 'prohibit' certain races from contacting the SP. I am curious.... how this affects business....
 As a caucasian hobbyist when u c that add, do u feel better about visiting that SP?
As an (african / asian/latino ) american, do u call and set up the date anyway?

Is the SP limitng the races they see really a matter of personal preference?

If your racist & prejudice of other ethnic cultures as a provider you should state this on your website, so no one waste their precious time.   I do not discriminate, and appreciate disabled gents as well.  African, American, Hispanic, Asian, or Pale Ale it does not matter as long as your a respectful man.

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It's racist, and I think less of the woman in question (and yes, I have seen some black providers set that prohibition on black clients - don't know what that says).  That said, I usually only see it in Backpage ads with no other screening indicated, so it may not be intentionally racist but rather a quick-and-dirty proxy for social status (some providers screen by age for similar reasons, but that lacks the nasty baggage.) Requiring references should be sufficient to screen out guys who will treat a provider badly, whatever race they may be.

but probably some racial stereotyping.  Some gals want to avoid prospective pimps from what I have been told.

Do you limit the races of providers that you based on personal preference?

Never! The hobby thing is about the chase,  the thrill,  the experience is enhanced by being open to all....

You pay them money, they let you have sex with them.  There is no chase involved. While I would agree that variety is a great reason to hobby the ladies involved still have every right to see only who they want to see.

For me, I prefer dealing with Asians, and it's obvious why I feel that way. I don't discriminate per se, but I can tell you most of my best experiences have been with the Asian culture, which leads me to give them top priority when booking.

because they actually are VERY clean, respectful, they tend to tip, they do not ask for everything under the sun for $100.  

 
They generally will  call up or email me ready to set the appt, and know my services and rates.  

Now for the actual SEX part of it, no they are not my favorites.  

I most definitely usually do NOT like the East Indian men... They usually try to negotiate, they have body odor, they almost NEVER do anything in any way to try to please me while together. They mostly are not circumcised

As for African American clients, I see them and do not have any bad feelings.. I have not had a bad experience with a man of that race.  

The only time I have issues with that race is when they call up sounding "street, or pimpish, thugish" I cant explain it... it is a tone, a way they speak...

:yo baby girl, hats good ma, how can I come get at you?"
THOSE types I WILL NOT SEE

Now no matter WHAT race, of they speak to me like we are both adults and they sound professional,  like they have a slimmer of a education, then yes I will see them.  

 
here is the funny thing I have noticed... the majority of my clients are Asian, White and ME... I have MANY guys ask me if I get alot of African American clients... and you know... I DONT!  

They all are like " Black men like thick, white woman with big boobs and a butt!"

Well yes they DO but I almost NEVER get many!  

HOWEVER, i get a TON of them them that hit me up on my personal ads LMA

I judge a man not by the color of his skin, but by the content of his envelope.

Posted By: rrasha88
I judge a man not by the color of his skin, but by the content of his envelope.
 

I like that one!! Haha

so there are no surprises. Besides, I don’t take offense if someone says no but has never happened to me. All I am saying, it doesn’t matter because I am not here to change how someone feels about race and ethnicity.  

Of course it is a matter of personal preference.  

One advantage I have is that my screening is always easy. I am neither white or black.

I've hobbied in a lot of parts of the US and in a couple of foreign countries.  I've had a handful of ladies decline to see me because of my ethnicity.  The other 99% were fine with me just as I am.  To the other 1% I say it's a free world and given the uniquely personal choice that a woman is making when she is intimate with someone I believe she can employ any and all criteria she wishes. Her body her rules. If those rules exclude me I can quietly move on.

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